But when people reach middle age, you have to understand that not all parties are so meaningful.
Communication depends on circles, and when you meet a good circle, life can be half smooth.
I don't know if you have noticed that when you were a child, you seemed to have inexhaustible courage and dared to participate in any occasion.
Although it is known as long knowledge, some may not bring benefits, so not all friendships are worthwhile.
When people reach middle age, they have experienced many things and should have accumulated some wisdom. Therefore, at this age, smart people know that it is meaningless to stay away from these three kinds of parties.
Sancha is the woman with the highest value in our family. She has been pampered since childhood and has been living a very pampered life.
When she was young, her favorite thing was to travel around and make new friends. I remember that the elders at home always advised her not to attend some unnecessary parties.
Because, those friends of Sanyi are not all good people, most of them just take part in accidental amusement.
In this regard, the whole family is worried that she has been addicted to these social activities and her future life will be very difficult. Unexpectedly, although Sanyi was loved and grew up, she had her own discretion in weighing the pros and cons.
When I was young, my third aunt would go to any party, whether it was beneficial or not, but in middle age, my third aunt changed instantly.
I found out that my third aunt will never go to those places again? Tucao gossip conference? In the past, Third Aunt especially liked to get together with her sisters to discuss the quality of others and the length of people.
But now, no matter how enthusiastic her sisters are, she no longer participates.
And three aunts to middle age, most of the parties are health bureau. In the past, she especially liked to go to places just for fun, but now she has never been there again.
Today, Sanyi is indeed the happiest person in the whole family. Although she is still single, she refuses to attend the blind date.
In the words of Third Aunt, there is no need to appear unmarried. In middle age, she is no longer the woman who regards marriage as her life.
Although Sanyi once broke her family's heart, after middle age, she got better and better, which made everyone envy her. I think, these should be inseparable from her? Give up? .
So when people reach middle age, smart people will stay away from these three kinds of parties, which is meaningless.
A gathering where people talk about each other and gossip.
When I was young, I had unlimited energy and liked to be curious. I can't help staying a little longer when I see new things, and I like to make jokes about other people's shortcomings.
But when you reach middle age, you will find that people around you are beginning to calm down. Everyone has his own life and family. It is definitely not a good thing to accompany you to continue to discuss the length of others.
And you spend a lot of time on gossip, but you don't get anything from it, and you will even be crowned in the end? Try? 、? Broken mouth? Wait, a series of negative words. Are these really what you want?
When people reach middle age, I think everyone should understand that it is meaningless for you to spend time gossiping about others. So you must stay away from this kind of party and spend more time on meaningful things, and your life will get better and better.
Just for fun, a negative party.
Young people's parties, the theme of most parties is actually eating, drinking and having fun, and they don't talk too much about negative topics.
But after middle age, if you continue to attend such parties, you will find that you can only get worse and worse, and finally even you hate yourself.
Because middle-aged people don't have much energy to kill, and if you throw all your time on fun, you will find that most of the negative emotions in your mind make your ordinary life more difficult, so there is really no need to waste your time on fun.
There is no need to attend a boring blind date banquet.
Many people will start to panic if they are single in middle age. Then, they will start to attend all kinds of boring blind date banquets. But actually, have you thought about it? Such a blind date banquet is actually meaningless.
It is understandable that when people reach middle age, they long for a complete family and a beautiful relationship. But if you still regard love as the focus of your life, you will lose more over time.
Because love can make people lose their minds, and middle-aged people who lose their minds often despair of love. If you meet true love, the ending is naturally beautiful, but if you meet the wrong person, you may lose both money and people.
Conclusion:
You are still young, and naturally you have arrogant capital. You can do whatever you want. But if you are middle-aged, you should give up these unnecessary parties. After all, it can't bring you benefits.
You have to understand that when people reach middle age, they always like to spend time on pleasure and gossip, so you will only get worse and worse. Not only you, but also your life will be covered by negative emotions.
Although age should not be a cage that binds a person, people should have different moods, different responsibilities and different choices at different stages. Therefore, in middle age, these parties should be given up early.