1, a bad habit that men must get rid of
body odour
Body odor, especially foot odor, a man who smells like smoke is actually the most disgusting thing for female friends!
In the eyes of women, roommates need a clean and refreshing environment. If you want to be a lovely man, wash yourself before going to bed!
beer belly
When intimate, beer belly will make women feel uncomfortable and make them doubt men's sexual ability. In order to have a beautiful roommate, men need to keep exercising, eat regularly and lose excess fat on their stomachs.
lose hair
According to a survey data, about 80% of women are very concerned about whether the other person is bald when looking for the other half.
Therefore, when men start to lose their hair, they should go to the hospital in time. You know, thick hair will make you look cuter.
burp
Burping has always been regarded as uncivilized behavior, but some men ignore this detail. Experts pointed out that in order to prevent hiccups, don't eat too much at dinner. If hiccups are accompanied by abdominal pain, nausea and other symptoms, you need to seek medical advice in time.
2. How to get rid of bad habits
1, never likes to do housework
Many men don't like to do housework. Even if they don't do housework, they still like to throw away the used shampoo, and they don't care if the bottle is tilted.
The difference between bottle body and bottle cap body; Towels are scattered on the edge of the shelf, dripping wet; Dirty socks stuffed in shoes; A coat hanging with pajamas.
"Just 10 minutes ago, I just cleaned up everything! At home, I am busy doing housework, but he sits there drinking tea and watching TV. "
"My husband is four years older than me, which gives me enough reason to think that big men should make way for small women. The so-called man should hold his chest. "
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Appropriately stand by-let a man be responsible for his actions, separate his clothes, socks, supplies, etc., and close the cupboard door, no matter what is in it. As long as you can hold on, you can win.
Arrange a labor cycle: explain to your husband that you have a very important thing to deal with recently (such as writing a paper on promotion, a plan, etc.) ), and if you don't do well, you may be fired. Therefore, all the housework is undertaken by him. After this time, he can relax properly. Then, find another excuse that in the next cycle, housework will still be dominated by him.
Not long after he got married, he found it boring for them to look at me and me. He often goes to see his buddies after work at night, and sometimes he doesn't come back until one or two at night. I couldn't bear it, so I had a big fight with him. The more noisy he was, the less he liked coming back, so he slept with his buddies. You can't get married and divorced for this, can you?
2. Spend money like water
My husband loves face. Every time a friend has dinner together, he grabs the bill. A while ago, he was fascinated by the lottery. No one left behind. The money spent on lottery tickets every month is dizzying. I discussed with him: "Save some money every month in the future." My husband promised very readily, but in fact, all the flowers were spent and there was no improvement at all.
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Download an electronic family financial management software: it will make it easy for you to know where the money has gone.
Sit down and talk once a month: make a summary and discuss some adjustments in consumption. For example, you can discuss cutting extra expenses or making plans to save money and buy big items.
AA system with him: draw a clear line with him economically and let him know the power of money.
3. Stay naughty at night
When my husband and I got married, both of them were almost 30, and the hygiene habits and habits had basically taken shape. His greatest feature is that he is easy to make friends, and he gets together once every three days and once every five days.
Not long after he got married, he found it boring for them to look at me and me. He often goes to see his buddies after work at night, and sometimes he doesn't come back until one or two at night. I couldn't bear it, so I had a big fight with him. The more noisy he was, the less he liked coming back, so he slept with his buddies. You can't get married and divorced for this, can you?
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It's better to blame than to be moved: don't argue with him when he comes back late, prepare toiletries for him, make a snack, and leave a note for him to eat, wash and sleep, so as not to be tired at work the next day.
Deal with a man as he deals with you: you don't have to rush home after work every day. A man is not as patient as a woman. Let him have a taste of waiting for someone.
Speak your feelings: Tell him your feelings directly, instead of blaming and crying, and let him know what you really think.
4. Excessive addiction to the Internet and games.
Pushing open the door, I began to sigh because I saw him sitting in front of the computer again. I calculated that I10: 00 am got up at the weekend and started to watch the news online. Then go to BBS, play games and play lianzhong; After lunch, continue to repeat the "work" in the morning until dinner.
I am reluctant to go to the computer at night, wandering in the trade union 1 1. In the middle of the night 1 point, still fighting in online military chess; At about 3 o'clock in the morning, we stopped arguing and went to bed.
In this way, the time in front of the computer is 13.5 hours/day, and almost every weekend is spent like this.
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Actively design outdoor activities: organize outdoor activities with friends and family to enrich his life, so that he may not only be obsessed with the internet.
You must never have two computers at home: in case you let him occupy it without any worries.
Change the online fee from monthly subscription to hourly subscription to reduce the online fee and control the online time.
If he is really addicted to online games, he can seek the help of a psychologist.