The story of the warm man David: If you don't walk by the river, you won't get wet. David, an ordinary young man, is 35 years old this year. He is already a hot A-list actor. His performances in My Morning Seeing Girlfriend and Taiping Wheel are brilliant, and his family is so happy that he envies others. On TV or on the screen, David's most famous roles are mostly unruly Gao Shuai tycoons or unruly prodigals. A fucking Beijing film, with wrinkled eyes and pie mouth, reveals some meaning of being out of touch with the world. In Morning Watch, he also showed a lively and funny side, but in private, David is famous for his few words. "Only by drinking a little wine with your wife or close friends can you reveal this part of humor." This kind of humor is not funny or teasing others, and the scope is generally controlled in joking. He is not "funny" at all, even reserved and taciturn. Even though David interviewed reporters many times, he couldn't tell his impression. They have never seen David smile happily or feel particularly excited. "His eyes always have a sense of tiredness and alienation." He answers questions in a regular way, has the right to speak, and rarely makes out-of-line "golden sentences". When some actors are filming, they will invite all the staff to the playground to show their affinity. On the other hand, David maintains the boundary between familiarity and strangeness. His thoughtfulness will only appear when he feels that he has something to say and do. If he has nothing to do, he will say hello politely and wait quietly. He doesn't mind this silence. Although he is a public figure, it is difficult for David to appear warm in the face of strange media. His outlook on life is more like a lifelong standard, and the three views are recognized as "particularly positive and particularly healthy." Every time his wife Guan Yue and his best friend Dong Xuan get together and want to chat, David "criticizes" them: "Stop gossiping and eat! That's someone else's life, don't pass it on, it's not necessarily right. " Later, Guan Yue was infected and didn't like to gossip. When she sees others gossiping, her husband will persuade them. David believed in Buddhism. He explained karma: "It's not that karma is mysterious and bizarre. In fact, some things are like the butterfly effect, which can be found after a circle. If you understand it objectively, you will always feel guilty when you do something bad, whether it hurts your liver or your lungs. Or you hurt someone, and that person takes it out on others, turns around and sometimes comes back to you. I thought if you knew six people, you could know the whole world. How do you know if I can finally transfer it back to you? My understanding of believing in Buddhism now is more good for people. " David's most common character evaluation is considerate and kind. When I was a guest commentator on If You Are the One, a female guest said that she practiced yoga well, and the audience coaxed her to perform on stage. Only David shouted, "No! Absolutely not! Her skirt is too short, it will stretch out. Go and get her a pair of pants first. " Zhao Jing's boyfriend is going to spend the Mid-Autumn Festival with her. David specially reminded Zhao Jing on the phone: You should call your boyfriend's parents to express your greetings and apologies, because you took up the reunion day of the old man and his son. The person next to me was surprised to hear David on the other end of the phone, because I think such an opinion can only be thought of by elders. , "Dear" producer Lu? Once when he was filming in Shenyang, David immediately asked his local brothers to take care of him and arrange the land? Eat it. "He felt that Shenyang was his place and everything was right. Everything he does will give you this considerate feeling. Everything is thoughtful, and everything is what he came up with. " According to the rough classification of ordinary youth, literary youth and idiot youth, David should belong to ordinary youth. In this era, silly young people are easy to have the widest spread, literary young people are easy to receive the most praise, and it is much more difficult for ordinary young people to impress people. David sometimes doesn't even look like a young man. For example, he especially likes singing Hongyan. He sings this song when he is performing outside and taking a shower at home. His wife Guan Yue commented that he sang this song "like an old cadre". Regarding life, David concluded: "There is wine and meat, and a wife and children are on the kang. This is the life of a fairy." . Five years ago, David began to pay attention to health care because he read a health care book. As an actor, his career is often upside down day and night, but he tries to live like a white-collar worker who works nine to five, hoping everyone around him will live a healthy life. David is 35 years old, but he is the most caring and good at keeping in good health among the actors that director Chen Kexin has ever seen. No matter on the set of My Morning Seeing Girlfriend or Taiping Wheel, David always brings a pot and cooks millet porridge for everyone to drink every day, because it "nourishes the stomach" and "is good for the