Why did she say that? Let me explain:
She has three children. Boss is now 13 years old. She raised it when she was a child. The second child took the child out to do business, so she didn't have to. The third child is also in kindergarten, so she doesn't need to pick him up. Her parents died a few years ago, so she doesn't need to support her. Her husband died the year before last, and now he is out of pain.
Although she has no pension, her three children are very promising, and now everyone gives her 1000 yuan a month. It doesn't cost much to live alone in the countryside. Besides, she used to scrimp and save, and 3,000 yuan is good for her. People who have never traveled all their lives still travel around the country with the group. You can buy food and clothes if you like. So she thinks her life is very good now!
Not all people who have no income are miserable!
It is normal for a fifty-year-old woman to be old and have no retirement salary. When they get old, they can only rely on their children. At present, people in rural areas basically have no retirement salary, and most of them live on their children. Children had better live up to their expectations and be filial. If children fail to live up to expectations and are not filial, life is very bitter. There is nothing they can do. Why do people who have the ability to buy social security now just to have a sense of security and a source of income?
Without any source of income and savings, old age must be miserable. I also belong to this type. But I try my best to make money! So what can I do? My child's marriage emptied all my savings (not much at all). 50 years old starts from scratch. Grandson is now 1 1 month. I am 52 years old, too. Physical condition is getting worse and worse. I dare not slow down every day and run around selling trinkets. I haven't made much money these two years. To tell you the truth, I have a sense of crisis now. I feel that the tens of thousands of dollars I have saved now are really a drop in the bucket. So I am very insecure, dare not neglect, and I am very tired every day. I really want to have a rest and enjoy my life, but if I don't work hard now, I will work harder in the future. Want to find a backer (wife)! But there is no such fate in life! I don't expect others to support me. Where can I raise it for free? I just want to serve others day and night. To tell the truth, my food and clothes are very simple. It doesn't cost a few dollars a year. When I get old, I hate living with Ben's husband and wife. Why do you want to please others for a meal? And let other people's children stare at you like thieves It is so boring. Reasoning, forget it. I am very tired by myself, but I don't have to do anything I don't like. I have been single for many years, and I really can't accommodate more men. A 50-year-old woman is an awkward age. She can't do it without money. Do what she can, work hard! Otherwise, the old age is really miserable.
Women who have no financial resources are even more miserable in their later years. More is sad.
My mother retired at the age of 60 because she didn't have a formal job for many years before and did odd jobs. Later, she paid social security, and the final salary was less than 1000 yuan.
It is unthinkable to live in Wuhan for less than one month 1000 yuan. What's more, life without income is even more difficult to survive.
So I gave my mother a fund after she retired. After three years of fixed investment, the investment has doubled now. I take some money out of my account every year as a retirement allowance for the elderly.
Although there is not much money, talking is better than nothing, at least to ensure that my mother's old age will not be too bad.
Nowadays, many middle-aged people like to save money as a guarantee for their future retirement.
I began to plan for my future retirement more than ten years ago. It was also a long time ago that I saw many old people around me and worried about the economy when they were old.
Therefore, both men and women should plan their own future when they are young, and it is very sad not to wait until they are old.
Seeing the topic, I can't help but feel uneasy. I feel a sour mood haunting me. Just now, the tears on my face haven't dried up because I watched So Sweet. At this moment, I can't help but want to write something in my heart
I will be 59 years old on the ninth day of the seventh lunar month this year. I don't know what will happen if my heart is a little narrower. Just like the question raised by the subject, my future life will be very hard. I suffer from several chronic incurable diseases and have no strength to continue farming. There is little hope of being able to support oneself.
There is no pension for daily living expenses, and only a few acres of contracted land can be used, but it is only a drop in the bucket or too thin. I remembered what my uncle's cousin told me a few years ago, (Fourth Sister, what should you do when you are old? There is no guarantee. I'm really worried about you. I remember smiling disapprovingly and saying that I would not live for many years.
Now, my cousin, who has several properties and money, has been dead for several years. As Zhao Benshan said in the sketch, the rich are gone, and the poor are still alive. Life is not always smooth and perfect. In the end, everything will work out. When you cross the bridge, you will be straight. In short, it doesn't matter whether you are hungry or frozen, whether it is northeast wind or northwest wind.
Tidy up your mood, keep your spirit steady, and strive to face all difficulties firmly!
After 50 years of hard work, once divorced, it is very pitiful. No rent, no money for three meals a day. Rural or urban, over 50 years old, without any income, divorce yourself, of course, will be very pitiful! Only make money by yourself!
One of my cousins is 53 years old. My cousin is crazy and can't learn well. She found a young lady and ran around, which made her roll her eyes. Cousin also bet that there are hundreds of thousands of famines. Cousin, in desperation, went out clean! I went to Beijing as a nanny alone! Monthly income of 5.1 thousand, food control! Because of his cheerful personality and insight, he was attracted by the employer's old lady! Married to the employer's old woman's son! Suddenly became a city dweller! Wear gold and silver, cars come in and out! Is it beautiful or not? ! !
