Maybe one day, you go back to the dormitory, open the door and find your roommate rummaging through his things. You may never think that this kind of thing will happen again, thinking that your roommate who will get along with you for so many years in the future will not do such a thing, and at the same time regard each other as their most sincere friends, but I just didn't expect it.
This is what most people do. When they saw this situation, they just said, What are you doing? Why are you going through my things? Are you stealing? You are such a person, I misjudged you ... it seems that my roommate doesn't listen to what is most unpleasant. At this time, he didn't know how to answer the phone, so he had to silently lower his head and then stand still as if he were a student who had made a mistake.
But this is not correct. Although the other party shouldn't go through your things, we won't say it hurts our self-esteem. People can't lose face, but at least we need dignity. We should respect others and be polite in everything. After all, we have to get along with our roommates for a long time, and we can't look up without seeing them. Why do we have to get along in the future?
The most effective way is to go up and say: What are you looking for? Do you want to use anything? Let me help you find it. I have a lot of messy things. Let me do it ... so that the other person will think that you definitely don't know what he is doing, and then naturally he will say forget it, and suddenly it is not needed.
Let's just pretend that this never happened, and just lock the cupboard after going out, so as not to lose property and destroy the friendship with roommates.
If you really feel that you don't want to hide this fact, and you are afraid that your roommate will go through his things when he is away next time, just say so. When there are only two people, tell each other that if there are any difficulties or needs in life, you can tell me. I can help you and I will help you. After all, fate brought us together in a dormitory.
Actually, you don't have to go through my stuff. I didn't see it. It's okay. If I see it, what kind of eyes should I look at you? Should I always avoid you to prevent your little heart?
Nothing can make you do this, and you don't have to worry about what we will think of you. We are all roommates. Tell me anything in the future.