You can regard him as your child. You can participate in every stage of the child's growth and watch him grow from ignorance to maturity, from childhood to growth. When you see a child growing up with your help, you will get joy you can't imagine.
There is a good saying: watching children grow up is really the biggest gain. You teach children a method, give them a task, and really trust them and tell them that they can do it, then children can often truly show their potential. And when they do, parents will be relieved of a little burden.
Adopted children can be sensitive and prickly at the same time. Because I don't know how to speak, I often poke other people's wounds intentionally or unintentionally. They may think that this is just a quick conversation, exposing other people's shortcomings and making themselves and others happy. So don't tell him unless you tell him the truth.
In the process of raising children, we should get along with them as children, that is, as equals. Some parents speak softly, never use the tone of reprimand, and even let their children do nothing, but the children are polite, do not cross the line, and grow up calmly according to the law. This is the charm of equality.
You can proudly say to my child: Maybe we can't catch the stars and the moon, and we can't give you the richest life in the world, but we can still gently hug our beloved in our own hut, and we all love you very much.
You can proudly tell your child: because you have a sense of security, because you have confidence, because you are full of spirit, even if you encounter great hardships, you know that you can bear it. The best gift to accompany you to grow up is that we love each other for a lifetime.