It took nearly two months to keep her husband from cheating.
After the man who cheated on me, I * * * enjoyed my retention experience for my female friends who had the same experience:
When my husband and I first met, it was beautiful. I am fat and look beautiful. My husband has a strong sense of responsibility. For the better of this family, he worked hard to make money, treated you well and said he loved me. It is precisely because of one of his virtues that after I got married, I took care of everything, eating, playing and cleaning up badly, so it became more and more difficult to be slovenly. My husband complained about me, too. I had a fight with her. After my husband cheated on me, I lost weight 140 kg. Only then did I realize how untidy I am, and which boy hates slim women. So my husband will dislike me, want to divorce me and want to be with me. I don't know what to do with myself. I feel that my husband no longer says he loves me, and the shame in my heart is beyond words. Everyone is very tired.
One day, I impatiently flipped through WeChat on my mobile phone and saw an article about her husband's infidelity published by a service platform. I clicked on this service platform, and there were many articles about maintaining an ambiguous relationship, as well as classic cases of her husband's cheating. After reading it, I felt a glimmer of hope, but I felt powerless to retain it. So I consulted this service platform, and the online customer service helped me analyze it well for the first time, so I plan to pay for one-on-one after-school tutoring. After reading my example materials, Mr. Gao Jianli listened to me describe it again. The teacher helped me analyze it and said that it was mainly because she lost her attraction to her husband and didn't like to dress herself up. I just met a beautiful young girl next to me. If I want to stay, the key is to see if I can change the status quo quickly. I told my teacher that I hope it all belongs to me. The teacher said that the next step depends on your execution ability. The following is the process that the teacher taught me to change the status quo according to my situation:
First, run a gym to lose weight.
Running to lose weight is the healthiest and won't rebound. So in order to lose weight better, I set up a gym and insist on doing various fitness exercises every day. I lost nearly 30 pounds in a month or so. Naturally, the whole process of losing weight is particularly painful, and I am afraid of eating too much every day. At the beginning of losing weight, my husband was still pushing for divorce all day, and the work pressure was particularly great. During the month here, I lost weight and did many other things at the same time.
Second, find a job, share worries for the family and broaden your horizons.
My husband and I have been working since we got married. My husband doesn't like me. He stays at home all day, lazy, lazy and hates doing housework. Therefore, the teacher asked me to help my family find a job anyway. Naturally, it was particularly difficult when I was still looking for a job. Almost ten companies interviewed for the job said that she was too fat to continue to be brushed off. After detailed introductions from relatives and friends, I found a clerical job. In fact, when my husband learned that I had been looking for a job, I kept clamoring for a divorce because I had some good feelings.
Third, change your efforts to clean your home clean and tidy every day.
Maybe I'm used to eating delicious food and lazy to cook it. Therefore, my husband often complains that I not only don't love myself well, but also have a poor quality of life, which is totally self-indulgence. So, now I clean my home clean and tidy every day, and sometimes I buy some flowers at home. Although my husband has seen a lot of changes in me, he obviously feels that his complaints about one thing are getting lower and lower, and he no longer mentions the word divorce.
Fourth, don't make a scene and admire your husband's knowledge.
In the past, when I was not in space, I was always upset. I never give my husband a good look when he comes home from work every day. I keep his cell phone on, just chatting with my friends at work, and swearing when I see it. This kind of personal behavior is naturally undesirable. I have been at work recently. Although I'm not busy, I don't make any noise when I get home. I don't turn on my cell phone or work. I usually go home to help my husband wash some clothes and pants that must be washed by hand. Under moderate circumstances, it also mainly shows praise and admiration for her husband.
Five, constantly improve themselves, _ other.
If you learn how to dress up externally, you will choose clothes and pants that suit you according to your body shape, so that you can become more and more beautiful and your husband can enjoy beauty. Everyone often sees the story of beating a third party in the first room on TV. The clothes in the first room are very simple, so it is better for a third party to dress up to win her husband's joy. Therefore, women can show their elegance by learning to dress themselves well. In addition, the best way for a woman to have taste is to read more books and think more. A woman with taste is the most smelly and elegant. If a woman wants to be a tasteful woman, she must keep learning and training.
What is the performance of a man really returning to his family after cheating? This is how I supported my husband's cheating heart for nearly two months under the strict and specific guidance of the teacher and through this diligence above me.