Huo Siyan's educational methods.

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Huo Siyan went to Weibo for a hot search, not because of any scandal that surprised her chin, but because of the way she educated her son.

Mm-hmm. This is an appropriate love story, little prince. When he saw the photo of his mother 16 years old, he not only recognized her, but also praised her for her beautiful makeup and said that he would buy her flowers, diamonds, necklaces, lipsticks and beautiful shoes.

When will mom be angry with you?

Uh-huh said, "Mom is never angry with me."

Ask mom what's wrong?

Uh-huh said simply, "No."

In my mind, my father is a prince, I am a little prince and my mother is a little princess.

I want to ask, who doesn't want such a son, who won't be naughty and lawless, who won't be too naughty and angry for no reason, but who will spoil her mother into a little princess in minutes?

I still remember a saying in the CCTV documentary Mirror that every child is born with a blank sheet of paper, and his parents are painters. What a blank sheet of paper becomes depends on his parents.

Behind the children with high emotional intelligence, there must be high-profile parents.

Some people questioned whether Huo Siyan regarded his son as a tool to make money, otherwise, how could he appear frequently and be overexposed?

In fact, participating in such a program is the same as taking him to the playground. It is also a way of companionship and a record of growth.

3 years old is the best time for children and parents to cultivate their feelings. So Huo Siyan is willing to let her son stay with her and go to kindergarten one year later, which is her best gift to her son.

As Bi Shumin said: "You must talk to the sun, moon and stars, talk to rivers, lakes and seas, shake hands with every tree and be close to every grass, and you will suddenly realize the vastness of the universe, the smallness of life, the preciousness of time and the approach of death."

Children's childhood is really beautiful when they get along with their parents day and night.

Also in the variety show, Eva Huang's mother and son were in the same box, which was almost full of embarrassment.

Although there is a magnificent house, a playground for one person, a well-fed family and obedient love, his son Andy is not so happy.

When the host asked, "Would you be lonely without your parents?"

Andy's simple sentence "No, because I'm used to it" really hurts my heart.

It is conceivable that Eva Huang and his son spend so little time together. Therefore, it is not surprising that my son only scored 28 points in the senior high school entrance examination. In order to create an image of a good mother, Eva Huang tried her best to please her, but her son's favorite person was grandma.

Many parents pursue success all their lives. In fact, success means having time to accompany children, and companionship is the most precious gift parents give their children.

In addition to companionship, children need the respect of their parents.

Before I participated in Where is Dad? With Du Jiang, four-year-old Uh-huh showed strong vocabulary and extremely strange brain circuits.

At that time, many viewers thought that Uh-huh was a little sissy, always crying and feeling like a tornado.

Indeed, from the perspective of adults' thinking, mm-hmm this child is really "naughty". He will not put the overall situation first, nor will he restrain and conceal his own small thoughts. But isn't that good?

How many parents, under the banner of "for your own good", interfere with their children's choices and ignore their hearts. A little disobedience, children will bear the stigma of "disobedience" and "ignorance". And those children who are too sensible are less childish and more sophisticated, like soulless puppets.

My beloved toys are all given to others by my parents, and they also say that they want to learn pears from Kong Rong. They are often compared with other children by their parents, as if I were nothing.

Mr. and Mrs. Huo Siyan have done a good job in this respect. They respect their son's nature very much and encourage him to do what he thinks is not too much.

Du Jiang once admitted in an interview that while guiding children to learn excellent qualities, they should also learn how to love themselves and dare to say "no" to things that go against their wishes.

Recently, there was a particularly popular video, which made everyone admire the couple's educational methods.

Du Jiang is afraid that, well, he will feel uncomfortable when he sees his father wearing women's clothes. He specialized in gender education, emphasizing that this is just acting-"You have to be a real man".

It also taught him that in the relationship between men and women, he should know how to compromise moderately for the person he likes-"only for the woman he loves."

Then Huo Siyan interrupted him: "I don't think you should say that, but you can do it for the sake of your beloved boy or girl."

Hearing this, Du Jiang was a little surprised, but Huo Siyan was very calm: "Nothing, I am very happy."

From childhood to adulthood, what we hear most is "you want to be successful", not "you want to be happy". Since childhood, we have been given high hopes and become dragons and phoenixes among people, but few people have asked us what you really want and what you really like.

Our definition of success is too simple, with a monthly salary of tens of thousands, a car and a house, becoming a CEO and marrying a white wife. We are too eager to succeed, too eager to succeed, but no one dares to live the life they want when they grow up.

Huo Siyan's phrase "Just be happy" instantly makes people cry.

Just some time ago, Sun Anzuo, an exchange student from Taiwan Province Province in the United States, was arrested on suspicion of premeditated robbery. His other identity is the son of Taiwan Province movie star Di Ying.

Some unpredictable netizens said that Di Ying's education method showed bad results so soon.

Di Ying's education for her son is basically closely monitored, strictly controlled, and even supervised when eating.

When I was a child, Di Ying stipulated how many bowls her son should eat for each meal and how many points he should get for his homework. His son was scared to death even after he fell. But I never imagined that the captive canary did not become the dragon and phoenix in the world, but embarked on the road of crime under the care of her biological mother who was almost abnormal.

This reminds me of a point shared by Wu Zhihong in The Wonderful Congress. Obedience is a scam passed down from generation to generation.

In order to satisfy their children's lofty desire for control, parents put a spell of "obedience" on their children. Once a child wants to break through the imprisonment of his parents, he is likely to go to extremes, either crazy or dead.

Back to Mr. and Mrs. Huo Siyan, when asked "What my mother said to him the most in the eyes of Uh-huh", both mother and son answered "I love you" without hesitation.

Therefore, you see, the correct education is not to domesticate the child into the way he wants to be a superior, but to let him run and play as he pleases. You just need to hold him tightly on the edge of danger.

Give children the respect and freedom they deserve, and children will naturally return true love.

If you look closely, it is not difficult to find that children who grow up in unhappy families rarely have the same bright smiles as their peers.

Being born in a family has the greatest influence on a person. Most adults' psychological problems can be attributed to their childhood experiences, especially when their parents quarreled in front of them.

Therefore, the best education for children is that fathers love their mothers.

Huo Siyan, born in 1980, is 38 years old and still full of girlish feelings. She is not afraid to express her love for her husband and son. She will kiss her husband in front of the children and tell her son word by word how much she loves him.

In fact, children's ability to accept love and give love is acquired through years of getting along with their parents, which is imperceptible day after day.

Finally, the article ends with a poem "For My Children" recited by Du Jiang. I hope you will be a parent one day and don't let your children make mistakes all their lives.

You are not my hope.

You are your own hope.

My unfulfilled dream is still mine.

It's none of your business, so let them have nothing to do with you.

Why not have a brand-new dream?

I didn't have to be there in that dream.

I am an aging thing.

But I'm not ready to dedicate my life to you.

This is my stubbornness

But I love you, my child.

I love you, that's all.

Original author? I don't know how I feel