Ancient ancestors summed up a set of specific laws through their own experience, namely proverbs and proverbs. Although some proverbs and aphorisms can only take effect in a certain period, it does not mean that we can not respect their existence. The ancients said, "Men are afraid of persimmons and women are afraid of pears". What does this sentence mean? After careful analysis, we have to be impressed by the wisdom of our ancestors.
But there is a limit to everything. No matter how good nutrition is, you can't eat too much. If it exceeds the acceptable level of the body, nutrition will become toxic. If you want to have a healthy body, you must have a balanced nutrition and eat whole grains. Why are men afraid of persimmons?
Persimmons are ripe in autumn, and red lights are hung on the trees. Persimmons in Huang Cancan look very pleasing to the eye. On the surface, men should not be afraid of persimmons, which taste good and sweet. In fact, the ancients also like to play homophonic stalks, so men are afraid of persimmons in persimmons and homophonic with persimmons.
In ancient China, men were superior to women, and the family attached great importance to inheritance. They think that only men can carry on the family line. Therefore, once the family encounters a change, it is unacceptable for the father to die. On the one hand, he suffered from the loss of his son. The most important thing is that there is no one in his family to carry on the family line, and no one even burns incense for his ancestors on the first day of the New Year's Day.
There is also a saying that persimmon stands for four words, namely, eating, drinking, whoring and gambling. In ancient times, men were the main productive forces and the backbone of the family. If the pillar of the family gets bad habits, it will be the misfortune of the whole family. Therefore, from this sentence, men are warned to stay away from bad habits such as eating, drinking, whoring and gambling, and be responsible for themselves and their families.
Women are afraid that pears are actually homophonic stalks, and pears are separate. Because the special social form in the feudal period led to the very low status of women, women could only rely on men to survive. The education they received from childhood was based on husbands, three obedience and four virtues, and they could even accept husbands, three wives and four concubines, so women were very obedient after birth.
Because the whole society is very unfriendly to women, women are very worried about being driven out of the house by their husbands. If such a thing really happens, then this woman will bear the finger pointing of others in the whole society and make her family look down.
Therefore, in such a social background, if there is a conflict between men and women, public opinion will think that women are not sensible, women do not know how to share their worries for their husbands, and their parents have not given her a good education. So women are afraid of separation, separation of husband and wife, separation of husband and wife.
If we consider this problem from the perspective of current health care, then persimmon itself belongs to cold food. Eating too much will lead to food accumulation. Moreover, from the perspective of Chinese medicine, men are mainly yang, and if they eat too much yin and cold substances, it will damage their health.
Pears are also cold food. For women, eating too much cold food will cause stomach upset, and if ice cream is not eaten properly, it may also lead to gynecological diseases. In fact, many human diseases are related to diet. With proper exercise, you can have a healthy body. A healthy body is responsible for yourself and your family.
Conclusion: Some people scoff at the proverbs and aphorisms left by their ancestors, and even think that they are pseudoscience and should not be passed down. However, those common sayings and proverbs that are difficult to appeal to the public can be passed down to this day, which has its value and necessity. We should not completely deny or accept them. We should think about all the problems left over from feudalism with dialectical eyes, and know how to choose and accept rationally.
Whether persimmon or pear, people who love eating it will find it delicious, and those who don't like eating it will find it difficult to swallow, but for the sake of health, the intake of various elements is also excellent, as long as we grasp the appropriate scale. Then the proverbs and proverbs left by our ancestors can make us feel the long history of China culture and the generation of wisdom in different periods.