Immersed in the memories coming and going, a person's sadness will only make his sadness deeper and deeper, thus endangering his life, as if he had fallen to the bottom and could not concentrate on the sun. This old age is absolutely painful. When you are old, you should look further, don't live in memories, enjoy the present, keep a positive attitude, and don't put all the pressure on yourself.
We should also keep a positive attitude when dealing with the irrationality or some setbacks in our old age. Every family has a book, laugh at it, but we can't escape. Why not deal with it happily? As the saying goes, "the contented are always happy." You must not spend your old age in blind comparison and pursuit. As long as you are happy inside and everything is the source of happiness, you can live a happier life. Remember, being cheerful is a kind of mental health preservation and the best way of life.
Learn to be alone, don't be impetuous, and get into a quiet and lonely life when you are old. Because children are running their own careers and lives, learning to be alone can help children see their inner world clearly and live a more leisurely life. Frankly speaking, people at this stage are very impetuous. Once their mentality is out of control, it is easy to be impulsive, but it is not as vigorous as when they were young. Careless will affect the mood and human body, it is difficult to live calmly and chic. There is no way in life to enjoy the simplicity of time in a person's solitude.
A person enjoys reading when he is alone, tastes the sweetness of tea soup, feels the feeling of life in meditation, and makes his mood wander in calming his mind. In the beautiful old age, experience the simplicity of the years. Remember, silence is the most leisurely elegance when people are old. People are not afraid of old age. What they are afraid of is that you have lost your inner pursuit and don't want to be old. Everyone is getting old. While cherishing the present years, we also need to maintain a positive attitude and pursue a person's solitude and the confusion and agility of life.