1, unmarried cohabitation needs to be cautious. It is reported that the stable rate of remarriage of the elderly is very low: in Tianjin, the divorce rate of the elderly after remarriage is as high as 70%; In Shanghai, the divorce rate of the elderly after remarriage is as high as 50%. Therefore, some old people think that it is "freer" not to get a license, and it will be easier to break up if the two sides "have no feelings". However, unmarried cohabitation is not recognized by law, and it cannot be guaranteed by law if the rights of both parties are violated. If the old man does not consider marriage, but only falls in love, it is personal freedom; If you consider getting married but living together without getting married, you should be careful.
2, through the surface to understand each other's remarriage in addition to property, children and other issues, the details of each other's health must be clearly understood. Some old people don't know much about their health. In the case of one party suffering from infectious diseases, once the elderly are in close contact, they may get sick due to mutual infection. For example, tuberculosis can be spread by droplets, and the elderly are vulnerable to infection because of their weak disease resistance, so be vigilant.
3. Self-esteem is the basis of remarriage. Middle-aged and elderly people remarry, lack emotional foundation, and are prone to nostalgia and mutual suspicion. In addition, due to economic factors, I will live with you if I have money. Without money, the phenomenon of "bye bye" is very common, and few people share joys and sorrows. It is necessary for middle-aged and elderly people to consider each other's economic conditions when they remarry, which will ensure their future life, but they should not give up their self-esteem because of conditions. If they want to be truly happy in their later years, they must lay a good emotional foundation for remarriage. Middle-aged and elderly people should also consciously discover and appreciate each other after remarriage. Without this, there is only the value of mutual use.
4. Don't let "contrast" affect remarried and widowed elderly people. When they fall in love again, they will always consciously or unconsciously compare the object in front of them with their old wives. To this end, we put forward ways to avoid "contrast": first, face life directly, and when there is a contradiction, both sides talk about the matter and don't make extensive associations with past events; The second is to change the mode of thinking, even if you are unhappy, you should learn to compare the advantages of new people with the disadvantages of old people; Third, be careful not to touch their psychological sensitive points, such as the advantages and disadvantages of both sides' conditions and the degree of mutual trust, especially the things that the elderly try to avoid or dislike.
5. What should the elderly tell their children about remarriage? You should be honest with your children and be true to yourself.
Benefits of getting a license for the elderly when they remarry:
1. The elderly need companionship and help. If they get a permit, they can be protected by legal means. If you don't get a license, you can only be a partner.
When both parties are in good health, they can accompany them, but if one party falls down, the other party has no obligation to support. As if husband and wife were birds in a forest, they flew away separately.
When people get old, they will be weak and easily get sick. Getting a marriage certificate can also bind the wife and finally enter the obligation that the partner should help.