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20 14 singer Han Lei was publicly "confessed" by Lu Yu when she was a guest in "Lu Yu You Yue":

I think you are a good man who cares about his family, and your tone of voice gives me a lot of points.

In the face of Lu Yu's "confession", Han Lei just smiled and didn't dare to stay on her.

Han Lei said he didn't dare to look directly at Lu Yu, and her face was going to burn.

No one thought that Han Lei, who looks calm and mature on weekdays, has such a shy and lovely side.

However, there is more in Han Lei's life.

Once, he went to all the shopping malls for his beloved woman, just to buy her a cup of milk tea.

He pursued hard for two years, when everyone advised him to give up early, but Han Lei was always like a stubborn cow, and no one listened to him.

Fortunately, fate is fair.

At the age of 39, he finally found his beauty.

Now 15 years have passed, what is the life of the couple?

Before meeting Rebecca, Han Lei's concept of love was always dull.

He has always been a man who longs for freedom. He likes to see the beauty of the world and doesn't like being bound by anything.

Especially in 1988, his inner desire for freedom is more obvious.

This year, Han Lei joined the Youth Symphony Orchestra of the Central Conservatory of Music.

He followed the team to perform in Europe, went back and forth to six countries and saw different customs in different countries.

During his time abroad, he often saw some people greet each other face to face.

Han Lei doesn't understand this greeting.

You are not a couple. Is this behavior too intimate?

However, when this happened to him, Han Lei's reaction was surprising.

At this time, a foreign girl came to their symphony orchestra. She is blonde, beautiful and cheerful.

When she first met Lei Han, she took the initiative to hug him.

Han Lei, who is somewhat conservative in his heart, quickly stepped back and left under the pretext of "going to the toilet".

At that time, perhaps because he was young or naive, he kept a certain distance from the girls and hardly took the initiative to take care of them.

As time goes on, Han Lei's character becomes more and more alienated.

He often stood alone in the corner to practice trombone or hum songs, and it didn't take long for the news that he quit the symphony orchestra.

The reason is that Han Lei found that he prefers pop music to trombone.

So he resolutely left the symphony orchestra and returned to Beijing to travel.

I have to say that Han Lei made the right decision.

Since 199 1 participated in the "New Songs for Newcomers" competition, his fame has spread rapidly in the music world.

Then I sang the theme songs of many TV dramas.

For example, the theme song "Walking Up and Down" of the TV series "Twilight All the Way".

This song directly made him popular all over the country, and at the same time gave him the opportunity to board the stage of the Spring Festival Evening.

Then she sang the theme song "Borrowing Heaven for 500 Years" of the TV series "Kangxi Dynasty".

This song made Han Lei completely stand at the peak of his career, and was even called "King of Songs with King of Songs".

His imposing manner and tone charmed many people.

Of course, many girls are crazy about him.

At that time, there was a fire in Han Lei, and there was a popular saying among the people: "If you want a boyfriend, you must find a manly one!"

And Lei Han is the "pacesetter" with masculinity.

Once, Han Lei was surrounded by a group of female fans as soon as she got off the bus after recording the program. Some people offered flowers, others confessed, and everyone was very enthusiastic.

This made Han Lei very happy, but his heart always felt empty.

He didn't understand the reason himself, so he invited some friends to chat at home.

Four or five men sat cross-legged at the table, and the topic of a group of big men began.

Lei Han first said the most annoying sentence in his heart: "I have been busy at work recently and have been participating in many activities, but I feel like I am missing a piece."

Han Lei once thought he might be old, so he felt this way.

But to his surprise, all his friends laughed when they heard Han Lei's words.

One of them told him seriously: "You are sick, very serious!" "

Han Lei heart a pull, suddenly some panic.

He has always attached great importance to health preservation and his own health. How could he get sick?

But then another friend blurted out: "You are lonely, it's time to find a wife!" " "

After hearing this sentence, Lei Han was relieved.

However, considering what my friends said, Han Lei felt that there was some truth.

He is in his thirties and still single. No wonder he always feels lonely every time he sees a lively scene.

Later, Han Lei also thought of a way, as long as a friend introduced him to the object, he would go to meet.

However, the other party will either reject him because of his appearance or because of his personality.

This once made Han Lei lose a lot of confidence in love.

However, God never shuts one door but he opens another.

At the age of 36, he went to an activity, where he met a girl named Rebecca.

Rebecca's Mongolian name is Qige, younger than Lei Han 16 years old.

In 2003, she participated in the first Youth Image Competition held in Inner Mongolia.

It was just a fresh play, but I didn't expect to win the championship directly.

