Cheating is not only physical or sexual, there are many reasons behind this phenomenon.

Gu Jia played by Tanya is an all-powerful and perfect wife.

She has a clear view of what she wants, can see the reality clearly, pursue her ideals, has her own persistence and has a bottom line in doing things.

After working in a foreign company for two years, I met and fell in love with Xu Huanshan, an excellent fireworks designer.

With his high IQ and work experience, Gu Jia founded a fireworks company with Xu Huanshan.

After the company's affairs stabilized, she retired to the second line and became a full-time wife at home in order to reassure Xu Huanshan in her career.

Gu Jia is a good wife, not only a companion in her husband's life, but also a helper in her husband's career.

On the one hand, she is Xu Huanshan's wife, who understands his hard work, soothes his emotions and encourages his fighting spirit.

On the one hand, it is the backbone of Xu Huanshan, continuing to assist his career, protecting his artistic heart and helping him wipe his ass, even if he is wronged.

Her emotional intelligence is also very high, giving her husband face and status at home and abroad.

Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan, from lovers to husband and wife.

Husband and wife have a clear division of labor, one is outside and the other is inside. The wife will help her husband bear the pressure of the company, and the husband will also help her share the family affairs.

The communication between the two people was smooth, with no secrets and nothing to say. The husband will tell his wife about the company, and the wife will tell her husband about the daily life at home.

They understand each other, support each other and tide over the difficulties in life together.

Such a husband and wife is the ideal state we dream of!

However, even in this kind of love, it is said that in the next plot, Xu Huanshan cheated!

It's hard to understand: why are you unfaithful when you are in love?

According to the marriage law, both husband and wife should be physically and emotionally loyal and abide by monogamy.

However, the survey shows that infidelity between husband and wife is quite common, especially in this era.

Cheating seems to be a very common thing, but I want to say that normal does not mean right!

Partner's infidelity is a fatal blow to the party who thinks that marriage is happy and husband and wife love each other, especially women. Because she never doubted that her husband would be unfaithful to herself.

She doesn't understand why her husband obviously loves her and their marriage is very happy, but they still cheat.

I don't understand. What's wrong? Did you do something wrong? Or are you not doing well enough?

Research shows that infidelity between husband and wife is quite common, and loving partners may also do unfaithful things to each other.

However, infidelity is not only physical or sexual. There are many reasons behind this phenomenon.

The following 1 1 species are common:

1, sexual relationship is not satisfactory

Lack of basic sexual satisfaction in the relationship between husband and wife is often the reason for cheating.

This situation is most likely to happen to couples who live in different places for a long time.

If the partner can't satisfy the other person's sexual desire, one party is likely to seek satisfaction from the outside world.

2. Cold feelings

Husband and wife live together all the year round, their passion is exhausted, and they return to dullness. It is easy to have nothing to say.

If the feelings are indifferent, both husband and wife will not get emotional satisfaction. The dissatisfied party will look for someone to rekindle their passion.

Step 3 meet true love

People may meet a bosom friend at a certain node and think it is true love.

In this case, they usually choose divorce firmly and decisively.

Meeting true love and falling in love with a new partner will make them not think cheating is a mistake.

Step 4 steal forbidden fruit

The relationship between husband and wife can give people a long-term sense of security and stability.

However, a misguided theft will bring people a sense of adventure and excitement.

This kind of people are usually confused for a moment and mistakenly think that furtive or indulgent sex meets their psychological needs of adventure and excitement.

Therefore, as long as it is not caught, it is tempting to break the taboo and steal the forbidden fruit.

5. Childhood trauma

People who suffer from childhood trauma have unstable parent-child relationship with their parents in their early years. In addition, they are usually insecure and difficult to trust others.

People in this situation, the intimate relationship after adulthood, is also easy to be unstable.

For example, people who suffered emotional, physical or sexual abuse or neglect in their early years may be unable or unwilling to trust a person consistently.

6. rebuild your own needs

If the relationship between husband and wife is tense, the life of husband and wife is depressed, or one of them has a strong sense of existence,

It will make the other person feel bound, suppressed, or have no sense of existence and value in marriage.

In this case, people who live too tired or meaningless will be eager to get rid of the bondage.

If there is just one person who can make TA feel relaxed, comfortable and unburdened again, it is easy to cheat.