For example, rich or skilled or stable in work, for example, upright and responsible, for example, mild and mature in temper, for example, normal in shape 175 or above, not too fat or too thin, and healthy. For example, no bad habits. For example, there is no major psychological shadow.

A so-called excellent in all aspects at least meets all the above conditions, and no one is really excellent. This is offline, not capped.

But a person with these conditions is not necessarily excellent. If he has these conditions and other major defects, he is not an excellent person.

If I choose a few key factors:

First of all, you should have the ability or skills to support your family. On this basis, these three moral concepts are the most important things in your marriage life. Your relationship before marriage is emotion-oriented, and the quarrel after n years of marriage is responsibility-oriented. These three concepts of personality can not determine the upper limit of your marriage, but can determine the lower limit of your marriage. At least cheating and domestic violence will keep you away. But this does not mean that 100% is safe.