Then she took part in the China-Russia-Mongolia beauty contest and won the third place.

From then on, the beauty of Rebecca spread in their local area, and some even called her "the flower of Mongolian".

However, Rebecca is not an empty vase.

Besides her beauty, her talent is admirable.

After graduating from the Art College of Inner Mongolia University, Rebecca has been the host of the Shaanxi Opera Troupe of Hohhot Cultural Bureau.

Coincidentally, when Han Lei attended the event, she was the host of the event.

One is a guest and the other is a host. They only talked for a while, and then Han Lei moved away.

He likes Rebecca's beautiful appearance, and even more likes her generous talk.

Perhaps the mood swings were too great, and Han Lei immediately made a decision: "I want to chase her, and I must let her be my wife!"

Han Lei's character has always been calm and composed, and it was not until he met Rebecca that he had his first impulse.

He learned from contact that Rebecca likes tulips very much.

So he went to all the local flower shops and collected 99 tulips of different colors for Rebecca.

Han Lei's sudden and fierce pursuit startled Rebecca.

She didn't expect Han Lei to like herself, so she sent the flowers back soon.

However, Han Lei didn't accept it at all. He said awkwardly, "There is no reason to take back what I sent."

This sentence was actually taught by a friend in Han Lei, and I think this way will impress Rebecca.

However, Rebecca is not interested in him at all.

Rebecca thinks that Han Lei is much older than himself. If we are together, there will be many contradictory generation gaps.

Therefore, Rebecca rejected Han Lei's proposal.

But Han Lei won't give up.

I finally met a girl I like. How can I give up so soon?

Han Lei knows Rebecca's preferences like the back of his hand. Knowing that Rebecca likes milk tea, he ran all over the street to buy it for her.

Knowing that Rebecca likes kebabs, he is afraid that the streets outside are unsanitary, so he buys ingredients, makes them himself and sends them to Rebecca.

Han Lei's contribution to Rebecca is clear to Rebecca, and he is also very moved.

But she knows that touching is not love, and she doesn't love Han Lei yet.

So she solemnly told Han Lei: "We are not suitable, don't waste time on me."

Although Han Lei has experienced many things, she was still a little uncomfortable when she was rejected by her beloved girl.

Did he ever doubt himself? Is he really too old? Is it time to give up?

Han Lei fell silent. He wants to calm himself down for a while.

So he stopped all acts of being nice to Rebecca.

As the saying goes, "some people will only regret it if they lose it."

Han Lei didn't contact for several days, which made Rebecca feel a little confused and empty.

For several days, when she closed her eyes, her mind was full of Han Lei.

At that time, Rebecca still couldn't believe it: "I don't like Han Lei, do I?"

Rebecca thought the idea was terrible. She worked hard to get rid of this idea.

Sometimes I host three or five activities a day without stopping.

So, before long, her body couldn't bear it and she was exhausted.

Rebecca lives alone in an apartment and usually takes care of herself.

She is too ill to tell her parents, so she can only support herself.

However, it is better to have a man around the girls.

Soon, the boy appeared.

I learned from my friend that Wang Sheng was ill, so I rushed to her house nonstop.

The appearance of Han Lei is like a light, and Rebecca still can't believe it.

"Why didn't you tell me you were ill?" Han Lei looked at the weak Rebecca, a little worried.

So before Rebecca answered, he immediately called a car and took Rebecca to the hospital.

This matter is like a small seed, which germinates, grows and matures in Rebecca's heart.

Through this profound exchange, Rebecca's impression of Han Lei is getting better and better.

Gradually, she also began to face up to her heart.

She likes Han Lei.

In Han Lei's eyes, Rebecca is like magic. As long as you meet him, you will be deeply attracted.

Soon, Han Lei made another confession to Rebecca.

Rebecca didn't refuse this time, and they became boyfriend and girlfriend.

After dating for a while, they finally got married in 2006.

Lei Han chased Rebecca hard for two years and finally got his wish.

However, shortly after they got married, there was a lot of criticism.

At that time, many people said to Rebecca, "Men are always different before and after marriage. Let her be optimistic about Han Lei."

In the face of this discussion, Rebecca just smiled and never commented.

After all, we know ourselves.

Lei Han after marriage is really different from that before marriage.

He became more fond of and loved his daughter-in-law.

He never interferes with his wife's career, nor does he make too much planning.

In Han Lei's view, living in the present is the most important thing.

In their family, as long as Han Lei is at home, Han Lei will do all the housework.

Sometimes Rebecca goes out to participate in social activities, throws some tried-on clothes on the bed, and then leaves without finishing them.

I thought Han Lei would be angry when he saw this, but he didn't.

