Small dining table refers to a place that provides catering services and rest for primary and secondary school students outside the school, and is mostly set in residential buildings near the school. In recent years, with the acceleration of the pace of urban residents' work and life, a large number of floating population poured into the city, and the lunch break was long and short, so the off-campus "small dining table" with lunch break as the main service content became popular as a new service industry.

There is a beauty salon opposite the school. Occasionally go there for massage after sending the children to school.

The owner of the museum was too busy to take care of the children, so he sent them to the small table. The boss's daughter has just entered the first grade this year. She used to be sloppy in kindergarten, but she is still a little uncomfortable in the face of first-grade study. Moreover, the teacher at this small dining table was given by her mother, and she was very strict. If she is a little disobedient, she will be slapped and spanked. Scared the little girl crying every morning and unwilling to go to school, she went to the small table after school.

It's no use crying. Mother said to her, "You are going to the small table. There is no other choice. "

I asked my boss, "Why not change to a small dining table? In the long run, children will have psychological shadows. "

My young mother replied, "Strict teachers make excellent students. I know my daughter has many problems. Let the teacher adjust and cultivate good habits. This small table is particularly famous, and the children at the small table are in the top ten of the class at school. "

I am speechless. Every family is different, and every parent has different ideas. Nowadays, signs that can help children do their homework and improve their academic performance are posted on the small dining table, attracting parents.

So what are the advantages and disadvantages of a small table?

Let's talk about advantages first:

1. solves the problem that parents can't pick up and drop off their children on time due to limited working hours.

Nowadays, many parents take care of their children by themselves, but they have to work because of the great economic pressure. So who will pick up the children from school? What about eating? Who will help with the homework? Fortunately, there is a small dining table. Parents introduced by friends, repeatedly selected by themselves, and finally sent their children a small table that they were satisfied with, which solved all the problems.

2. Solve the problem that parents can't help.

With the deepening of children's schooling, some parents can no longer help their children with their studies and homework. In other families, children are almost completely taken care of by grandparents. They can cook meals that suit their tastes and take care of every detail of life, but they look at their children's textbooks and homework just like reading a gobbledygook, not to mention knowing a few words, and some even can't read them clearly. In this case, they can only send their children to the small table.

3. Solve the problem that children are "difficult to manage".

Nowadays, children are all babies at home, and they have never suffered setbacks and have no chance to suffer. There are a lot of bad habits at ordinary times. Parents don't want to beat and scold, or even if they beat and scold, because of improper methods, they have no influence on their children and do what they should do without progress.

Whether timid or naughty, as long as they are sent to a strict teacher, they will become more obedient and clever than at home after a while. The reason for this is mostly because teachers have more methods than parents, or are more strict and willing to hit children. Just like the sister's child mentioned at the beginning of this article, according to her words: "It is good to fight, as long as you can train well, the pain of eating flesh and blood can make your memory last for a long time and your grades improve." I really admire her, but I can't bear to let my children be beaten. )

Let's talk about shortcomings first:

1. Noisy environment affects children's attention.

The students at the small table are of different ages and grades. Even if there are two or three teachers in charge, it is impossible to cover everything. Some children run around the room after finishing their homework; Some are reciting the text loudly, while those children who haven't finished their homework can only continue to bury themselves in their homework in a noisy environment.

2. Food is neither nutritious nor simple.

The small dining table is mainly for profit, even if it is responsible for children's homework guidance, it is also to continue the business. So, don't take photos or videos of their meals and send them to their parents, but there is no oil and water in them, and cooking oil can't be expensive when cooking those dishes back and forth in a week.

3. The teacher is too lazy to elaborate and tell the answer to the homework question directly.

In order to get off work early, some teachers sometimes teach their children homework in an improper way and tell them the answers directly. (Of course, this situation is only a minority, and it may also be caused by the poor teaching methods of teachers. )

Last year, because of work, I sent my children to a small table for a month. This small dining table was warmly recommended by a parent. The price is more expensive than ordinary small tables. It is said that children only charge twenty.

The person in charge of this small dining table is a handsome boy born in 1980s. He really cares about children, and of course he slaps those disobedient children. However, the food there is average, and you have to feed it again every night when you pick up the children.

I went to pick up the children several times, but I didn't find another elderly teacher telling them the answers to math problems. It is to find that a child is writing a math problem while another child is memorizing English words in his ear; There are some older children playing beside you.

Later, after weighing the pros and cons, I had to resign, return to my family, take care of my child full-time and accompany him to grow up.

After talking about the advantages and disadvantages of small tables, there are still many parents who have to send their children to small tables for various reasons.

Parents can avoid the disadvantages of small tables in the following five ways:

1. Find more small dining tables and choose ones with better management.

2. Pay more for meals and go to small tables with rich nutrition.

3. If you think that the small dining table is not easy to teach except food, then make more fish, shrimp, meat and eggs for your children in the morning and evening or on weekends to supplement nutrition.

4. Parents should communicate with the teacher at the small dining table, try to create a quiet learning and rest environment for their children, improve food, tell the teacher, let the children think independently, and make him think without telling him the answer.

Parents can't leave their children to the small table completely, but after taking them home, spend more time with them and communicate with them, and then ask them about their studies and homework.

In short, whether to send the children to the small table or not, the children are their own. As a parent, he must care more about his children and let them feel their parents' care and love. The existence of a small dining table is an auxiliary function at any time, but it cannot replace all.

"Mother of Children" Xiaoqing Sun pays attention to family education, parent-child companionship and personal growth. Welcome everyone to comment, like, forward and pay attention.