health". David drinks millet porridge once or twice a day, usually for breakfast and sometimes for lunch. He will be proud if it affects other crew members to follow suit. "I change from time to time." He stressed. But the so-called change is just adding some sweet potatoes or tomatoes to millet. David likes eating whole grains, walking, drinking porridge and going to bed as early as possible. These actions are regarded by friends as the rhythm of leading a middle-aged and elderly life in advance. Outside filming, David doesn't stay up late, gets up early and enjoys a regular life. He learned Tai Chi movements and mental methods from an expert in the field of Tai Chi. According to legend, he seldom sees western medicine, but sees more Chinese medicine when he is sick. He once told his secret of keeping in good health in Jing Li's Extraordinary Quiet Distance: You can find towels, slippers, vegetable baskets and mops anywhere, which are all necessities for him to exercise. "Hold the towel in your hand and keep throwing it, so that you can exercise your shoulders and back; Pick up two slippers and put them in your hands, lie prone on the ground, and slowly climb forward with your limbs. If the slippers are too dirty, you can change them into rags, which also cleans the floor by the way. These actions can increase blood circulation throughout the body. " Crystal, who once worked with David on "The Inn of the God of Wealth", also revealed that David had taught her to hit the door with her stomach on the set. "It is said that he has to knock fifty or sixty times a day, and then hit the door fifty times with his stomach. He probably lined up from head to toe in the morning. On the set, I often see him rubbing his ears or squeezing his hands. " Although the style of health care seems to be out of date with age, David has his own set of truth: "You don't care about your health. Who are you waiting for to care about your health? " David figured that when the child grew up, he and his wife would go abroad to study, take classes and play for half a day. When he can't act any more, he will study Chinese medicine, and maybe have a good time. That is his ideal life. Peerless warm man: Don't walk by the river, don't wet your shoes. In 20 14 years, David continued to maintain the "bull market" of his acting career. His roles in three films, Dear, Taiping Wheel and My Ex-girlfriend, all show warm characteristics. He was originally given the title of "warm man" because he was a guest in If You Are the One and became a veritable "hand-holding master". David's "warm man" character is also reflected in the small details of the set and interview. He said: Mature men should know how to warm others on different occasions, not only with a warm heart, but also with a suitable "heating" way to make continuous progress. In My Morning Girlfriend, Yuan Xiaoou, played by David, is 99% extinct, and 1% has the shortcoming of opening mistakes-having sex with the roommate of the goddess. But if you finish watching the eggs at the end of the film, you will find that this 1% error has been made up. This egg was added by David himself, because he didn't think it was delicious. "I think this man is disloyal." . David, who has now become a married person, has never forgotten his "belonging" status. He always carries his wedding ring with him. He took it off while filming and put it in his wallet. After filming, he took it out and put it on. He thinks it's very important. "Remind you what kind of position you are and whose husband and father you are." In 13, David and Guan Yue still talk on the phone every day. "Get up in the morning, play one at noon, play one after school in the afternoon, or even play one before going to bed at night, and chat all over the world. The longest time is six hours." Actors in the circle often label David as "a good man" and "a good husband". Sun Li, who has collaborated in Jade Guanyin, has long seen his potential in this respect: "I have long seen that he is a family man, and sure enough, he is now a standard good husband and father." David became the standard of "a good husband" in Zhou Xun's heart after Seeing His Girlfriend Early. Because Zhou Xun found that David worked hard on the set, but she also took care of his wife and children, which moved her very much. About warm men, David said, you should be warm to different people in different degrees, to your loved ones and family, to your friends around you, and to those in need in society. But for the "warmth" in love, it can only be good for one person. Being a warm man, I will keep improving. I'm very busy this year. It's a little surprise for us to watch movies together. 20 12 Cannes Film Festival, Guan Yue's feet hurt because she wore high heels. David calmly carried her across the red carpet. David even made a rule for himself: generally don't leave the phone number of the actress. "At least not take the initiative to make a phone call. I think: if you don't walk by the river, you won't get wet shoes! " He explained this magical self-limitation: "I am very satisfied and enjoy the happiness brought by my family and my current life." I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with this state. " riverside