Cities are basically only children. Therefore, the bride's family doesn't want a bride price, and there is a rich dowry. The woman's parents bought her a house and a car in advance. Therefore, the woman's family in the city should find a suitable home and ask the man's family to have a car and a house. Marriage in the city is a fair and just marriage.
For the first time, the man had better give gifts and health. I'm going to the beauty and health center to buy four beauty and health box cards with a total value of 3999 yuan for the woman's mother and father. When going to the woman's house for dinner, the woman's mother and father will give the man a gift of 6666 yuan.
When the man goes to the woman's house for dinner for the second time and stays for a short time, the woman's mother and father will consider whether the two families can get married, and let the man stay at the woman's house for a few days first to check whether it is healthy and normal. Genes are really important. If the assessment failed, he immediately broke up and successfully gave the man a trial of 8888 yuan.
When the man goes to the woman's house for dinner and stays for the third time, the woman's parents will check the man for a few more days to see if he helps with cooking, washing clothes, sewing clothes, cleaning up housework and taking care of the elderly and babies. If the examination fails, we will continue to train the man and continue the examination. If the examination succeeds, we will give him a bride price of 9,999 yuan. If you want to be a prospective son-in-law, you must learn how to fall in love and how to run a marriage. If you want to be a father, you must learn to nurse.
The woman's family is having an engagement party.
Before the engagement. The woman and the man will go to the relatives' house of the woman and invite the old host, aunt, uncle and uncle to attend the engagement party of the woman's house. . Have a meal at the woman's relative's house. When the relatives of the woman met the man for the first time, everyone gave a gift of 1000.
The woman's mother wants to buy gold rings, necklaces, bracelets, earrings, earrings, anklets and anklets for the man.
The woman's father wants to buy the man red underwear, infrared underwear, several sets of clothes, red socks, red insoles, red leather shoes, red shoes, red belts, red suits, red shirts, red clothes, red boots, red wedding dresses, red slippers, red hats and red scarves. The man also wants to reciprocate by buying a purple or pink suit or Tang suit for his father-in-law and a purple or pink cheongsam for his mother-in-law.
The day of the engagement party.
Grandfather, aunt, aunt, uncle, aunt, grandfather, uncle, cousin, etc. I met the man for the second time and gave him 2000 yuan as a bride price. Then the woman's relatives gave her a large sum of money (bride price money) 1 ten thousand ~ 1 ten thousand. Give more if you have money, give more if you are near, and give less if you have no money.
A few days after the engagement, the woman's uncles accompanied the big refrigerator, washing machine, big color TV, air conditioner, computer, microwave oven, oven, rice cooker, electric baking pan, frying pan, sand rolling, soymilk machine and so on. The woman's aunt and aunt accompany the bed, wardrobe, dressing cabinet, sofa, electric tricycle, electric car and so on.
After engagement, before marriage, take these betrothal gifts to the woman's house before marriage and set them up.
On the wedding day. No acceptance and farewell. Everyone goes to the hotel. How's the motorcade? It's AA system. The woman got on the bus and the man got off. That is, both families only bear half of the cost of the team. Just a different name.
The woman's family pays for the banquet of her relatives and collects money from them. So is the man's family.
The woman's relatives will give her 1 ~ 1 ten thousand pocket money (pocket money). The extra box of money at the time of engagement is the dowry of pre-marital start-up funds collected by the relatives of the woman's family since ancient times.
The woman's relatives will give the man money (mouth-changing fee)
The woman's mother will give it to the man 1000 1. Cui Zi has been married for three years.
The woman's father will give the man 9999.
The old woman will give the man 5000. September goes a long way, dear.
The owner of the woman will give the man 5000.
The woman menstruation will give the man 5000.
The woman's uncle will give the man 5000.
The woman menstruation will give the man 5000.
The woman's uncle will give the man 5000.
The woman menstruation will give the man 3000. Xiao Gong may kiss.
The woman's grandmother will give the man 3000.
The woman's uncle will give the man 3000.
The woman's uncle will give the man 3000.
The woman's uncle menstruation will give it to the man 1000. Kiss in March.
The woman's aunt, uncle and cousin will give the man 3000. Xiao Gong may kiss.
The woman's sister will give it to the man 10000. Cui Zi has been married for three years.
The woman's brother will give it to the man 10000.
Because the woman's relatives did not eat the man's banquet. Therefore, the relatives of the woman don't have to pay for the banquet for the man.
Because the bride's family doesn't want the bride price of the man's family. So there is no buying and selling marriage. The male relatives of the woman's family don't have to kowtow and kneel to the man's family, and they don't give a surname gift. The person who gave birth to the child has his surname.
There is no banquet in return. There is no reunion dinner. After getting married, go back to your's home and find your's mother. It is also possible that the young couple will live in the woman's house for a week and in the man's house for a week. Marriage in the city is icing on the cake, very equal.
Prefer boys to girls in rural areas.
To ask for a bride price is to buy and sell marriage. Sell your daughter and buy a wife.
Mother and father sell their daughters with bride price, build houses for their sons, buy cars and buy daughters-in-law. What if the bride price is not enough? Let the daughter divorce, not refund the bride price, and then get married to defraud the bride price.
Even if the man bought a gift of 1000 yuan, the first time he went to the woman's house, the woman's parents didn't take any money, and there was no gift at all.
Every time the man goes to the woman's house. Everyone wants to buy gifts that are a few thousand big and 10 thousand small. But the woman's parents didn't give a red envelope. All the gifts I bought were for my brother-in-law. That woman can't eat either.
This man has gone to many places. More than100000 copies were sent as gifts only. The woman's parents will say, send a gift of 8888 yuan. Do you think it is a gift from the woman's parents to the man? Wrong, it is the man who wants to give gifts to the woman's brother or younger brother.
