When my husband and I got married, I knew that my mother-in-law was a little biased, because we were free to fall in love, but according to the custom of my hometown, I hoped that my mother-in-law could give a symbolic bride price of 20 thousand yuan, but her mother-in-law refused to live or die. I have to say, since she doesn't care about the money, why does she have to pay more? She saved money for her brother-in-law's wedding. To this end, the husband also had a quarrel with his mother-in-law. Finally, I advised my husband not to. So, I married my husband. I have been doing my daughter-in-law duty since I got married. As I seldom do housework at home, I began to contract housework and prepare meals. Later, my husband and I bought a house in the city and moved out.
That year, in time for the town planning, my old house was just within the planning scope. According to the policy, I was given two houses, 654.38 million yuan in cash. During this period, my husband and I are also busy with each other. I think, how can we rent a suite? But when the house was transferred, her mother-in-law said it was her house and she could give it to whoever she wanted. We have separated, and you two are holding hands.
At that time, my husband wanted to get angry, so I stopped him. I said to my mother-in-law, "Mom, since you said it's none of our business, we don't want your house, but providing for the aged should be none of our business." At that time, my wife said confidently, I don't need your support. Don't worry, I won't ask you for it. In this way, the mother-in-law walked away.
Since then, we have never visited my mother-in-law except for necessary festivals. Even if there is, it won't take more than 10 minutes, and she kicked me out. Until last month, I heard that my mother-in-law was ill, and I was very anxious at first, but on second thought, my mother-in-law loved her brother-in-law so much, and my brother-in-law would definitely take good care of her, so I didn't take it seriously anymore. But two days later, my brother-in-law drove my mother-in-law to our house. Her mother-in-law told me weakly that she was not feeling well and asked me and her husband to take her to the hospital. I looked at her and had to relent and accompany her husband to the hospital.
After we settled her, my husband and I were ready to leave, but my mother-in-law held us back. We had to pay the hospitalization fee and give her more money. I didn't want to, but she began to cry and called us unfilial. Gradually, someone gathered around and asked her husband to pay. I grabbed her and said to my mother-in-law, "Mom, we didn't get any money when we divided the house, and we didn't need to support the elderly." When everyone understood, they all dispersed.
At this time, my mother-in-law stopped crying, and I took my husband out of the hospital. Later, I learned that my brother-in-law and his wife were very mean to her mother-in-law after squeezing her money dry. Although I love her mother-in-law, I hate her again when I think of what she did before. What should I do?
Reply:
Sister Hongmei, after reading your letter, I was very angry with your mother-in-law's strange behavior. As an old man, especially with two sons, the palms of his hands are all meat, and a bowl of water should be even. If it is extreme, don't "kidnap" his son by the old man, but since you can write to me, you already have the answer in your heart: after all, she is your husband's. But I also hope that you can let bygones be bygones, so Xiao Qiang also hopes that you can help your mother-in-law through the difficulties. Xiao Qiang believes that your mother-in-law will understand the truth after this incident, and I also hope that your family will be harmonious and beautiful!