It is a natural law to move less and be quiet. It's almost autumn after 6O, and the once bustling has quietly gone away, and the turbid waves have turned into clear blue, simple and thorough rather than complicated. Quiet and comfortable will become the mainstream of the future, so a comfortable life, a simple day, looking for warmth in solitude, soothing and settling in silence. Facing the sunset, waving the sunset glow, I like to listen to the clear waves of life and laugh at the fruits of the years.

Weeds are filtered out, jade is clarified, petals are left in the heart, and amber is eternal!

The dream butterfly of Zhuang Sheng is gone, and the phoenix is reborn!

Covered with sunset glow, a person walks in the depths of fallen leaves, feels the heartbeat of everything, listens to the voice of nature, and turns himself into nature and nature into scenery!

I listened to the old man telling jokes in the barber shop. A person's life is full of four feelings: being a man, being a cow, being a horse and being a dog. From birth to the age of 20, children live with their mouths open and their clothes stick out. Enter the society at the age of 20 to 40, get married and have children, earn some money hard and live a hard life. 465,438+0 to 60 years old, do everything, don't be lazy, and take care of it. After retiring at the age of 60, I looked at the door like a dog [covering my face]. Born after 60, I don't even have enough to eat. I have been really tired and miserable all my life. After retirement, I like to stay at home and have more rest [yi tooth] [yi tooth].

Maybe it is my type! Because they didn't know anything when they were young, it was entirely up to their parents to decide what major they wanted to study in college. They followed the crowd and didn't consider whether this major was suitable for you. After work, I will marry and have children with the public. It was not until I was nearly 40 years old that I really learned to think a lot when I was educating my children. I was busy traveling around the world when my children went to college. When I am really approaching 50, I don't know what kind of life I want. So I live for myself. I'm really happy. I don't socialize, I don't compare, I don't waste my life. Woman! Many people are right or wrong, and many people are very tired. Don't agree, don't compromise, don't be wronged, more comfortable! In short, the party consumes yang and energy, and quiet can raise health!

This is also normal.

On duty, that's working time.

But most of all contacts are related to work in one way or another.

Work relationship, all because of work.

During shifts, I usually work at least 8 hours a day. In these eight hours, maybe there will be a relationship from time to time.

I often hear people say,

Busy as hell, tired as hell

Bustling, very lively.

Coming and going, the traffic is heavy.

It's noisy and crowded.

..... and so on,

It often shows a busy scene.

To ask:

Busy? Must be busy.

Is it lively? Must be lively.

Tired? Must be tired.

Lonely? Will not be lonely.

Aren't you happy? I don't know.

..... maybe, mostly, and so on.

No matter what occupation you are engaged in, whether it is official, commercial or other, you should always love your work and be dedicated. It can be said that everyone should conscientiously perform their duties, not be sloppy, have little leisure, and most of them are involuntarily.

According to national regulations,

Suddenly retired.

This is far from telling people to stay away from tea.

The instantaneous daily work needs and the working relationship formed are mostly unnecessary based on various needs. Naturally, leisure comes.

At this time, everyone should work, work, study and do what they want.

In a word, they are all busy.

At this time, as a retired old man, he will naturally be quieter and more lonely.

If you don't live in seclusion, why bother

I don't live in seclusion, and I don't want to associate with people, but I need it objectively.

The adaptation, also have to adapt.

If you don't adapt, you have to adapt.

Can't adapt? No

Okay, you have to do this.

No, you have to.

It's not the same as having fun, chatting, singing, dancing, going to a senior college, going in circles, playing Tai Chi, and so on.

Everything is natural.

There is nothing to doubt.

In a few words, slightly shallow, for reference only!

Everyone has a stake, whether they are relatives or friends, they all hope that others will have a bad life. The simplicity of the past is gone forever. It's best not to get close. Once close, it is more likely to become an enemy. It is better to live quietly. I am 58 years old. Usually painting, swimming, stock trading, basically stop all social activities. All kinds of refunds are not involved. The following are some of my works.

Retired, this is really a boat to the dock, and the car has arrived. At work, whether your career is successful or not, whether you have a halo or not, everything is zero. If you are a leader, it is inevitable that people will cool their tea. Did you have a clear conscience? At least be a man so that we can meet again in the future. If you are walking down the street, acquaintances can take the initiative to call you to say hello, which means you have left a little thought and haven't mixed up yet!

In the past, some people were afraid of the rights in your hands and were respectful to you. If they see you again, they will turn their faces away and make you feel particularly uncomfortable. If you have a problem with you, someone will come to you, dig at you with language, and even want to beat you up to vent their anger. This is also a fact. When I retire, I will become a useless person, and naturally I will not be liked by others. This kind of human sentiment is cold and warm, and the world is cold. Only I can silently understand it.

One more thing, with a pension, you don't have to rush about for daily necessities, so there are fewer opportunities to deal with people naturally. On the stage of life, I am no longer an important role. This time it is my turn to stand aside and nothing can steal the limelight. The scenery is gone, and what we face every day is ordinary daily life. My hobby is playing at home. Or after dinner, take a walk outdoors to keep fit.

After retirement, you can rest for a long time without causing trouble, which is good for society and family! If you can live and stand on your own feet as much as possible, it's great to do some good things! When you get older, you will naturally reduce social interaction and unnecessary troubles, which will be beneficial to others, yourself and society. Very good!

After retirement, I live in seclusion and don't want to associate with people. I think there are many reasons, but the main ones are as follows: 1 retired, like to be quiet and alone, calm down and do something you like. Second, physical health is declining, physical strength is exhausted, and there is no energy to communicate. Although I am retired, I still have to rely on my children and grandchildren. I am busier than going to work and have no time to associate. There are some special circumstances that I won't say.

Not many old people live in seclusion after retirement. Most people go out for a walk and dance every day. There are only three kinds of old people who don't like to socialize (except physical illness).

First, in the past working hours, I traveled around the world at public expense or private expense and saw everything. I'm not new to the outside world. I'm happy to stay at home.

Second, their children have turned themselves into poor households by buying houses and cars, or their grandchildren are very happy at home. These old people don't want to deal with the outside world.

Third, I have done bad things (especially corruption and bribery), kept a low profile and didn't want to get into trouble, and didn't accept outsiders at the end of the year.