In addition to the meeting ceremony, there is also a fitting ceremony.
The woman's parents proposed marriage. Before engagement, get along well and see if you can get married. Let the man stay in the woman's house for a few days, and the man and the woman's brother sleep in the same room. The man lived in the woman's house for the first time. It stands to reason that this red envelope was given to the man by the woman's parents. And the result? The woman's parents asked the man to give her brother a red envelope, 9,999 yuan, which was a test. This means that the man can't live in the woman's house for nothing. You must pay rent, electricity, water, gas, chatting, eating and garbage.
It stands to reason that the woman also wants to buy gifts to eat at the man's house and try to live. The man's father and mother should give the woman a gift, live hard and recognize their relatives. Similarly. The man buys gifts, the woman eats at home and lives hard. The woman's parents should give the man a gift, live hard and recognize their relatives. But in rural areas, it is a very double standard. The woman's brother or mother should accompany her to the man's house for dinner and try to live as much as possible. Going to the man's house for the first time. A woman's mother and father don't buy any gifts. He also asked the man's parents to give the woman's brother a gift of 8888, and also asked to give the woman's brother a gift of nine thousand nine hundred and ninety-nine yuan. That is to say, the woman's family can't stay in the man's house for nothing, which delays the work of the woman's mother, father, brother and brother, and delays the youth of the woman's family. The woman's family will provide chat service, meal delivery service, town house service, and pay the salary and youth loss of the woman's mother, father, brother and younger brother. )
Later, the woman's mother and father would say that relatives should be invited to the engagement party before engagement, and gifts should be given to the old grandmother, aunt, aunt, uncle, grandmother, uncle and uncle. Each family gave a gift of 1000 yuan. But the woman's relatives didn't give red envelopes.
It stands to reason that the relatives of the woman attend the engagement party at the woman's house, and the woman's house pays for the banquet. So, the woman's mother and father asked the man to pay 1000 yuan to hold an engagement party in the hotel. Then the woman's mother and father will say that the wedding is the deposit of the bride price. Get married with 30 thousand savings. This person must pay.
It stands to reason that the woman's relatives and elders should give the man a red envelope on the day of the engagement party. But they not only didn't give it, but also asked the man for money.
The woman's parents will ask the man for nine gold. On the contrary.
Since ancient times, the woman's parents have given her three gold medals. Three gold is equivalent to a dowry. Now in the city, the woman's parents give the man three gold, and the man's parents give the woman three gold. Do you think rural men want to buy nine gold for women? Wrong, the man wants to buy nine gold for the woman's brother. Some are only nominally bought for the woman, but in fact they are all for the brother-in-law.
The man also wants to buy some clothes for the woman and her brother-in-law, brother-in-law, father-in-law and mother-in-law.
When will the remaining 290,000 bride price be given to the woman's brother? Get ready to get married.
At the time of marriage, the woman's family did not have any dowry.
To get married, the man wants to get married. This lady is going to see her off.
The day before the wedding, it is reasonable for the woman's family to send a dowry to the man's family. Because they are all big refrigerators. For washing machines, air conditioners, televisions and other large items, the man's family should give the dowry a red envelope. But what if the woman's family didn't buy a dowry? It doesn't matter, the woman's family still has to give the man a dowry red envelope.
On the wedding day. The money for the motorcade. It stands to reason that there should be two AA's. There have been two since ancient times. The sedan chair money is from the woman's family. The man's family paid for the sedan chair.
But now in the countryside, the man's family pays 4000 yuan to join the team.
Do you think it's all over if the man's family pays for a motorcade?
The man's family will give the woman's brother 2000 yuan for getting on the bus. Otherwise, you won't let that woman go. Do you think another two thousand dollars will be enough? The man's family has to pay 2000 yuan to get off the bus for the woman's brother. Otherwise, don't let that woman get off.
The woman's mother and the man's mother agreed. The change fee for both companies is 20,000.
The woman's mother gave the man 1000 1 money in name, but in fact she opened the red envelope empty. .
The woman's father gave the man 9999 yuan in name. Opening the red envelope is also empty.
The woman's aunt, uncle and uncle nominally gave the man 5000 yuan to pay a New Year call. Open the red envelopes, they are all empty.
The man's mother really gave the woman 1000 1 money to worship.
The man's father really gave the woman 9999 yuan. Bye.
The man's aunt, uncle and uncle really gave the woman 5000 yuan to worship. The woman gave all the red envelopes to the bridesmaids. The bridesmaid gave the red envelope to her brother.
The couple didn't get the red envelope.
It stands to reason that the banquet at the woman's house should be given by the woman.
But the woman's family asked the man's family to pay for the banquet.
It is natural that whoever pays for the banquet will receive money.
However, the woman's family did not pay 1 dime, but took all the money for herself.
In a few days or months. The woman's family found the next (big head) and made an excuse to say that the divorce would not be refunded. The man's family will definitely not agree to spend a lot of money. Then the woman's family will insult and beat the man's family. Forcibly threatened her husband's family for divorce.
Therefore, marriage in the city is an equal marriage, which is the icing on the cake. Marriage is the financial assistance and support of two families to young couples. There is no bride price. Only dowry and start-up funds.
Marriage in rural areas is a buying and selling marriage. Sell your daughter and buy a wife.
Bride money, three yuan, meeting gift, change of mouth fee, etc. It's all for my brother-in-law. It's a hole in the daughter's house and a hole in the son's house. Retirement is a daughter's home. Inherited property is the son's house. Funeral expenses are paid by the daughter's family. The money collected was collected by my son's family.