There is a state of mutual dislike between older women and older men, because both sides think that they are excellent, that they should adhere to principles for love and cannot give up some of their own requirements, so both sides choose to be single. Older women don't mean that they are not good enough, but that they have better requirements for their other half, so most people can't reach them, not to say that they all dislike them, but in reality older women rarely can.
Most of the older women feel that their conditions are excellent and they have high requirements for their other half. They think their other half should be better, at least better than themselves, otherwise why choose her? There is nothing wrong with this kind of thing in essence, but when the older women are excellent to a certain extent, they find that there are too few people who are really better than themselves. Even if they do, they also have their favorite partner, because they also have high requirements for their foreman, so this kind of thing. Unless they can change their conditions appropriately and choose more realistic conditions one day, they will not be pushed up continuously.
There is a magical group in society called female doctors. Because of their academic qualifications, they may be in their twenties when they graduate, and then they will be 30 years old just after they join the work. Therefore, because of their long-term educational experience, they may not be emotionally rich and have higher requirements for the other half, which leads to this continuous single situation. It's not that there is any bad opinion about this group, but that this demand is really difficult, because men can't be higher than doctoral degrees. So we need to be realistic.