If a person can't control his emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, you will destroy everything sooner or later. If you can't be the master of your thoughts, you will be the slave of your emotions. Don't indulge in fickle emotions without the ability to clean up the mess. Please remember: temper should never be greater than skill.
There are too many things in life that you can't get used to. Seeing clearly and understanding are all asking for it. It is not self-deception, but self-protection to cast a fog over life. Everything is too serious, bitter heart, tired of themselves.
4. Life goes on anyway. Sometimes injury and failure are not necessarily bad things, they will make you better, and so will loneliness and loss. Everything will turn into a good thing in the end, as long as you can go to the end.
5. Mouth is an axe, but words are a knife. Think twice before you speak and be responsible for others. A person's tolerance comes from a heart that treats others well. A person's cultivation comes from an inclusive heart. The height of a person comes from an open-minded heart.
6. Whether a person is educated or not can be seen from the details. Bitterness and humor are two different things, and outspoken and frank are two different things; Ill-bred and casual are two different things. Being neither heavy nor heavy does not mean being honest and frank. Remember one sentence: self-mockery is humor, and laughing at others is ill-bred.
7. Growth means doubting what you believed before over and over again, then overthrowing yourself in one stage after another, growing new wisdom and temperament, and moving firmly to the next stage in countless confusions and uncertainties.
8. Everyone will have extremely difficult times, such as the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study and the constant fear of love. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid. -Fu Nan
9. Even in the face of the greatest misfortune in the world, the prerequisite for solving all difficulties is to be alive. Only alive, there is hope. No matter how painful and sad you are, as long as you can live hard, everything will be fine.
10. Be optimistic when you are proud and optimistic when you are frustrated. There are many things in life that can be put down. Only by letting go can we afford it. Try to simplify your life, and you will find that the scenery that is blocked is the most suitable life. Don't be too persistent and add a heavy burden to yourself.
1 1. The world doesn't care so much. If you are kind, he will push his luck; If you are weak, he will cheat mercilessly; If you are honest, he will be squeezed morally. If you give your affection to the wrong person, don't blame this society for not being warm.
12. A truly powerful person will not spend his mind on useless things. The so-called circles and resources are only derivatives. The most important thing is to improve your internal strength. If you are a buttonwood tree, the phoenix will come. I am the sea, and all rivers run into it.
13. People spend their whole lives. Smiling is better than frowning. Don't be too cold in winter, too hot in summer, don't pretend to be poor if you have money, don't show off if you have no money, take care of yourself in leisure, be happy every day, and taste all the joys and sorrows before you live in vain.
14. When you cherish your past, are satisfied with your present and are optimistic about your future, you will stand at the top of your life; When you understand that success will not make you, failure will not crush you, and dullness will not drown you, you will stand at the peak of your life.
15. Some things, just smile, don't be too serious; Some people just look and don't care. If you like acting, give a round of applause. It doesn't make any sense to puncture it. Self-righteous, choose to ignore, there is no need to argue.
16. In life, no matter what you care about, it will torture you; What you care about will bother you. Even if it is a big thing, when you face it with a natural attitude, you will find that it is nothing, but your own thinking is too complicated.
17. Sand is waste and cement is waste, but they are mixed with concrete, which is no problem; Rice is a fine product, and gasoline is also a fine product, but it is waste when mixed together. It doesn't matter whether it's a boutique or a waste, what matters is who you mix with!
18. The biggest difficulty for people is to know themselves, and the easiest thing is to know themselves. Many times, we don't recognize ourselves, just because we put ourselves in the wrong position and give ourselves an illusion. Therefore, I am not afraid of the bumpy road ahead, and I am afraid that I will go in the wrong direction from the beginning.
19. Life is a process of constantly satisfying desires. If you are not satisfied, you will suffer, and if you are satisfied, you will be bored. Man's desire is like an elongated rubber band. If he can't find a place to insist, he will bounce back and hit himself.
20. If you are smart, some people will say that you have a heavy heart. If you work hard, some people will say you are lucky. If you are naturally optimistic, some people will call you hypocritical. Sometimes, you are obviously a glass of white water, but you are forced to become a full-bodied carbonated drink. If you meet too many people in your life, as long as you are clear in your heart, you will never have to please someone who doesn't understand you.