This stage of life is experiencing various barriers and crises such as career, health, family and marriage. It is said that the platform of Tianzhu Zhu Jim has gathered middle-aged and elderly people, with high quality of life, cognitive category and connections, so I specially stayed for 10 day and interviewed nearly 100 middle-aged and elderly people, including entrepreneurs, doctors, lawyers, civil servants, economists, artists, retired cadres, media people, entertainers and so on. Through this operation, I summarized the sources and solutions of some faults, and then shared them with you for discussion.
1, "asking for trouble"
It is said that there are flowers in Rhapsody in July, but in reality there is Rhapsody Syndrome in July. There is a joke about a 35-40-year-old man, saying that "young people are exhausted, middle-aged people don't come, they can't see enough flowers and things." From this perspective, many troubles are really self-inflicted, and everything comes from the immature heart that can't stand the turmoil.
Countermeasures: contentment is always happy, and if you can't reach it, you will be kicked away. Grasping the resources and opportunities within your power, leaving no regrets is happiness.
2. The trouble of "lack of money"
Near middle age, many people blame the anxiety crisis on lack of money. In fact, rich people also have their worries and anxieties, such as "good health" and "children's education", which are the core to determine whether a person is really successful.
Ordinary men are middle-aged, old and young. They can't afford to be born or die. They are afraid of wolves before and tigers after. In order to support the family, no matter how many grievances, we must bear them, even if we are physically and mentally exhausted and anxious and helpless. But have you ever wondered who caused this ending? In the final analysis, it is your own thinking cognition and mentality pattern that determines your present situation. Whether you want it or have no choice but to make do with it, it's all your own doing, your own doing.
As the saying goes, the poor are three points cold and the poor are seven points bitter. In fact, we have to admit that a poor heart is more terrible than a poor person. Today, we need to understand a truth. Before the age of 40, it is not terrible to exchange your life for money. After 40, you have to think about life.
Countermeasures: In fact, I don't think lack of money is a problem, and being down and out is not terrible, because being poor will change your mind. What is really hopeless is only complaining about others, and the face is bigger than the sky. When you meet a noble person, you will be worried. When you meet an opportunity, you always have more excuses than difficulties.
3. The trouble of "health"
When people reach middle age, they have a heavy burden, great mental stress, little temper, bald head, fat body and heavy body. If you don't pay attention, all kinds of greasy will find your upper body, and some chronic diseases such as hypertension, hyperglycemia, hyperlipidemia and high uric acid will soon find you.
Countermeasures: Establish a good attitude, establish a good lifestyle, develop good living habits, and choose good health care products.
4. The troubles of the "new middle class"
If you don't pay attention, the "new middle class" will become "miserable in heart" every second, so in the heyday of life, you must leave yourself a way out.
In the face of career, age is not a problem at all. Ma Yun started his business at the age of 35, Ren Zheng Fei founded Huawei at the age of 43, Liu Chuanzhi founded Lenovo at the age of 40, and Colonel Sanders founded KFC at the age of 66.
So don't blame your age for your troubles, your dreams and your success. You should have your own thinking and cognition to give everything.
Countermeasures: In the face of megatrends and policies, leave your hands behind in advance and let yourself have a way out.
In fact, successful people and ordinary people have middle-aged troubles:
There is a saying that "everything stops when people reach middle age", which is easy to understand when people reach middle age, because "the suffering of middle-aged people is unspeakable and they can only swallow their tears".
Successful men's middle age, career by leaps and bounds, are sprinting to the peak of life. It's like "beauty has a car, fame and fortune." Seemingly smooth sailing, carefree. In fact, in life, they are all "soaking medlar in thermos bottles for dozens of emotional crises", because they can't afford to lose physically and can't afford to lose in marriage.
I might as well tell you that if you want to change, it's always a good time, and the new era has also given birth to many new opportunities that we haven't had time to understand. For example, Judy Jim is a very inclusive platform, not only a winery, but also a stage to realize life dreams; Not only can you harvest health, but you can also spread health; It can not only improve the circle, but also make your life more brilliant.