If experience increases with age, then courage will decrease. Sometimes, we have to admit that the older we get, the less courage we have.

At the age of 20, I was keen on pursuing new things. I want to try restaurants I've never been to, clothes styles I've never tried, and new things I've never seen.

By the age of 30, I will gradually like to touch only what I am familiar with, and I will choose restaurants I often go to for dinner. Most of the clothes in the wardrobe are of the same style, and shopping is more inclined to buy back twice.

Some say it's mature, others say it's lazy. In my opinion, it's more because I don't have enough courage to try. Familiar taste can conquer our taste buds better, and familiar people make us feel more at ease.

At a certain age, we will pay more and more attention to the familiar feeling and want a comfortable relationship more and more.

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Life is too tired. Only when you are not tired can you be tired for a long time.

Life is a process of continuous acceptance and loss. We will meet many people and say goodbye to many people. We must stay with others and get along with them all our lives.

But in this life, we have to do more than just deal with people. We must study, work and live. People's energy is limited, and we don't have that much energy to maintain a laborious relationship for a long time.

Many people will ask, what kind of talent is the right person? In fact, the answer is very simple, that is, people who make you feel comfortable with each other are the right people. Love is, so is friendship.

How cool is it to marry someone who is comfortable with each other? You can be who you like, without worrying that what you inadvertently say will make him unhappy, and without worrying that what you do will cause his dissatisfaction. You don't have to look at a person's face carefully, let alone try your best to guess a person's mind.

Because no matter what you do, he can understand, even if he can't understand, he won't interfere with you. In short, he doesn't need you to spend a lot of energy to maintain this relationship, and he won't let you be overwhelmed by the weight of life and the chicken feathers of marriage.

Friendship is the same, and slowly you will find that there are really not many friends, but they are very thin. Ineffective socializing will only waste your time, and unworthy friendship will ruin your good mood.

In this life, people only need two or three friends who dare to meet without washing their hair, who are not angry or embarrassed to tell the truth, and who are poor and willing to lend money to your friends.

There will be many people around us, but the last regulars are not the most beautiful or the richest, but the most comfortable to get along with.

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If the rest of my life is too long, the deep feelings will fade away, and only the longer the comfortable relationship will be more attractive.

Seeing how Fu Seoul and her husband get along in the story of Qi Da reminds me of one of my senior sisters. Senior sister is excellent and enterprising. After working for several years, she took out all her savings and started a design company. Now she is doing well and making considerable profits.

Her husband entered a small company after graduation, and his work has not improved so far, and his income is less than one-third of that of his senior sister.

At first, many people, including the parents of senior sisters, were worried about this relationship. After all, in a marriage where women are strong and men are weak, even if the woman doesn't care, the man will inevitably feel a little uncomfortable.

But over the years, their relationship has not been affected at all, but has become better and better. They can't fake the way they look at each other.

The senior said that she could find someone better than her husband, but she could never find anyone who knew her better and supported her more. At the beginning of the business, the capital turnover was not enough, and my husband took out the household registration book at home without saying anything. In the past few years, she has stayed in the company for 18 hours in 24 hours a day. Not only did her husband have no complaints, but he also took good care of the house, which relieved her of worries.

Sometimes, it is inevitable that the husband's family is dissatisfied. Every time, her husband took the initiative to stand up for her, helped her out, and did not forget to comfort her in private.

When her husband once praised him as a good husband who was twenty filial piety, he smiled shyly and said, "In fact, I also doubted, hesitated and thought about retreating. After all, men are afraid of being called soft rice. But I really can't bear this relationship. She will not deliberately take care of my feelings, making me feel that we will always be equal and independent, but it also makes me feel that my support is worthwhile, my contribution is responsive, and we are inseparable. "

Nothing is more important than spiritual interdependence in getting along with others. The relationship that can make people feel happy is the best relationship.

Therefore, people sometimes don't think too much and don't set too many rules and regulations. They can stay with whoever they want. See who can bring you happiness. Whoever is kind to you, you should keep it in mind, thank him and repay him.

The rest of my life is long, and being with a comfortable person is the best health care.