Through more dialogues, the matchmaker learned that Miss Pan didn't have no idea of falling in love and getting married, and the focus of the contradiction with her parents was that she didn't understand and pay attention to her own love and marriage ideas and needs. "As an excellent modern woman, Miss Pan's mate selection focuses on men's ability, personality and the degree of matching between the two sides, but these are simply' virtual' for traditional parents and elders. Finding an object to look after the house, family conditions and work income is the last word. Therefore, although there have been many blind dates, there are very few that meet Miss Pan's mate selection criteria. " In matchmaker's view, Miss Pan's experience is also the status quo and predicament of marriage and love faced by many singles.
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"Every time marriage counseling is conducted, there will be a large number of singles complaining that parents only care about the hardware conditions of the opposite sex when helping to screen blind date objects, despise the review of each other's looks, personality and behavior habits, and ridicule their parents for being unreliable. In this process of continuous blind date failure, in addition to the unnecessary consumption of time, energy and even economic costs, we are concerned that many single minds are also negatively affected by this constant contact with inappropriate blind date and constant game with parents. " In the case of Miss Pan, the matchmaker pointed out that the fruitless and unpleasant blind date experience with her parents and elders had a negative impact on Miss Pan's self-confidence in marriage and love and her enthusiasm for getting rid of the bill, which added a little difficulty to her way of getting rid of the bill.
Miss Pan also admitted that less than a year after the blind date, she fell into constant doubt about herself. "I am actually an outgoing and easy-going person, but now I am very sensitive. Not only do you have conflicts with your parents and family from time to time, but sometimes you will hurt your friends around you, let alone find someone. My normal socialization is difficult. "
After considering the reality of Miss Pan and her demands for marriage and love, the matchmaker arranged the corresponding psychological counseling course for marriage and love. Help Miss Pan to decompress, analyze and interpret the problems, break through the marriage and love problems and improve the relationship between parents, so as to create a more favorable situation for solving Miss Pan's marriage and love problems. During this period, the matchmaker teacher constantly conducted accurate screening according to Miss Pan's personality and mate selection criteria, and guided the affinity communication throughout the process, so Miss Pan realized her emotional goal faster, and now the relationship is developing smoothly with the support of her parents.