I often hear people say "We want to live in the present" and "I just want to be present". The concept of "the present" seems to be a familiar concept, but few people correctly understand it.
Now is not a certain point. Now when many of us say the present, we actually mean the present, but if we stick to the present, we will leave the present again.
The present is not a static state, but a flowing state, a restless state.
In the eyes of Confucianism, it is now "Zichuan said:' The deceased is like a husband, not giving up day and night. Confucius told us to cherish the present. Because the present is like a running river, it doesn't stay or live at any time, day and night.
What Buddhists say about the present is what the Diamond Sutra says: "The mind in the past life is unattainable, the mind in this life is unattainable, and the mind in the afterlife is unattainable." The present does not belong to the past, present and future, but now includes the past, present and future. This is the charm of the moment. From here, we should also be able to see that there is no living now, which is what the Diamond Sutra says: "You must live if you are not alive, but you must live with your heart." We often feel that our hearts are not full of energy and strength because we live in phase and time. If you live in the past, in the present and in the future, as long as you live at a certain point, you will miss a line, a face and even a wider three-dimensional and four-dimensional infinite world.
So in the eyes of Taoism, how is the present described? Laozi said: "In the final analysis, it is stillness, stillness saves lives, saving lives is always clear, and knowledge is always clear." In Lao Tzu's eyes, the present is a kind of return, a kind of recovery, and a grasp of the normal way. Only when we understand that the normality of the universe and the normality of life are constantly changing can we truly understand nature.
Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism are all talking about the importance of the present, although the word present is not used. But what we want to tell us is to live in the present, grasp the present and cherish the present, because only in this way can we really stay away from troubles and pains. The reason why we are troubled and miserable is because of our persistence.
What is persistence? "Holding" means holding something stubbornly; The "loser" is helpless and stuck by something. "Persistence" means that whether we are willing or unwilling, whether we are active or passive, in short, we are stuck in a stage and cannot extricate ourselves at a certain point.
How to break persistence? That's what the Diamond Sutra says. As long as you don't live in the phase, be bound, stuck, and stuck by the foreign minister, and don't always think about deliberately grabbing more, you won't have so many troubles.
It is good for us to make unremitting efforts for one thing. We want to strive for or complete it, but if we don't make unremitting efforts, we will still have troubles. Persistent efforts, plus not clinging to the results, just doing every moment well, is the fundamental way to get rid of troubles and pains.
So, let's learn to live in the present! Living in the present is not that you can't remember the past, because the present contains the past; Living in the present is not impossible to plan the future, because the present contains the future; Living in the present, let's give up the speculation of our minds, let our hearts be the masters, and let life flow naturally!
Cui Chen Tianxin Academy, I hope that the wisdom of Chinese studies will enter thousands of families ... Life comes and goes, and those people and things in the past will eventually become memories and be treasured in my heart. The future we expect will come one day and become the "present time".
When I was a child, I didn't need to pay attention to the world. I played with my friends every day. But I always want to grow up and feel that I can do more things I like when I grow up-buy whatever I want and go wherever I want. The days passed by in anticipation.
People seem to grow up in an instant, and suddenly they will understand a lot, understand their responsibilities, and have a responsibility in their hearts. Know more and more truth; Learned more and more knowledge; Go further and further; See more and more beautiful scenery; I have met more and more people ..... but I also began to miss the ignorance and simplicity of my childhood, and my carefree childhood. Days pass in memory.
Now I am very busy every day, but I also have a full sense of practicality. The people I met before are very kind to think of; What I have experienced before is so calm when I think about it now. All the things in the past have made me work hard now. I have a clear plan for the future now. I know what I want and how to work hard to get it. My heart is full of longing and comfort.
There's no need to look for what's gone. This used to be a "beautiful moment", which is absolutely owned. There is no need to rush to know the future, live the present, and one day the good things you expect will come as promised.
I prefer to live in the present.
The past is the past. Many times, it is meaningless to recall the past. After all, it cannot be changed.
The future can be planned, but people are not as good as the sky. Man proposes, God disposes, and everything goes with fate.
Each of us, in fact, can grasp the present, can grasp the present, and live in the present, which is great wisdom.
