In fact, her surgery is not very big, and my heart is still very at ease, because I believe in the doctor and believe in this choice.
At 7: 30 on Thursday morning, my mother was pushed into the operating room, and Lao Song kept holding my mother's hand. When the operating room door closed, Lao Song held hands and made several prayers. Then I sat down and began to look at the time.
In fact, Lao Song and I haven't had such an opportunity to sit down and talk for a long time, and this time it is such a special opportunity. Lao Song said that the uterus was finally cut. I asked, why? He told me the story that my mother gave birth to me, and I was really lucky.
Before giving birth to me, my mother had a big dystocia, with a stillbirth of 9.8 kg. The fetus cannot give birth naturally, and the conditions are limited. One month after operation, my mother was bleeding heavily and the uterus was unclean. During the operation, the doctor issued a notice of critical illness and asked Lao Song to sign the abortion. Lao Song has lost his mind and is preparing to sign. My mother, who is still in surgery, only said one thing when she heard the doctor say that she would cut the uterus. My father said that your mother's stubbornness only made people feel bad once, so my mother's stomach was closed again. Unexpectedly, the bleeding stopped after she came out. I am pregnant in the back. Maybe it's really that her beliefs are too strong.
However, my birth was also bumpy.
In the 1980s, my father was a butcher selling meat. Planned economy was very popular at that time. My dad's client has an obstetrician who makes friends with meat. The doctor said to my dad, Song, come to me anytime if your wife has any problems with the baby. Don't be afraid. Take good care of the baby.
1June 65438+1October 3 1 Sunday afternoon, my mother was still cooking the New Year's Eve dinner. 1 at 2 am on February, her amniotic fluid broke. There are no buses, taxis and private cars. In the early morning of winter, Lao Song knocked on the door of his neighbor Grandpa Xie's house and took his son to push my mother to the hospital. The doctor lived in the dormitory of the hospital. Before Lao Song could go upstairs, he shouted at the top of his lungs for the doctor downstairs. One morning in winter, the doctor was awakened. He had no time to get dressed, so he ran down in his coat. Lao Song was very excited when he said this.
There was an accident. My water broke and one leg came out first. The doctor told Lao Song that the delivery was difficult again, the caesarean section was too late, and Lao Song was lost again. He said he thought he was going crazy. Seeing this, the doctor calmly returned to the delivery room. He began to try to put his hand into the birth canal, slowly moved my head straight with his hand and pulled me out to breathe. My head is out, and everything is fine.
Lao Song said that I was born with my eyes open. I think I probably want to see the world so much that when I grow up, I am always willing to run around and see the scenery I have never seen before.
In the hospital where I was born, the doctor who operated on my mother actually picked up the apprentice of my birth doctor. Fate is amazing. It's really a normal registration.
1 1: 30, the electronic screen shows that the uterus was removed. Lao Song and I went to see the cut uterine specimen. The doctor said nothing, so we waited patiently for the patient to wake up. Lao Song was very happy and said that we could finally go out and play with my mother for a long time. I sat down on one side, while odbo stood at the door of the operating room watching.
12: 30, mom left the operating room and everything went well.
The uterus sometimes means a woman's life. When I watched the documentary "Birth Gate", I also had my uterus cut. In order to save the uterus, a second-born mother was desperate. A doctor played games on the operating table, and finally cut open the gauze to stop bleeding seriously and passed the critical period. This passage made me cry for a long time.
Lao Song said that when a woman gives birth to a child, she must have a man around her, so that she can understand the difficulty of a woman and strengthen her belief in spending her life with an old-looking pillow person.
Women are born with the ability to give birth to life. This super power has turned countless women into glorious and great mothers, and sacrificed a lot of themselves and even their lives for this honor.
Life is so hard that we should be more afraid of it.