2. Keep reading. I have always believed that girls who read books are different from girls who don't read books, even if they send a circle of friends. Now most people add a WeChat friend, whether it is a blind date or an interview, then the circle of friends naturally becomes a very direct business card.
Looking at friends around us, we also eat vegetables. Different people have different words, and then there is the feeling of reading. What people who read a lot say is really much more literary. Now, social competition is bad. Whether it's job hunting or blind date, reading more books can still give you some advantages. Forget it, I'm going to read a book. )
3. Emotional intelligence should be high. Speaking of EQ, I naturally think of EQ class in Cai Kangyong. I don't know if you have seen the fifth season of "Qipa Shuo". Every time you listen to Cai Kangyong, you feel particularly comfortable, but here you can also see the importance of reading more. If you don't have enough language skills, I believe he can't explain it like that. Some people may think that high EQ is nothing more than a nice guy who doesn't lose his temper. Maybe so. I think the secretary of the president of our company is a person with high emotional intelligence. I have never seen her lose her temper or speak loudly. She is very gentle with everyone, but there is no denying that I really like talking to her. High EQ can help you get promoted in the workplace and make more friends in your life.
4. Stick to yoga. There are too many benefits for girls to practice yoga, which can not only detoxify, but also practice waistline. If a girl can practice yoga all the time, her figure will definitely be different, even if she is not beautiful enough, but she looks very temperament as a whole.
5. Know how to dress. Don't talk about our post-90 s generation. Look at my mother's generation. Those who are worthy are really different from those who are not worthy. A classmate in my niece's class is also from our community. Her grandmother is about the same age as my mother. She is good at dressing and occasionally wears some makeup, but her mother is a person who only knows how to make money and never wants to dress herself up. When they stand together, they can clearly see the gap.
And now that my mother has been in a big city for a long time, she will find that her dress can't keep up with the people in the big city. Every time I want to buy her fashionable clothes, she refuses. She feels that she doesn't need fashion, and the most important thing is comfort. I've always wanted to make my mother look beautiful, but because she has never had this idea, it's hard for me to do it. Sometimes I think that if she pays attention to dressing up when she is young, I believe my mother looks as young as those aunts in big cities.
6. Can cook. There is a good saying: if you want to catch a man, you must first catch his stomach. You don't need to cook by yourself every day, but you must learn. Two people can show off their anniversaries, so that their feelings can be stronger. After all, life needs a sense of ceremony. And to be honest, girls who can cook now are really popular, after all, most girls can't (pay attention to me, I'm going to swell, because I can cook, whether it's meat or vegetarian, hahahaha).
7. Know how to give priority to service. In love, two people inevitably have a little friction. If the man has always been mainly, then this relationship is really difficult to maintain. Maybe girls will feel that they are a minority and can't be mainly, but this is really not the case. Life is for two people, and occasionally the woman needs to show weakness. It is said that two people need mutual support, tolerance and understanding if they want to go on. Some people have a good temper and say everything, but there is a limit to those who have a good temper. If you love him, don't ask for it.
8. Be filial to your parents. I believe that it is necessary for both girls and boys, and people who are filial to their parents are always particularly welcome. For example, there is one in my mate selection criteria: filial piety to parents. I really despise some people who always yell at their parents and think they are smarter and more capable than their parents. No matter how bad our parents are, they raised us. Then we went to see the young people now and told them to have a baby, but they said they couldn't afford it. Imagine that my parents were not tired when they were training several people.
I was born in 1992, and I have a brother. My mother gave birth to me at the time of the strictest family planning, so my parents have been living a life of fear in those years. My mother often tells me that valuable things in the house will be moved away, and those people seem to be robbers. Later, I had no choice but to bite my teeth and pay a fine of 4000. You know, 4000 dollars is really hard to get. In spite of such difficulties, they raised me. Maybe my living conditions are not better than others since I was a child, but I believe I get no less love than them, maybe more. I don't have children now, but I heard from friends around me that it's not easy to be a parent until I become a parent.
9. Learn to save money. Nowadays, many people are moonlight people, so it's really bad to spend as much as they can every month. Mom always said that girls should save some money so that they can afford to marry their in-laws. I know my mother's good intentions, but I have my own ideas about saving money. I don't know why, but now that I am old, I am particularly afraid of my parents' physical problems. Seeing that my grandparents, as old neighbors, have passed away one after another, my mother will say: They are gone, and it's my turn to go up next.
Although my mother is joking, I know in my heart that my parents are old and there are risks in this respect. I'm afraid that one day my parents will have physical problems and need a lot of money, but I can't take it out. Saving money is not to show how rich you are, but to avoid being at a loss when you need money badly.
10, capable. Since childhood, our parents have told us to study hard so that we can find a good job in the future. But learning really needs talent. It's really easier for talented students to study for a few more years and find a job after they come out. But most people are still average in qualifications and can't change themselves by reading, so you need a skill at this time. I believe many people are engaged in jobs that have nothing to do with their major after graduation from college. I don't know if you have such doubts, that is, you don't know what to do when you quit, and you feel that you can't do anything. Many people have gone to college, but they still don't know what they are good at.