People who live in the present will cherish time more and make rational use of time to create greater value.
People who live in the present will cherish their health more, will not stay up late but will pay attention to their health.
People who live in the present will care more about others, not impatient but peaceful.
People who live in the present will be more grateful and keep a warm smile on their faces at any time.
Living in the present is great wisdom.
What do you think of "living in the present"?
We have to go through many ups and downs in our life, which is not satisfactory. The poverty of life, the unsatisfactory marriage, the betrayal of lovers, the obstruction of career, the death of relatives, natural and man-made disasters, the loss of life and money, and the framed by villains all make us very fragile and vulnerable, immersed in the disappointment of the past, unable to extricate ourselves and suffering.
In fact, this idea is very torturous and useless. Living in a daze all day, unable to get out of a bad mood, is not good for yourself, work and family, and a bad mood can easily have a negative impact. It is difficult to get along with people, it is difficult to communicate with people, and it affects interpersonal relationships.
"Living in the present" is to encourage us to throw away all bad people and things, forget the unpleasant past, grasp the present and cheer up again. Life is always moving forward. Live every day now and lay a good foundation for tomorrow, and tomorrow will get better and better. As long as we work hard today, a better tomorrow will come.
I think this is the most correct attitude towards life! Yesterday has passed, and tomorrow has not come yet. The only thing we can grasp is today. Everything in the world follows the law of cause and effect, and today's cause is tomorrow's result. Strive today and do it, and there will be a bright and beautiful tomorrow. Moreover, people have joys and sorrows, and the moon is full of rain and shine. We don't know when it will be gone. What are we doing? Live in the moment! Otherwise, we have worked hard all our lives, and before we can enjoy it, we will be taken away from this world in a daze. Is it useful for you to complain, beat your chest and make a hullabaloo about? When you were alive, you never thought about death. You are busy all day, working hard, thinking that with a house, a car, children, grandchildren and enough money, you can stop and enjoy life, but things change. Have you forgotten? Secrets are the most sacred. What's the advantage of being unique? Therefore, considering that life is short and things are impermanent, it is better to live every day well! Try to leave as few regrets as possible in the future! The ultimate goal of life is happiness, so live in the present, do what you like and strive to improve yourself, and you will have the world!
When I realized that "I don't know which will arrive first, tomorrow or accident", I felt that living was the greatest reward God gave me.
It's good to be alive for the first time;
Be grateful for every day, live in the present and enjoy the present.
It was in the summer of 20 15;
The first time I went to sing K alone, I was a little worried and scared, but I was a little excited.
For the first time, I feel how happy it is to squat without handrails, just like the joy of success (I can't squat for 2 years);
For the first time, I think it's a miracle that I can go up and down the stairs freely like a normal person. For the first time, I was deeply impressed by how beautiful life is. ...
Maybe these are insignificant to a normal person.
When you don't know what I used to be like, you can't understand why I am so emotional.
20 14 12 16, it happened that I experienced an "accident", and my life was at a low ebb, and my body and mind suffered a double blow.
Abandoned by her husband (now ex-husband), I feel like an "orphan" with a family, because I have married far away and have no relatives around me, so I can't go back.
Because of rheumatoid arthritis (medically known as immortal cancer), I can't take care of myself, I can't stand, my hands and feet are swollen and painful, and I can wake up when I sleep. I was hospitalized for 54 days.
In the hospital, I watched the cruelty and warmth of human nature all over. It turns out that I'm not the only one whose life is so difficult.
Small, because postpartum rheumatism, only 40 days, the pain is unbearable. She has to consider breastfeeding, so she can't take medicine, so she can only treat it externally.
Accompanied by her husband, she went to the hospital and was told by the doctor that it was an immortal cancer, a chronic disease and needed long-term treatment. The husband left alone on the spot, leaving him alone in the hospital.
The whole audience was surprised at how there was such a big reaction, but Xiao was dumbfounded and felt that the world had lost its meaning in an instant.
Sister Chen, a middle-aged woman who gave birth to three sons, was also suffering from postpartum rheumatism and was abandoned by her husband. A person with children must work and treat diseases.
