So, was this taught by Mr. Beichen? Please listen to my story before revealing the answer.
I am an 80-year-old mother who lives in Shanghai and has two babies. For many years, I have been running between home and work.
It stands to reason that with children and women, life should be satisfied; If you have money and leisure, you should be comfortable at work. But behind the appearance, the true feelings inside are real. What I have really makes me feel satisfied and happy?
In my life, as a descendant, I am very satisfied, and two babies are the best gifts I get. But the problems in life are far from simple. There are conflicts between family habits and concepts, and there are small and complicated chores and chores. Although I am ready to be a second treasure mother, in real life, I still feel that I can't handle it at all.
At work, for a job without too much pressure and intensity, the boss's upper limit will never satisfy you. Even if there are not too many rigid requirements for the allocation of leisure time, if you just use it to browse the web or chat online, you will actually get nothing. If this is repeated for a long time, the work will become a process operation of punching in and out on time. No value.
Faced with this situation, it is estimated that no one will be really satisfied. At this moment, by chance, I attended the writing class of Mr. Bei Chen on February 19.
Facing Mr. Beichen, whose appearance is not formal or casual, but whose speech reveals rich knowledge reserves everywhere, I can only be worthy of this appreciation and conviction if I listen carefully and write down the details dictated by all the teachers quickly. Thanks to my teacher, I really realized the importance of "writing" for my life and work for the first time.
I was particularly impressed by the teacher's concept of 100. "If you want to write an article with 1000 words, you must first read 100 words." Based on "dissatisfaction with the status quo" and "confidence in teachers", my first catalytic action is "reading".
As a family with severe reading difficulties who have never read Qiong Yao and Jin Yong's novels, I used the method of "taking reading notes" recommended by my teacher to keep my concentration. As long as there is a fixed period of time every day, I take out my books and notes for about an hour at a time. At the same time, in order to make up for the serious shortage of long-term knowledge reserves, I also participated in the * * * bounty reading in JD.COM and subscribed to the Quantum School. For several months, under such deliberate training, I finally got into the habit of reading every day.
Friends who often read must have had such an experience: in the process of reading, our brain circuits, stimulated by the author's point of view, often jump out of some ideas. If you write down these ideas quickly, you can quickly sort out an article of your own. This process should be the initial appearance of words.
If you are not satisfied with thinking only based on reading, your perception can be further explored. Based on a scene, a behavior, you may consciously think: "Can I use it as a theme to write?" . I have my own experience of losing weight, so when the topic of writing is insufficient, I wrote an article about this experience.
Therefore, Mr. Beichen's writing class not only helped me develop the habit of writing, but also helped me develop the habit of reading, thinking, observing and perceiving the details of life.
On July 17, Mr. Beichen started the writing series "Let's Listen". As a beneficiary of the teacher, I certainly won't miss it.
This series of courses starts from "What does writing mean to you?" It is not so much a writing method as a writing psychology. Let's reflect on our relationship with writing by self-combing. Interestingly, I have different answers to the same question at different times.
The same question, today I will answer like this:
In order to write an article, I not only found the gap in my knowledge, but also made up for it by reading, making this gap smaller and smaller;
As a family with serious reading difficulties, I once had a literary dream. Who would have thought that this dream would come true after 20 years of my youth? I opened the official WeChat account and wrote more than 20 articles in the past six months.
Under the guidance of the teacher, I opened my heart and met my peers who learned from each other. In particular, the bullet diary designed by Moran gave me a better self-management tool.
At this point, "writing" has changed from a deliberate thing to a friend who can accompany me for a long time. When I am happy or unhappy, I will talk to it. I will also communicate with it when I am entangled and determined.
On September 20, many classes of teachers' "workplace writing classes" appeared. Just like my registration speech: trust+high cost performance = secondary payment.
Regarding knowledge payment, my personal opinion is that as long as this teacher can bring me value, even the value of a word, as long as it is conducive to my growth, I think it is worthwhile.
Of course, if it can bring more and greater value, it is earned. Teacher Beichen's class is the kind of class that you can earn if you buy it.
You may ask, "You have been listening to his class for half a year, why are you still listening?" ?
Because it has new value! Who will dislike Tai Chi (laughs)?
You may ask again, "What else can you do besides writing about WeChat official account"?
Well, since the voice of doubt is everywhere, at the end of the article, I will share the value of writing to me (so far).
There are two kinds of articles, I write more, slimming and inspirational. Judging from the background data, these two types of articles have the best dissemination effect. Sharing one's own experience and benefiting others in the form of articles is itself the embodiment of personal value.
As a small accident, on September 23 last weekend, when I was tutoring my third-grade daughter to read and write pictures, the value given to me by the teacher was actually taught to her. For children who are new to writing, the number of words is a very high threshold, and behind the number of words is actually about observation and thinking. I use these two points, thanks to my teacher's simple communication with my children, she actually wrote a 300-word composition smoothly. After reading the whole article, except for a few typos and punctuation, everything else is actually very smooth. I think this may be what the teacher said before, "Writing is an act of compound interest".
To sum up, taking part in the teacher's courses not only helped me to develop the habit of reading and thinking, but also made up for the lack of long-term knowledge reserve. It also fulfilled my dream of being a student when I was young and even benefited others, including my own daughter. And all this just stems from a small decision that I am willing to pay for knowledge. Suddenly I feel that my original choice is so wise (proud).