Now, in Liangzhu Town, runan county, Zhumadian City, Henan Province, where this sad story happened, Cai Xiaohua, a 35-year-old rural guy, and Tiffany, a 25-year-old American girl, come from different nationalities, with different personalities and no language. Under this great difference, they live happily together because of their simple and beautiful love.
They hardly quarrel. Now the life of a family of four is sweet and happy. What kind of stories have happened between them?
The rough road of life for poor rural boys.
Cai Xiaohua was born in the "hometown of Liangzhu", which is a rural area in Liangzhu Town, runan county, Zhumadian City, Henan Province today. He is poor here and his family is poor. As the boss of the family, there are several younger brothers and sisters below. Although the family worked hard, life still made ends meet. His mother was overwhelmed and left a group of young children to run away from home.
The sensible Cai Xiaohua knows that he can't study any more. He dropped out of school after graduating from junior high school. In his early years, he helped his father to shoulder the burden of life and went out to work to earn money for his younger brothers and sisters to go to school.
But because there is no skill, I can only do coolies on the construction site or do odd jobs in the factory. They also set up stalls to deliver water and kept changing jobs.
Save some money and send it home to my brothers and sisters for school. Brothers and sisters grow up day by day, study, graduate, work, and then get married.
Cai Xiaohua is getting older and older. However, due to poor family and no stable income, personal problems have been put on hold and have been single. This became a worry for Cai Xiaohua's father. When he mentioned it, he said, I'm really sorry for Xiaohua!
Fate is always kind to good people.
Fate always comes unexpectedly. After many twists and turns, Cai Xiaohua finally found a relatively stable job in Guangzhou at the age of 35, working as a security guard at the Sino-British School in the Oriental Phoenix Country Garden in Guangyuan. He cherishes this job.
As a result, the teachers and students of this school can see this security guard standing in his post conscientiously every day, giving a generous and warm smile to everyone who comes in and out. I never hesitate to lend a helping hand to the little things I can help.
Among these teachers and students, there is a beautiful female foreign teacher named Tiffany. Tiffany, 25, came to China alone after graduating from university. Because of her strong interest in China culture, she worked as a foreign teacher in the school.
Every time I pass the school gate, I always see this serious and responsible security guard and his kind smile.
Young girls are full of vigor and vitality, and always full of enthusiasm for people and things around them. Every time they see Cai Xiaohua on duty at the door, she always greets them warmly.
Cai Xiaohua also has a good impression on this very cheerful and generous foreign girl. When she needs help, she will not hesitate to lend a helping hand. In the long run, two people gradually get to know each other, and when they have time, they get together, chat, go shopping, eat and read books, so love slowly breeds in their hearts!
Language barrier is a big obstacle to communication, so two people sometimes even hold a pen and a dictionary, learn each other's language while talking, write and draw on paper, and express unclear things with gestures or pictures. However, their feelings have not been affected at all, but have become stronger and stronger.
Cai Xiaohua knew his situation, and he was afraid of Tiffany's fresh impulse and didn't dare to confess easily. After all, the gap with Tiffany is here.
Tiffany thinks this is a man who can be entrusted. She generously wrote a series of illustrated letters to Cai Xiaohua, and wrote "love" in each letter.
Cai Xiaohua knew Tiffany was confessing to him, and he was very excited and tangled! Finally, Tiffany's sincerity touched him, and Cai Xiaohua opened his heart. Their stable and true feelings overcame all external conditions and accepted each other.
Entering marriage, fireworks couple's daily life
Cai Xiaohua is going to take Tiffany back to her hometown in Henan to get married. Cai Xiaohua's father wiped his tears and said, "I can't believe you married such a good wife."
This has also caused quite a stir in my hometown. This beautiful foreign daughter-in-law did not dislike the poverty of Cai Xiaohua's family, nor did she complain about the simplicity of the wedding. She quickly adapted to the simple life in the country, and really accepted everything about her lover, and Cai Xiaohua's family also recognized Tiffany from the bottom of their hearts.
On the wedding day, villagers from Li Sanhe and wucun came to watch and packed Cai Xiaohua's house. Everyone gave them good wishes, and the couple completed the wedding ceremony with everyone's blessing.
After marriage, the two quit their jobs in Guangzhou and returned to Zhengzhou, Henan Province to take care of each other and their families. Tiffany continued to work as a foreign teacher in a university, while Cai Xiaohua took oral classes and studied English with his wife's students, so as to communicate with his wife better.
Isn't love such tolerance and dedication? Then you may ask, won't they quarrel? Of course, we often say that the upper teeth will fight with the lower teeth, not to mention the husband and wife who have been together.
In the quarrel, the language barrier has become a good thing. After all, two people come from different countries, and there are huge differences in cultural background, language and regional issues, and understanding of context. Apart from simple communication, we don't know each other very well. There is no need to quarrel, and the plane will go away.
Everyone calmed down, and all family conflicts were no longer a problem. Although the reason is funny, it makes the marriage life more harmonious.
If you were here, everything would be fine.
Shortly after getting married, Tiffany became pregnant and wanted to go back to her parents' home in America, where the conditions were better. She worked out and gave birth to a child.
But just a month after she came back, Tiffany missed Cai Xiaohua very much. Her lover is in China, her love is in China and her heart is in China, so she returned to China and Cai Xiaohua.
Soon after, they gave birth to a beautiful daughter, and the husband and wife discussed their future development. They finally decided to leave China and go to the United States for development.
The family of three returned to Tiffany's home in America. Tiffany's family is also very supportive of their marriage. After settling in the United States, they still live an ordinary and beautiful happy life.
Later, the second child was born. Cai Xiaohua is willing to stay at home and take care of his family and children. Tiffany continues to work hard and her married life is very harmonious.
Summary:
I hope to win a heart and never leave! There are too many problems between Cai Xiaohua and Tiffany, such as occupation, living background, material conditions, cultural level, language, age and even living habits, which are no longer problems when love happens.
Although the love obtained by overcoming these is ordinary but precious, marriage is the persistence after the sublimation of love, regardless of gains and losses, tolerance and even self-sacrifice! I believe that Cai Xiaohua and Tiffany will go hand in hand happily in their future lives.
I also hope that every kind person can find their own unique love. I hope every marriage can have a good beginning and a good ending, hold your hand and grow old with your son. This is the oldest and most beautiful love story of our Chinese nation. It is commitment, trust, bearing unforgettable love and telling a complete life. May all lovers get married.