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When it comes to women in Wang Fu, the first impression in people's minds is that women are slightly fat, with a wide face and a full heaven, and Fiona Fang is the pavilion. ...
But in addition to these, a woman's gentleness and family-oriented personality are the essence of Wang Fu.
There is a saying that "a man with a good wife cannot be greedy for sudden misfortune."
"A virtuous body and a rich house", Wang Fu's wife will become more and more beautiful because of her gentle and virtuous personality, even though her appearance is not good.
Therefore, it doesn't matter if a woman is ugly. Who says ugly women have no husbands? The important thing is gentle personality, good character in dealing with people, no quarrel, no care, no luck.
A Ting is such a Wang Fu woman.
Although Ating is not very beautiful, Ating has a very good personality. She is not only gentle and considerate at home, but also helps her husband bear the pressure and responsibility outside.
A Ting's husband has been married for six years now. Except for occasional bickering, the two never quarreled once, and their faces never turned red. Under the nourishment of a happy marriage and love, Ating, who is not very good-looking, looks soft and blessed.
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A Ting and A Hao have been married for six years, and they have opened a department store in a small town, and their lives are thriving.
People in the village all say that Ating Wang Fu, because A Hao can have a good life now, only after marrying Ating, so people in the village always say that Ating is "the husband's family has money" and "Wang Fu".
After carefully understanding Ating, I realized that Ating's Wang Fu was mainly due to Ating's character and people skills.
A Hao is an orphan. He was raised in a relative's house. Although A Hao has no parents, she has a good personality.
A Ting and A Hao met on the bus, and they fell in love at first sight.
At first, Ating's parents disagreed with their relationship, because Ating's family was OK in the local area. Although both of them are rural people, Ating's family is at least complete, and her life and economy are more than enough.
But Ating doesn't lie economically, and she doesn't care that A Hao is an orphan. What she values is Ah Hao's ambition and personality.
Under Ating's persuasion, her parents also considered that Ating was 27 years old and not young. After a year or two, she was almost thirty years old, and it was time to settle down for her lover, so she agreed to their relationship.
Today, the two have been married for six years and are very happy. A Hao changed from a penniless poor boy to the owner of a wholesale department store in the town, and his business was booming.
A Ting and A Hao not only have a two-story wholesale department in a small town, but also bought a house in the city where they live. Everyone in the village said that A Hao was blessed and married a daughter-in-law from Wang Fu.
To say that Atingwangfu is really true, Ahao himself said that his daughter-in-law, Atingwangfu, especially five years ago, shortly after their marriage, something happened to Qin Hao, which made Ahao himself say that "Atingwangfu saved my life".
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That was shortly after A Hao and A Ting got married. At that time, A Hao and two other boys in the village were pulling bricks for a construction site in the suburbs in a brick factory five miles away from home. It's hard.
It's very hot at noon in summer, and the three brick-pulling cars are all brick delivery cars at the same site, and they all come together.
At noon, the bricks of the brick car are all installed, and we are waiting to take them to the construction site after dinner. At this time, A Ting sent A Hao some mung bean soup, saying it was too hot and wanted A Hao to relieve the heat.
The other two boys are envious of A Hao. In the scorching sun, my daughter-in-law walked five miles to deliver mung bean soup. Think of your daughter-in-law. She doesn't even have a care phone.
A Ting distributed the mung bean soup to three big men and advised them that it was too hot, so it was better to rest for two hours before continuing to pull.
The three men refused to listen, thinking that they would earn more money if they pulled more. Everyone's life is very hard, and they all pull bricks for their livelihood.
A Ting couldn't persuade others, insisting that A Hao rest for two hours before leaving, or he would be ignored.
A Hao couldn't hold his daughter-in-law's request, so he had to lie in the shade for a while, thinking that after the other two companions came back from the construction site, the three of them would start together again.
However, after A Hao rested for two hours, his companion hasn't come back. According to common sense, it takes only one and a half hours to go back and forth from the brick factory to the construction site, and you have to turn around.
A Hao call in the past, just know two people had an accident.
The reason is that the driver is tired of driving because of the hot weather. When crossing a bridge on the brick-pulling road, he collided with two big trailers and they died on the spot.
Hearing this, A Hao breath a mouthful of cold sweat. When he was sad for losing his companion, he also thanked his wife. Thanks to my regular delivery of mung bean soup and my daughter-in-law's strict request for a good rest, I would rather make less money than put safety first.
