We often say that marriage is difficult because it involves daily necessities and some housework.

Do you think housework is what women should do? In my opinion, housework is something that both men and women should do. A family has a division of labor, and both men and women, as the masters of this small family, should bear corresponding responsibilities.

Can you accept that your wife does not do housework? He can accept Jian Kang, but his mother-in-law doesn't like his wife being too lazy.

Linlin is the only girl in the family, and the whole family loves and dotes on her. Because of overindulgence. Linlin is a woman with a big temper.

Linlin had a lot of love affairs when she was in college, because many boys thought she had a big temper and couldn't cook. Only Jian Kang has always liked her silently, while Jian Kang has always been tolerant of Linlin and her temper, so Linlin agreed with him.

Jian Kang's mother doesn't like girls like Linlin, but her son does, and Linlin's parents are reasonable people, saying that Linlin will definitely not let her do this after marriage. Two people together for five or six years, midway points a few times, Linlin feel healthy to oneself, also married him.

Their married life is also very harmonious and beautiful, but later Jian Kang's father died, and Jian Kang didn't trust her mother to live alone in the countryside, so she took her to the city. A healthy mother, like all mother-in-law, always has problems with her daughter-in-law, especially Linlin, who doesn't do housework after marriage.

After two or three years of marriage, Linlin still can't cook and doesn't want to wash clothes. Jian Kang does all these things by himself. Although they all went to work, Jian Kang took more care of Linlin. When my mother-in-law came, she felt uncomfortable and felt sorry for her son. She had no choice but to say to her, "Linlin, you can't do nothing at home. Even if you don't have the ancient three obedience and four virtues, you can cook and wash clothes. This is the most basic thing. How can you always let Jian Kang do these things? "

Linlin was very unhappy: "I am willing to do what you do and marry your son. I don't want to be your nanny. I didn't say I couldn't do housework, and your son was willing to marry me. "

Mother-in-law is very angry: "How can you do this? Does your mother do nothing at home? Does your father do all the housework? "

Linlin was too lazy to talk to her, so he simply ignored her. He still couldn't get out of bed in the morning and didn't pick up dinner.

The mother-in-law who loves her son undertakes all the housework. Every morning, she gets up early to cook for both of them. I have to help them wash clothes and tidy up their home. After a long time, Jian Kang felt sorry for his mother.

02.

One night, Linlin came back and threw a pair of underwear for her mother-in-law to watch TV. Jian Kang was a little angry when he saw it. "You are not very tired at work. Why don't you go wash your underwear? Let my mother have a rest. "

"Just wash an underwear, how tired can it be? And my mother has nothing to do at home all day. What happened to washing my underwear? "

"How can you not be tired? My mother is old, and she does all the housework by herself. If you don't help, can you stop it? "

"Wrong? Can't you help me wash an underwear? This mother-in-law is really good, then I will wash it myself. " Linlin went to the bathroom and said to her mother-in-law, "Your son said he wouldn't let you wash my clothes, so don't wash them. How can you wash my underwear? " Can I tire you? I know I'm complaining. "

"I didn't, just left it. Washing is not greasy. "

"Oh, no, I can't let you tired. You just came to eat and drink for free. "

"Linlin, why do you say that about our mother?"

The two men quarreled in a word, because it was a long-term cold war, and Linlin was very unhappy. Looking at Jian Kang ignored her, she simply went back to her family in one breath.

Unexpectedly, after returning to her parents' home, her mother taught Linlin a lesson. "I thought that after you got married, you grew up and knew the responsibility of being a wife and daughter-in-law. I spoiled you. Why not make progress? "

"Mom, why do you always say that about me?" Linlin is helpless and pathetic.

"Don't call me mom, because I feel ashamed to go back to my mother's house!"

"Why do you put your old elbow outward to him? I have nothing to do at home. "

"This is two different things, you marry in-laws, even if you don't do all the housework, you should also be a woman. You said that you came back from the war because of this kind of thing. Why don't you know shame? "

As a woman, it is unacceptable to anyone if she doesn't even do housework after marriage.

The wife in a man's mind is full of femininity first. She should have the most basic qualities of women, that is, thoughtfulness, diligence and family care. If you can't even cook and don't want to do housework, what can you talk about being thrifty?

03.

Many men want a woman who is good at housekeeping. They know that they care about the health of their families, and they will undertake the arduous task of taking care of their husbands and educating their children, and be good wives for their husbands. Although it can't help men's careers, it can create a warm family for them. They know how to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that the family will always be warm and happy. They are hardworking and kind, and will not be bothered by trivial and boring housework such as mopping the floor or cleaning up sundries. In a man's mind, a woman may not be beautiful enough, but a woman without basic life skills is a vase in his eyes.

Men look for women to make a living, not just to like them. They are more willing to accept a woman who can cook, take care of children, be considerate of her husband, be filial to her mother-in-law, and be careful, rather than a woman who knows nothing but "enjoying" her mother-in-law as a nanny.

As a woman, first of all, to have the ability to cook, it is not necessary to do it, but there is no way. Cooking is not for the whole family, but for your own survival. A woman who can cook can win a man's stomach even if she is not beautiful. Grasping a person's stomach can grasp a person's heart. A woman who can't cook is not perfect, not a good wife and mother.

Secondly, as a woman, she can not do housework, but it can't help. Even if her husband is willing to bear all this, there are two people in the family, and there is no reason for anyone to escape from housework.

Third, you should be considerate of your mother-in-law, instead of losing your temper with her mother-in-law. Respect for her mother-in-law must be respected by her mother-in-law first.

Home is the home of two people, so both sides should be considerate. As long as you are a member of this family, you should do housework and help each other.