What are the ways for men and women to get along? As we all know, the skills of two people getting along are not simply stated clearly. This requires heart-to-heart induction, emotional communication and appropriate skills to get along with. Do you know any way for men and women to get along? Come and have a look!
What is the way for men and women to get along? 1 1. Pay attention to the promise.
Pay attention to commitment, not make you promise without realizing it. Men who like to brag are the most chilling for girls. Because in women's hearts, it's not that they don't know your ability, but that your casual commitment doesn't matter to them. Failure to complete it proves that your commitment to your girlfriend is useless.
Together, these two things will make girls feel that you just don't love her, respect her or care about her. Therefore, a man should take every need of his girlfriend seriously. Even if he refuses, the girl will know where your ability lies and will respect your thoughtful decision.
When the other person is ill, he should do something substantial.
Many people often just talk about comforting words when their partners are sick, especially when they have a fever or a cold, such as "drink more water" and "pay attention to rest". As a result, the other person doesn't feel that you care about him at all. In fact, at this time, do something substantial for the patient. For example, "companionship" or finding some ways to alleviate the pain will make the other person a little moved.
3. Don't be absent-minded
Although girls are often the one who talks too much, it doesn't mean that they can do it by themselves without the attention of their boyfriends. For a woman, it is more important to respond from time to time than to give her a small gift, if you always wander when couples go out to eat. It is very impolite for girls. Moreover, eating with a boyfriend in front of outsiders, while boys are wandering around, is a mockery of their charm and women, and boys should understand that this is a prelude to quarreling.
4. Grasp the scale of joking
Many times, the other party seems to be joking, but it is not like this. Many times, because of a joke, he will hold a grudge and be biased against you. And in fact, many women are a little stingy than men, and not all jokes are affordable.
Especially in public, just as girlfriends should not expose their boyfriends' scars in public, boys should also be careful not to make jokes about their girlfriends' shortcomings or points they don't like in public. Otherwise, when my girlfriend is angry, sometimes she will face it directly no matter where she is, and everyone is embarrassed.
5. combine rigidity with softness
Don't be gentle blindly, but also let the other person see your strong side. Especially men, no matter how tough a woman is, want to find a solid support.
A gentle man is good, but if he is gentle but not strong, then in the eyes of girls, this man is cowardly and can't really rely on peace of mind. There are some things that boys need to learn to stand up and make decisions. Why do gentle men never get a woman's heart? It is because he is too gentle to show enough masculinity.
A man who combines rigidity with softness and knows how to let girls do small things and stand up for big things can easily get full marks in dealing with people and showing charm.
6, easy to get angry with others
Especially in restaurants or some public places, it is especially ungentlemanly to get angry with waiters. Anyone who has this grumpy attitude of "because I am a guest, you have to do what you want" has a strong desire for power. The closer you get, the more arrogant his attitude becomes. This kind of man is very vigilant and is likely to turn into a violent family.
7. Surprise appropriately
Everyone likes surprises, and sudden gifts will move the other person, but only if you know each other, what you like or what you like but haven't bought. If it is an unnecessary gift, it will be greatly discounted, especially if you buy a gift that the other party doesn't like, both parties will be embarrassed.
In fact, I think commitment is the most important thing, because if a man likes to brag, it is easy to give people an unreliable impression, and it is also easy to make girls feel insecure and then always quarrel with you. So you boys should pay attention to the above seven details.
What is the way for men and women to get along? 2 1. Heart-to-heart communication must be frank.
Honesty is the basis of lovers' communication. No matter what your family background, education level, and whether you have a good job or position, you are telling each other frankly, especially if your family is poor. Don't feel inferior. If the other person can't value your people, accept your poor family, and accept your parents who grew up for you, then you can't expect him or her to honor you without complaint after marriage. Similarly, people who often lie will be particularly insecure, especially those who often make up lies to cover up their mistakes. Although you can get away with it for a while, too many lies will eventually be discovered, and dishonest lovers will not be trusted by each other.
Honesty is the basis of mutual trust, and trust is the key to the success or failure of love.
2. Be devoted to the object of love.
Love season is often a period when young people gradually mature, and it is a period when most young people pursue their careers and love. Young people often have to take care of their love while working hard, and they should also do a good job in falling in love. It is difficult to give consideration to both, and sometimes there will be irreconcilable contradictions. For example, when boys need to work overtime and can't take time off, girls insist that boys accompany her; Another example is that boys will accidentally forget girls' birthdays or other anniversaries; For example, when two people get along, the boy casually or unintentionally talks about the beauty of the unit, which may make the girl feel that you don't pay enough attention to her or are absent-minded
Therefore, we must be careful about what girls care about, and try not to mention other girls who have nothing to do with you when we get along, so as not to misunderstand each other.
We should stick to the principle of dealing with people properly.
Many men have always felt that they have no position in the family after marriage. At home, they have no decision-making power or decision-making power, and they will always be an executor. In fact, this is the seed they planted when they were in love. Many boys are used to unprincipled obedience to girls when they are in love. They always think that "acting" is the nature of girls, girls need to be coaxed, or boys need to be "pregnant", and it is only natural to be humble to girls in love. In fact, all wives in the world are spoiled by their husbands. Think about how you should deal with your girlfriend's "doing" in the early days of love, especially when she is unreasonable. You can flatly refuse, and she will naturally know what to ask, what to do and what to do.
In love, boys should learn to be both soft and hard, and don't have to haggle with her about unprincipled things to create a harmonious atmosphere; But on the issue of principle, don't be afraid to argue with your girlfriend, don't get used to each other's waywardness, and don't leave the impression that you will always surrender in the end.
Sometimes arguing about one thing can increase your man's charm, give her a sense of security with you, give her a sense of identity that you are the pillar of her life, and add points to your love.
4, timely * * * create a beautiful story that both sides can * * * remember together.
Both parties in love should create as many opportunities as possible for two people to get along, such as shopping, watching movies and traveling. On the one hand, it can deepen the understanding of each other's personality, character and disposition, on the other hand, it can also create a love story that only two people know, and form a tacit memory that only two people can have. Whether it is a boy or a girl, it is easy to expose their own nature, create opportunities to express themselves and create the same language. If a girl can agree to date you and travel alone with you, it means that she has a good impression on you, or that she can give you a chance to show off.
Good feeling is the premise of love. How to seize the good feelings of girls and sublimate them into love and affection is a lesson that boys study hard.
We should correctly handle the relationship between meanness and generosity.
You must not be too stingy when you get along with girls. If you are stingy, she will think that you don't value her and you don't want to spend money for her, which shows that you don't regard her as a loving girlfriend. Especially in China, many girls can't accept the "AA system" at present. Boys should never take the initiative. Even girls have to weigh it. Usually, girls will distinguish economic expenses from others to avoid causing economic troubles to their boyfriends in the future, but they will not cause economic troubles to their boyfriends. Therefore, when boys spend money for girls, they must first do what they can and "coax" girls to be happy according to their own economic ability. In fact, they should stick to their principles. Some things are dispensable or bought home and put in a glove box. Try to persuade the other party not to buy them. Once again, it is particularly fond of girls or memorable, and then the two sides decide whether to buy them after consultation. Finally, the things they buy should be properly kept, which may be something you can * * * in the future.
Of course, young people should spend money moderately, and they should not give people the impression that they can't live or spend money without a plan. After all, after marriage, they should live at home. Being able to spend money in a planned way and spend money in more important places in life can increase girls' trust and dependence on you.