Huang Qishan sang this song "Give Up Love" many years later, and his resentment and grief are unforgettable. This song was originally written by her husband Tu Huiyuan, but she gave it to May because of her divorce.
Along the way, Huang Qishan's marriage is very difficult. After three marriages and three divorces, at the age of 52, he was still alone and lost his desire for marriage. All he needed was Du Haitao, the "adopted son".
Huang Qishan, 1968, was born in an ordinary family in Chongqing. Her mother 17 years old was born when she was a minor. As the only child in the family, she has been loved by all aspects since she was a child.
But this affection didn't last long, because parents got married too early and their thoughts were immature. When they were in Huang Qishan middle school, they divorced, probably because of the influence of their parents. After Huang Qishan, their marriage was also very bumpy, and they still don't know each other.
So she has been growing up with grandpa, so she has learned a lot of model operas from grandpa. Over time, she gradually became interested in music. In a divorced family, music gave her a lot of sense of security and became one of the greatest pleasures of Huang Qishan's childhood.
At that time, Teresa Teng's song "Sweet Honey" was popular in China. Influenced by it, Huang Qishan also began to learn pop songs, wearing a pair of headphones every day and never getting tired of listening to them from morning till night.
Because of neglect of management, Huang Qishan hangs out with some gangsters in the society and fights with them every day. In primary school, she became the big sister in her class. She is young and ignorant and thinks it's cool.
18 years old, Huang Qishan successfully signed up for Chongqing Huahua Dance Company. Although the conditions are very difficult and she can only cook with water every day, it is a great joy for her to finally do what she likes and perform on stage.
After that, Huang Qishan went to Guangzhou to find his own musical dream, and then sang songs such as Dreams and Hopes, I Can't Get Over It, and released many albums such as The Man Hiding Behind the Music, Asia's No.1 Female Voice and so on, but it has been tepid and failed to make its own popularity in the music circle.
At that time, she always wanted to enter the "Cloth Boy 100" started by famous singers such as Na Ying and Mao Ning, but she was rejected for three consecutive interviews because of her ugly appearance. Finally, Na Ying couldn't stand it anymore and said, "You don't want Huang Qishan now. You won't get anything when she becomes popular!" The boss just accepted her.
Until 20 13, Huang Qishan, as a singer with the starting lineup, participated in the reality show "I am a singer season 1" and covered Liu Huan's "I can't live without you" with four amazing seats, which made many people present unable to help crying and won the fourth place with excellent strength.
Her soul-stirring singing voice was finally recognized by the audience and people in the industry. 45-year-old Huang Qishan finally became popular. She was called "Iron Lung".
Although the career is bumpy and successful all the way, the marriage is bumpy and distressing. Huang Qishan had three marriages before and after, but all ended in failure.
She met her first husband when she first arrived in Guangzhou. Huang Qishan was only 20 years old at that time. She and her boyfriend are so obsessed with love that they hurried into the marriage hall after confirming their relationship.
But as a young woman, she doesn't know what marriage is. She just loves each other passionately and thinks she can grow old together. In the face of trivial work after marriage, her love quickly vanished, and in just a few years they parted ways.
Because she put too much affection into this marriage, Huang Qishan was once unable to extricate herself after the divorce and suffered from depression. Recalling this memory many years later, Huang Qishan said with emotion: "If she had not chosen to go out at that time, her life would certainly not be like this."
Later, when she was in Butong 100, she met her second husband, Tu Huiyuan. Tu Huiyuan is a famous talent in the music industry, a famous producer in Taiwan Province, and a former May Gold Medal lyricist.
By chance, he heard Huang Qishan's singing in a bar and was deeply attracted, so he took the initiative to invite Huang Qishan to discuss music together. Over time, they appreciate each other in music, and at the same time, their feelings quickly heat up and collide.
A lyricist and a composer, their combination, is a natural couple in the eyes of outsiders.
Huang Qishan, who had a failed marriage, didn't learn from the pit. She fell in love again, gave up her rapidly developing career and lived with Tu Huiyuan in Taiwan Province Province.
Huang Qishan once again gave her everything for this marriage, but her husband failed her again.
Because of their different views on music, the two gradually came into conflict, but then Huang Qishan cried in the program that the real reason for the breakdown of their marriage was the betrayal of the other party.
After two failed marriages, the woman who longed for love was devastated. 10 years later, her career was dull and she no longer had illusions about men.
During that time, she suffered from severe depression and tried to commit suicide many times. She told her brother that she was suffering from severe insomnia and tricked her into taking sleeping pills. My brother didn't find her abnormality at that time, and advised: "You can't eat more of this, you can only eat half a pill every night." After eating, Huang Qishan felt floating in the air and suddenly regretted it. Fortunately, the rescue was timely.
After that, she was addicted to Christianity and tried to get rid of her pain by escaping from life, but it didn't help. No one knows how she survived those dark days.
Until 20 13, Huang Qishan, who came out of the pain, met a man named Zhang Ying and knocked on her closed heart again.
Huang Qishan never imagined that she would fall into the pit of marriage for the third time. She is going to be a housewife, and even claimed to be pregnant with a child during pregnancy. Everyone thought that she had found her own happiness this time.
But reality slapped her again. After marriage, Zhang Ying clung to Huang Qishan who longed for love. She doesn't want to work every day, and she depends on Huang Qishan for food and shelter. Over time, Huang Qishan felt that she was too humble in her marriage, and they quarreled constantly.
When the quarrel was fierce, Huang Qishan was beaten. The most serious time, Huang Qishan had more than ten stitches.
After that, Huang Qishan was photographed staying in a hotel with musician Lv Yanwei, and his manners were intimate. She was taken to court by Zhang Ying, and their marriage broke up.
Her parents divorced when she was a child and she lacked family care. She has a very strong desire for family warmth, hoping to make up for her inner blank, which is also commonly known as "love brain". In fact, her parents are one of the culprits.
But the more anxious you are, the easier it is to get lost in feelings, but you can't get it.
Now Huang Qishan, who has experienced three failed marriages, at the age of 52, may have lost her longing for love and marriage, and she is only accompanied by Du Haitao, the adopted son.
I hope she can bring us more wonderful songs for the rest of her life, and I hope she is happy!