Marriage is inseparable from rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Marriage can make people realistic, and marriage can also make people naive.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to grasp in marriage. When one day your mother-in-law who was lukewarm to you suddenly treats you well, will you accept it with peace of mind?

At least it's hard for Guo Shan to accept. Guo Shan's work place is far from home. She lives in the dormitory on weekdays and goes home for dinner on weekends.

When I came home at the weekend, my mother-in-law who had always been indifferent to Guo Shan suddenly got up and stuffed a prawn into her hand: "Wife, please eat more. This prawn weighs a kilo in 60 yuan. You worked hard last week and make up for it today. "

After listening to her mother-in-law, Guo Shan knew that shrimp was so expensive. Mother-in-law put four shrimps in Guo Shan's bowl and said with great distress, "You look so thin, make up more."

"Mom, I've lost weight recently." Guo Shan said with a smile that she put two shrimps in the bowl and gave them to her mother-in-law.

"You are not young. It's time to get ready to have children and lose weight. " My mother-in-law brought another chopstick to braise in soy sauce.

Today, Guo Shan was flattered by her mother-in-law's kindness to Guo Shan. You know, when Guo Shan comes home on weekends, her mother-in-law always ignores herself.

02.

My mother-in-law began to have children in disguise again: "Our family has been thinking about having children for several years, but your husband and wife have a good career, and we dare not rush you, so there is something I want to discuss with you." My mother-in-law couldn't hold back her temper and decided to finish everything in her heart at once.

"What is it? Mom. " Guo Shan knew that the meal was not that simple, so she asked her mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law put down her chopsticks and said, "Don't you still have a house? Can I borrow you to stay at my brother-in-law's house for a while? It's empty anyway. "

Guo Shancai knew that her mother-in-law had come for that house. That house was bought by Guo Shan with the money she saved before marriage.

A few years ago, the house price was low, and the family supported the down payment, so Guo Shan used the money saved from work to buy the first suite in his life.

The house I live in now was a wedding gift from Guo's parents when they got married. Now my mother-in-law thinks that if she doesn't pay to get married, she will covet the house that Guo Shan bought before marriage?

"Mom, the house is rented out now. The tenant's lease term is two years, and the rent is paid in one lump sum. " Guo Shan was afraid that her mother-in-law would miss her house before marriage, so she rented it out specially. I didn't expect her mother-in-law to know that the house was rented out, and she also opened such a mouth.

03.

"There to others, it is better to rent it to his brother-in-law. Brother-in-law finally talked about an object this time, and now he is pregnant with a child. It's been three months. If there is no house, and my girlfriend doesn't agree to get married and break up, our family will finally have a grandson, and you won't be born. We can't keep our families being laughed at. Brother-in-law can't afford a house now, and you happen to have a vacant room. Just help your brother-in-law Then tell my brother-in-law's girlfriend that he bought the house and the rent is private. Mother-in-law told her "wishful thinking", fearing that Guo Shan would not agree, she burst into tears.

Guo Shan was frightened by her mother-in-law. When her mother-in-law saw Guo Shan keep silent, she was completely out of control. She almost knelt down and begged Guo Shan so that she could quickly hide in the bedroom.

The husband comforted her mother-in-law and said, "Mom, it is also a big deal to borrow a house as a wedding room. Don't push too hard. "

"Brother, if we pay your rent is a big deal, you should rent it to us. When my job is stable, I plan to buy my own house. " The event of brother-in-law shocked Guo Shan. What do you mean by paying rent? Isn't it natural to pay rent? Does brother-in-law expect Guo Shan to give him the house as a wedding room for free?

In the evening, Guo Shan discussed with her husband whether to lend the house to her brother-in-law. What the husband means is that Guo Shan bought a house before marriage, and she made her own decision.

Guo Shan thinks that her mother-in-law didn't spend a penny when she married her husband, and the house she lives in now was bought by her parents. Why did my brother-in-law get married and borrow his own house, saying that he would pay the rent, and whether he would pay the rent in the future is another matter.

Besides, my brother-in-law doesn't have a reliable job. If you expect him to buy a house and go back to Guo Shan, you won't know how to get it back after a long time.

Guo Shan has a headache at the thought of this house. Excuse me. I really don't want to borrow it at all. I also feel that I am being unreasonable. I didn't expect that I bought a house before marriage. What used to be a good thing has now become a contradiction.

Qiao Mu's emotional message:

In fact, regarding the relationship between relatives, Qiao Mu has always agreed with an ancient saying, "Fight rice to support kindness and bear rice to support enmity".

This is just a house. If the other person is a grateful person, it's nothing, but in the article, I didn't see the generosity of my mother-in-law or the "understanding" of my brother-in-law.

My mother-in-law thinks that renting a daughter-in-law's house is also renting a house. It is better to lend the wedding room to her youngest son and let him get married as soon as possible. This should be the most important significance of this house.

Brother-in-law said, "It's a big deal to pay rent to my sister-in-law." She thinks my sister-in-law should lend out the house to get married. You see, I'm your brother-in-law, and I borrowed your house to get married, and I also rented money. How arrogant I am.

In fact, if you really want to borrow your sister-in-law's house to get married, you should prepare the contract and rent first. Since it is renting a house, we must be prepared to rent a house.

More importantly, the mother-in-law wants to use her sister-in-law's house to trick the kannika nimtragol into saying that the younger son bought the house himself.

Qiao Mu believes that marriage is a lifelong matter and cannot be packaged with lies. Since you didn't buy a house yourself, don't pretend.

Not meeting each other's conditions and not cheating each other are the basic requirements of being a man.

At least my mother-in-law and brother-in-law are the kind of people who like to take advantage of small things and can't suffer. If this house is borrowed for marriage, what will happen in the future is really hard to say.

It's best not to borrow it. Fortunately, Guo Shan's husband left the matter of borrowing the house to Guo Shan to decide for himself and respected Guo Shan, which was really great.

Some things are hard to turn back once they are started, so refusing is the best way.