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From then on, A Hao stopped driving to pull bricks. A Ting and I borrowed some money from the bank and started a wholesale business in the town.
At first, the business of the wholesale store was not ideal, and A Hao was anxious, but he couldn't think of any other way. After that, A Ting ran around for A Hao, went to small shops in various villages and pulled business for her department store.
Many people like A Ting's way of dealing with people. She is not only generous and decent, but also stingy. If she buys more, she will get a discount or give her a cup and toothpaste. If she takes her children, A Ting will give them candy to eat. Neighbors and people in small shops in the village come here to buy things like A Ting.
It is precisely because of Ating's gentle and generous personality and good interpersonal skills that she has brought quite ideal business to the wholesale department.
It took them five years not only to get a bank loan, but also to buy a car and a house in the county.
All this is due to the marriage between Ah Hao and A Ting. Even Ah Hao feels that without A Ting, he wouldn't be today.
In these five years, when two people do business, A Hao can't settle accounts or write, because he is an orphan, and it's good to be in good health. He never studies.
So as long as there is time, A Ting will pay A Hao to settle accounts and write. A Hao is willing to learn, and he is smart and quick to learn. Although there is not much knowledge in my mind now, I can already compare with junior high school graduates.
As neighbors, we witnessed the development of Qin Hao from a poor boy with nothing to a house and a car today. We all know that all this is because Ahao married a "Wang Fu" woman.
Whenever neighbors mention that Ating is a woman who sings with her husband, Ating will bow her head shyly, as gentle as water, without arrogance or rashness.
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When I was chatting with Ating once, Ating talked about her bitter history.
She said that when Ah Hao just got married, Ah Hao was very thin, the food was out of season and his life was irregular. When a person is used to idleness, he naturally develops some bad habits, such as always staying up late, so it is better not to eat breakfast, such as smoking.
However, A Hao is good-natured and self-motivated, which is why she likes him. Just because A Hao didn't have the guidance of his parents, he was used to doing his own thing on weekdays, so he didn't know how to be flexible. This is also the main reason why he was very motivated, but he had nothing for a few years before marriage.
After that, A Ting disciplined A Hao bit by bit, which not only made his life regular, but also helped him get rid of bad habits. In dealing with people, A Ting also explained and helped A Hao privately.
A Ting said, "When I first got married, A Hao said he was afraid that I thought he was poor. I'll talk to him. What is there to be afraid of? I don't think you are poor. Now that we are married, being poor means being poor together. Besides, we can live by ourselves and live well in the future. Husband and wife are United, and black soil becomes gold. "
I said to A Ting, "Everyone in our town says that you are a woman from Wang Fu. If it weren't for you, A Hao would have died."
A Ting paused, her eyes a little blurred. It took dozens of seconds before she told me that at that time, Ah Hao was pulling bricks in the brick factory, and he was so tired that he was out of breath every day, and his feet were covered with blisters. In order to earn more money, he ran twice more and didn't know how to rest.
She loves A Hao dearly, but nothing can help her. So she had to make some mung bean soup from time to time and send it to the factory. By the way, she accompanied him to talk and rest under her own supervision. Don't ignore her health for the money of pulling bricks twice more.
It is precisely because when she was a child, she walked five miles from time to time to send A Hao mung bean soup and supervise A Hao to rest. A Hao didn't want her to make a trip in vain, so she obediently obeyed, which saved her from a disaster.
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Later, I asked Ating how to get along with husband and wife. When A Hao and Ating were together, Ating would support and encourage A Hao no matter what A Hao said. Even if A Hao has anything to do, A Ting will only talk to A Hao privately.
Two people live a life of business and quantity. There is no need for anyone to listen to anyone, and whoever makes sense will listen to anyone. There is no red-faced quarrel. Now they have been married for more than six years, just like when they first got together.
Don't quarrel if you have something. I've lived for six years, and I've hardly quarreled or blushed.
A Ting said, "They all say that I am Wang Mi's woman. I never thought about it. I only know that Ahao is my husband, and everything I do is for him and for our family. "
Yes, a real "Wang Fu" woman is actually a considerate and generous wife, who knows how to care about her husband, is not stingy, is not stingy, is not annoying, is not too picky, is not always picky, and gives her husband appropriate encouragement, support and trust when he needs it.
To tell the truth, women in Wang Fu are actually the most prosperous women.