If a woman is divorced, she must take advantage of her youth. Even if you are in your fifties, you have to go to work, learn to be a new moon, and be a nanny or something! Earn some money, then, look after yourself, save the money yourself and spend it when you are old! If you get divorced, you have no room and no land, and your son and daughter are not doing well, it's really pitiful! ! ! Must have money, otherwise, old, really miserable! No income, no source! It is best not to divorce easily! ! ! ! Really not! You can support yourself by learning a skill! ! ! ! For happiness! ! ! !
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I wonder if others are miserable. Personally, I am 56 years old and retired at the age of 50. My monthly retirement salary is 2,300, which is better than the minimum living allowance in Zhongshan, Guangdong. . . If I don't go to a yoga studio as a teacher after retirement, my life will certainly be no better. Of course, I have a good son. . .
There is no source of income at all. How can it be?
If a 50-year-old woman has no income, her old age may not be miserable, but her husband and children will have income. If her husband is a big boss, she will live better than a woman with income, and if her children are talented, she will have no worries.
I am 50 years old, retired for 5 years, and have a pension, but I have never got a social security card.
My husband asked me to give my social security card to my eldest daughter and let her take out the money for my parents on time every month.
Since I gave it to my parents, there is nothing to care about. I don't have much money, 2000 yuan, and I should pay for the food. Because the eldest daughter lives with her parents, although they also have a pension, after all, their parents have three children. I am afraid that my younger brother and sister will say that we are eager to get old, so this board fee must be paid.
When I gave them money, I was broke. Having income is just like having no income. At the age of 50, I have to reach out to my husband for food every month, which makes me feel embarrassed.
However, after reaching out for more than 20 years, I still want to go over. If I don't walk into a dead end, the tip of the dead end won't reach you, and I won't feel pain, loss or unhappiness.
In other people's eyes, I have a good life. At the age of 38, I was idle at home, and at the age of 45, I received a pension and rent.
However, people who deal with money have always been taken care of by their husbands, including the salary of working for more than ten years.
So I don't have to go to work today, relying on rental income, which is also the constant input of my husband's salary. Think about it, my husband is a trustworthy and trustworthy person. In all kinds of conflicts of interest, I also turn a blind eye and let him handle it with full authority.
Leisure days will not happen overnight. I have endured the hardships for several years, borrowing money from relatives and friends every month, trying to repay the loan, and planning to do something to make money every year.
I have a pension, but it seems that I have nothing. I don't have medical insurance either. I recently discussed with my husband and wanted him to pay me 50 thousand yuan for medical insurance, but people didn't agree.
It is said that old-age care is different from medical insurance. Pension is to withdraw money on time every month, but medical insurance can't get a dollar. Paying medical insurance is not cost-effective. When I was supporting the elderly, my husband also gave me 60 thousand yuan at one time. So, I want to thank him for receiving money on time every month.
However, he wanted to pay medical insurance, but he said so. Suddenly he felt that this man's mind was exquisite and watertight, and I, a weak woman playing IQ, must have been defeated by him.
And I think very far, and my heart is cold. The evening view of life depends on this person's thoughts. If he abandons me, I will have nothing. In this way, I didn't learn to love myself, completely delivered my own destiny, and let men completely control their own lives, afraid to fight for their own interests, and I thought badly at night.
Some people say that attitude determines everything, and his indifferent attitude makes me disheartened. I don't care if he pays my medical insurance, I just want to find a place in his heart.
Let me sum up: woman, whether you are married or not, you must have a job, have your own income, and arrange your future life. You must be independent, independent, enterprising, constantly improving and striving for perfection.
At the age of 50, I can still struggle. I will re-plan my life when I have the chance. My old age will not be miserable, but I can still have warm memories. I have fought for my life, and I have tried to fight for it.
Let's learn to internalize in our hearts and externalize in our actions in order to live better. Be the best and most beautiful self.
"Is it miserable for a 50-year-old woman who has no financial resources to cry bitter in her later years?" Sadness is not necessarily! Aren't you only 50 years old? Won't you accumulate wealth for yourself before you get old? You are our peers. I want to know what you did when you were young. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. Maybe because of special circumstances at home, I didn't save any money and I didn't have insurance.
However, 50 years old is not too late. Don't be pessimistic Save money from now on. A woman of fifty is not old enough to work and earn money. Don't they have skills to learn? Never too old to learn. Learn some industries with higher wages and faster money, such as cooking and housekeeping. If you have a certificate, you can easily earn 8 thousand. You can work for at least ten years and save money.
People should save money to cross the river before they get old. After the age of 60, physical function declines and working ability is not as good as that of that year. That's really worrying. If their children can earn a lot of money through filial piety, otherwise their old age will be miserable. If they have no money, even their children will resent it, and their old people will not like it. Besides, their health is getting worse and worse, and you are still clean. Isn't this annoying?
In short, if you want to live a happy and dignified old age, you must try to save money, keep healthy, pay more attention to health and exercise more, and you will have a happy old age in ten or twenty years! Work hard, dear friend, don't lose heart, let's cheer together!