He came to the room silently, folded every piece of his wife's clothes and put them neatly in the closet.

This incident left a deep impression on Rebecca.

At the same time, Rebecca was very moved.

But a woman is always a woman, and sometimes there are some cute little moves that make her husband jealous.

In 20 13, the Korean drama "You from the Stars" became popular, and Rebecca was deeply infatuated with the protagonist Do Min Joon.

At that time, she sighed at home every day: "What a perfect man!"

Every time I hear this sentence, Lei Han always says sourly, "Those are TV plays. How can there be such a perfect man in real life? "

Seeing that her husband was jealous, Rebecca obediently came to Han Lei.

A gentle "husband" instantly dispelled Han Lei's dissatisfaction.

In fact, whether before marriage or after marriage, the mode of getting along with each other has always been like this.

Later, they also had a son and a daughter. The son's name is Han Jin and the daughter's name is Han.

Originally thought that after having children, Han Lei would work harder to earn money for milk powder. Unexpectedly, he gave up most of his work and concentrated on taking care of the children at home.

He once said, "It's hard enough for my wife to have children. Let me take care of them! "

As a father, Han Lei not only shows undiminished love for his wife, but also shows increasing love for his children.

Every time Lei Han comes home from work, two little guys will rush at him like rocket launchers and then jump into his arms.

If Han Lei only holds his daughter, his son will be unhappy.

If you only hold your son, your daughter will cry.

So you have to hug each other, one in each hand.

The two little guys are like grinding goblins, and no one wants to come down from their father's arms. A pair of little hands wrapped around his neck tightly and said one by one, "Dad, I miss you so much."

Han Lei has always had a flat water bowl, so if you want to buy gifts, you should buy two.

But even so, he will not spoil his children.

If the children are naughty, Han Lei will reach out and knock on the table twice, and then look at them with sharp eyes.

Seeing dad's serious appearance, the two little guys instantly became little sheep and immediately became quiet.

At that time, someone asked: "What if you do this and the child still doesn't listen?"

Han Lei jokingly said, "Then put it in a dark room for reflection."

Han Lei never advocates hitting children.

Sometimes little boys are really naughty, and some parents can't help playing.

But here in Han Lei, I think this way is very inappropriate.

He believes that beating children will only cast a shadow on their hearts, and parents should be patient and establish a correct world outlook for their children.

In terms of family, Han Lei has always enjoyed it.

Enjoy the love of wife and children.

But he always has regrets in his heart.

Because I am an artist, I often travel abroad, and I won't be back for at least half a month.

So he felt guilty that he spent too little time with his wife and children, so he spent all his time with his family after returning from a business trip.

Go shopping with your wife and play with your children.

Although he sometimes falls asleep when he comes home, he still tries to play with the children.

Han Lei said: "The companionship is not how much, but whether the time spent with you is happy or not. Sometimes one of my expressions and one look can make children happy for a long time. "

Han Lei's mode of getting along with children is very famous in the entertainment circle.

So when the variety show "Where is Dad?" aired in the second season, it was being filmed, and the program group invited Han Lei.

However, Han Lei refused.

He doesn't want his children to be exposed to the camera too much. He wants to protect the privacy of his family.

However, this quietly protected emotion is sometimes revealed.

In 2020, Lei Han took his wife and children to a party.

Perhaps the atmosphere reached a climax, and Han Lei kissed his wife's face directly.

At this time, there was a loud cry outside the venue, and the son sitting there was shocked.

As the saying goes, "it is easy for two people to fall in love, but it is difficult to be together."

By 2022, Han Lei and his wife Rebecca have been married 16 years.

16 years, their feelings are still like young lovers in love.

No matter how he treats his wife or children, Lei Han is an indomitable person.

Of course, in the face of parents, so is Han Lei.

Rebecca once said, "I think I am really lucky to meet Han Lei. He is not only good to me and my children, but also very filial to his parents. "

In terms of family life, Han Lei, though not perfect, at least achieved everyone's satisfaction.

A well-behaved person treats his wife, children and parents very well.

It's just that Han Lei is such a person.

However, sometimes Han Lei will feel: "If I can reduce some work and spend more time with my family, I believe my family will be better."

In fact, we all understand Han Lei's difficulties.

After all, as an artist, it is normal to be busy at work, but he is willing to spend time with his family after being busy, which many artists can't do.

In this world, there is a kind of love called companionship.

There is also a responsibility called Han Lei's contribution.

It took him two years to finally marry his beloved woman at the age of 39, and now he has been in love 16 years, and his feelings are still inseparable.

Things change. We should all be kind people, love our families and ourselves.