A vulgar girl once heard a friend say that her best friend is the legendary "shopaholic". As long as that woman has free time, she must shop everywhere. Needless to say, when she can go out, she must go to the mall. Even if she doesn't buy what she wants in the mall, she must go to the nearby supermarket to buy something else. But if she can't go out for various reasons, then she must be shopping online on her mobile phone. In a word, whether she buys it or not, she must have an addiction to shopping.
To be honest, the behavior of friends and girlfriends is a bit excessive. There is no problem with proper shopping, but no one should stand the endless shopping. Maybe in that woman's mind, shopping has become an addiction. If this woman marries a husband's family with good economic conditions, she may still be addicted to shopping, but if she marries a family with poor conditions and neither she nor her husband can earn enough money, then her future marriage life will naturally be very difficult.
Besides, different people have different ideas about shopping. For example, an older mother-in-law is more inclined to save money and be frugal, and will definitely dislike her daughter-in-law who always spends money on things. Also, most men understand the hardship of making money, because they need to support their families, so they don't like their wives who often spend money shopping.
Some people may think that according to common sense, men should try their best to make money for their wives. If he can't, it only means that he is not a good person. Ordinary girls don't object to this view, but more facts show that no matter how well a man behaves before marriage, he will almost become a man who regards money as his life after marriage. Before marriage, his favorite is his wife, and after marriage, his favorite is money.
Nana, 30, proved this point with her own personal experience. Because Nana and her husband Liang Dong are in free love, their relationship has always been particularly good. Nana is cheerful and generous, while Liang Dong is not good at communicating with others and is stingy.
Liang Dong often said that all my money was earned by my own good fortune, and it was difficult for me to spend it on others. Liang Dong is really stingy. He never invites friends to dinner or lends others a penny. But he treats Nana differently. Before marriage, he gave her his salary card and vowed to tell her that he would buy whatever he wanted.
Because Nana and Liang Dong have different personalities, many people don't think highly of them, but they only got along for less than a year before the news of their marriage came out. Liang Dong's parents are very satisfied with Nana. They not only gave Nana an extra 20 thousand yuan as a bride price on the basis of local standards, but even spent all their life savings to buy Nana a new house in the county.
Nana is a grateful person. After marriage, she wanted her in-laws to move in with them, but Nana had to take her mother-in-law abroad because her father-in-law was inconvenient to work.
Although the married life is very sweet, Nana feels particularly sweet. Liang Dong goes out to work every day to earn money, while Nana takes her mother-in-law everywhere. In the eyes of others, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a harmonious relationship and get along well.
But only Nana knows the truth. In fact, there are some contradictions between her and her mother-in-law. It turns out that Nana likes shopping. As long as she finds something useful, she will buy it generously. But her mother-in-law is a very frugal person. Although she doesn't object to Nana's shopping on the surface, as long as she sees Nana coming home from shopping, she will keep a calm face and sigh. She often says to Nana, "There will be more places to spend money in the future. Thrift means thrift. " Nana naturally understands her mother-in-law's mind, so she will gently explain to her mother-in-law that she will not spend money indiscriminately and will only buy some necessities.
About half a year after marriage, Nana felt that there were a lot of furnishings and decorations at home, so she took advantage of the online shopping discount to buy a few things online. On the day of receiving the goods, Nana took seven packages from the courier. Nana felt particularly comfortable at the moment she saw the express box, and that kind of satisfaction was really wonderful.
However, when Nana finally went upstairs with seven express parcels, she saw her mother-in-law packing her bags with a cold face, and then she left for her hometown soon without even saying hello to Nana. Nana vaguely knows the reason why her mother-in-law left suddenly, but she doesn't feel wrong, because what she bought is really needed at home.
Originally, Nana was very uncomfortable when her mother-in-law suddenly left, but something happened when Liang Dong came home at night, which made Nana even more angry. It turns out that her mother-in-law's name is Liang Dong. On the phone, she complained that Nana didn't like spending money indiscriminately, so she hoped that Liang Dong would take back her salary card from Nana. After understanding the meaning of her mother-in-law and Liang Dong, Nana gave her Liang Dong's salary card and everything at home on the spot.
Nana did this because she was completely disappointed in Liang Dong. The man who threatened to let her spend money on things before marriage actually changed after marriage.
Message from the vulgar sister: There is nothing wrong with women's love of shopping. It is only natural for men to spend money on their wives. However, there is a limit to everything. As a wife, it is natural to spend money moderately, especially in front of in-laws. It's not easy to make money alone. He is willing to let his wife spend money, but not necessarily willing to let her spend money indiscriminately. After all, no one's money is groundless, and it takes hard work to make money.
Finally, I hope every woman can face shopping rationally. After all, shopping is easy, but making money is not easy.