For example, when I was in junior high school, I had a classmate who was not afraid to hold a parent-teacher conference in the middle of each year. Because his father never asked about his grades. Although I was a little lazy in my study, I suddenly broke out in the final senior high school entrance examination and did very well in the exam. His father is very happy, which means that he doesn't really care, but doesn't care and is not oppressed.
What I want to say is that parents' laissez-faire attitude towards their children's behavior is actually beneficial to their growth, especially in adolescence. The less they oppress him, the less likely they are to resist, and the less they will resist. Children will understand at an early age that everything depends on their own decisions and all actions are their own responsibilities. As long as parents give support and care, children will never indulge themselves because of their parents' connivance. On the contrary, sometimes parents have great motivation to surprise their parents because of their occasional non-Buddhism.
Compared with China's parents, American parents are more like Buddhist parents, that is, they give their children more possibilities for development, never restrain their children, and generally agree if they ask for it. Therefore, American children appear more independent.