The value of self-discipline

In this world, it seems that every minute someone is setting new goals, such as losing weight, becoming a vegetarian, learning English, getting up early, quitting smoking and drinking, getting promoted, earning more than 10,000 yuan a month and so on. It's very easy for anyone to set a goal, just a flash of thought, but enough self-driving ability-self-discipline.

The author of the psychological work The Road Few People Walk defines self-discipline as: "The so-called self-discipline is to ask yourself to bear the pain and solve problems with a positive attitude."

? So self-discipline is often painful, because you have to give up many tiny desires, which are often easy to satisfy, so I call it cheap indulgence, and then you have to bear the sense of loss that cannot be satisfied.

Adhere to self-discipline and don't indulge yourself, although you have lost a lot of cheap happiness; But the final result of persistence must be bitter and sweet, and the value of harvest must be expensive.

Many people shout to lose weight while eating and drinking; The food is tempting. A dessert, a pizza and a cup of milk tea are not expensive, and the cost of indulgence is too low. People are always willing to buy them.

However, self-disciplined people always exercise, run and eat low-fat and high-protein foods. Faced with temptation, they will never compromise. After a long time, indulgent people are still as heavy, but self-disciplined people are getting more and more beautiful. The effect is comparable to 10 thousand yuan slimming beauty, and they also get health that money can't buy. Although self-disciplined people abandon the desire of "cheap", they get the reward of "expensive".

When indulgent people are still earning cheap wages, while chasing dramas, playing games and attending various parties, self-disciplined people have already earned more than 10,000 yuan a month.

Therefore, the value brought by self-discipline is expensive, even money can't buy it, but everyone has the opportunity to have it.

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Self-discipline makes you more successful.

Li Ka-shing said: "Self-discipline is the necessary ability and condition for those who cultivate their self-cultivation and are determined to achieve great things. I hope everyone can be self-disciplined. "

Eddie Peng Yuyan Swift, a Taiwanese actor, has always played the role of a warm man planned by the company. When his career encountered a bottleneck, he chose a bold breakthrough, from a warm man to a muscular man, and his career became wider and wider. 20 1 1 Shooting "Go to A Xin". He practiced gymnastics 12 hours every day for eight months, successfully shaped the role of gymnast A Xin, was nominated for the Golden Horse Award for Best Actor, and became a first-class student in Taiwan Province Province. When shooting fierce fighting, his figure reached the standard of an athlete, and he also learned skills such as fighting, Thai boxing, Brazilian jujitsu, and locking skills. Shooting "The Rise of Legends", he specialized in learning boxing from a teacher, trained hard for half a year 10 hour every day, and learned the I-shaped fu Hu boxing, tiger crane fists and so on. Shooting against the wind, taking part in professional devil training, practicing riding 120km for 5 or 6 hours every day, riding 1 10000 km, and getting a professional racing driver's license. While filming operation mekong, he learned Thai, Burmese and shooting. I learned how to shoot "Cheng Wei". With his self-discipline and professional attitude, he has successfully created many unforgettable roles.

The story of actress Han Xue learning English is also very inspiring. Although I have made some achievements in acting, I don't need to communicate in English at work. But because of her love of language, she will use her spare time to learn English even if she is busy at work. How self-disciplined is Cecilia Han in learning foreign languages?

He Jiong once recorded a program and warmly invited her to dinner. As a result, Cecilia Han decisively refused, on the grounds that she wanted to go home and review her lessons. She means English class. She persisted in studying every day, and finally let her stand on the stage of the world-famous speech conference ted, share it with the world in English and show others a different self.

Therefore, self-discipline can make you more successful. If you don't discipline yourself, you will accomplish nothing in this life. And people often have to bear two kinds of pain, one is the pain of self-discipline and the other is the pain of regret. You must make a rational choice between the two.

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Self-discipline is a habit.

Liang Hongda, the host of the commentary program, said: "Turning self-discipline into a habit, many people can't do it just because they are not used to it."

Liu Zhichuan, the founder of Lenovo, is known as the godfather of entrepreneurs. His self-discipline is well-known in the industry. Although his career is very successful, he still keeps the habit of self-discipline. In countless meetings for more than 20 years, he was late for no more than five times. Once Liu Zhichuan went to Wenzhou for business exchange. In case of heavy rain, the plane will have to stop in Shanghai. In order to arrive at the meeting place on time, he deliberately took the bus overnight, arrived in Wenzhou around six o'clock the next day, and appeared at the meeting place on time with red eyes.

Li Ka-shing, the richest man in Hong Kong, was born in a scholarly family. He likes reading since he was a child. When he first came to Hong Kong to work hard, he studied English hard in order to better integrate into Hong Kong society. Today, he has become the richest man in Hong Kong, and his career success is well known, but he still adheres to the habit of self-discipline and insists on listening to English news and reading before going to bed every day.

Steve Jobs, the founder of Apple, has the habit of getting up early. He gets up at four o'clock every morning and must finish his work within a limited time. It is this strong habit of self-discipline that makes Jobs lead Apple to design crazy products.

Therefore, successful people maintain the habit of self-discipline all their lives. Although the process of self-discipline is difficult, when habits gradually become a part of your life, everything becomes much easier, because it is difficult for you to lose them again.

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You are covered in fat in the mirror, always criticized for being late for work, ashamed to see your favorite goods, and can only say "hello goodbye" when you see foreigners ... is that what you want?

Learn self-discipline and don't let cheap indulgence ruin your life. Change from now on, turn self-discipline into habit and persevere;

When you get used to it, you will enjoy self-discipline more and more, especially when you find that there are many subtle and beautiful changes in your life.

Believe in yourself, you deserve more praise, a more wonderful life and a more successful life.

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