There are grandmothers as old as 80 years old and children as young as two years old, screaming and crying in pain every day.
The number of treatments every day makes you doubt your life.
I most doubt that I thought about suicide when I was alive. Even fleeting thoughts are terrible.
I used to wonder if my husband abandoned me because I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis as soon as I got married and needed medical treatment.
However, after reading with Sister Chen, I know that this is not a question of having children, but a question of human nature. I'm glad I don't have children, otherwise I will suffer myself and drag down my children.
In the hospital, I also thought about my 30-year life experience.
In the first 30 years, I lived without my own life, living for my family and having no self at all.
So, after leaving the hospital, I feel like a different person. My work is no longer hard, and my life is no longer without quality.
It is most important to be alive, happy and comfortable.
Strangely, people's growth is really instantaneous.
It suddenly occurred to me that Dong Qing once said: When you are worried about your life, going to these five places will change your mentality!
1. hospital: human suffering gathers here, and knowing that you have health is the most important thing;
2. Talk to experts: Only when you know that you are backward will you motivate yourself to make continuous progress;
3. Luxury shopping malls: Seeing staggering high-end goods, it is obvious that you are poor and will inspire you to work hard;
4. Construction site: Feel the hardships of migrant workers' life and work, and you will cherish your work more;
5. Graveyard: I will know that I don't care about anything, and living is more important than anything else!
In the face of life and death, everything else is a trivial matter.
Yesterday was written by every moment;
Tomorrow is made up of every today;
? Therefore, only by living every moment can we live a good life.
There is no eternal night, and there is no eternal winter. Everything will pass, but everything will start again.
Just as tomorrow may not be better, it will definitely come. When you look forward to tomorrow, perhaps the best yesterday is quietly leaving you, and you will never return to yesterday.
Life has joys and sorrows, gains and losses.
Different experiences make people mature, strong, think and cherish.
Living in the present is the best choice.
Living in the present is a kind of helplessness, and it is brainwashing and hypnosis for yourself.
A person is dissatisfied with his job, telling himself to live in the present, and his efforts will eventually pay off, so he pretends to love and enjoy his job.
But the nature of employment determines that equal pay for equal work is so absurd and ironic.
Finally, he was very unhappy. He wants to change his career and life.
Living in the moment, he decided to open a Taobao shop while working. It took him more than half a year, one month to earn 200 yuan, and another half a year to earn 200 yuan. He gave up Taobao shop and worked hard.
Live in the moment. He decided to continue his present job and make a website by himself. After a long time, he learned the front-end backstage, learned SEO, and made a personal station, but there was no traffic and the income was not enough. He found that without artistic cells, he could not be a master of PS, and he had never studied AJAX. He is afraid that he is not qualified for backstage development, that he can't find a job, and that his salary is not as high as it is now. At this time, he found that the computer website seemed out of date.
Live in the moment. While working, be a Taobao customer. He made a few hundred dollars and then gave up.
Live in the moment. Keep working. Playing games and reading novels in my spare time can't stand temptation, degeneration and mistakes.
Life is a multiple-choice question, and ABCD only chooses one. Live in the moment, a, b, c or d?
Living in the present is for people who have no worries about food and clothing. They can work easily and enjoy life.
For many people, living in the present is to escape, to abandon or to give up.
For us, it is just an attitude towards life, but for people who practice, it is another realm. If you can really live in the present, congratulations, you have been enlightened, and continuous improvement will prove that Luo Han Guo. Too bad you can't.
The answer to this question is objective. Personally, people born in 1963 don't compete with others and have a job they like.
Life is dull, money is enough to eat and spend, as long as the family is healthy and happy together, it is already very satisfied.
The happiest moment in life is to "live in the present"!
Living day after day has become a habit. If you can't work one day, you will feel uncomfortable!
I can go to work every day, walk with my wife and children, eat with my parents and chat together. This is my happiest "life now"!
Cherish the present, keep a good attitude every day, smile and live a relaxed life! Contented people are always happy!
catalogue
Chapter 1: How do white-collar women become their own nutritionists?
Chapter 2: Nutritional diet of urban white-collar