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What should I do if I disagree with my friends?
We usually refer to the world outlook, outlook on life and values.

People with different views are difficult to get along with, even if they get along, sometimes they will be unhappy and unhappy.

However, some things are not based on personal will.

People who disagree with the three views cannot escape because of various relationships or reasons.

How can we get along if we disagree?

First, no discussion, no study.

That is, people who disagree with the three views do not discuss research issues together and try to avoid conflicts.

People with different views are like two trains running counter to each other, and there will never be an intersection.

Therefore, people who disagree with the three views should try not to discuss research problems together, because there is no similarity and intersection.

Even if we discuss research problems together, we will play our own trumpet and sing our own songs. In the end, it will come to nothing, and it may end in discord.

Second, don't argue or refute.

That is, people who disagree with the three views do not argue with each other or refute each other's views.

Originally, the two people just had different views and had different views and ideas on the same thing.

The best way for the other party to express their views is to keep silent, and keep silent all the time.

Not arguing with each other or refuting each other's views is the best way to reduce the contradiction or friction between them.

Third, conflicts of interest must be reduced.

That is, people who don't agree with the three views try not to have human relations and try to reduce interest disputes.

In real life, people who don't agree with the three views can avoid interpersonal relationships and minimize contact.

If it is unavoidable, the big interests should be handled according to normal rules, and the small interests should be allowed, so as to minimize all unnecessary troubles and avoid conflicts of interest with them.

Fourth, we should exercise restraint in tolerance.

Is to work or live with people with different views and learn to restrain tolerance.

Under normal circumstances, disagreement between the three views is a taboo for people to get along with each other.

However, in real life, for various reasons, two people with different views did not shy away, but had to work together and even live under the same roof.

At this time, we should learn tolerance, restraint and "live in peace".

* * * Be with people who have different opinions, because you are your colleague, you should learn to exercise restraint:

Restrain one's attitude, language and behavior.

Live with people with different views, because they are your own relatives, and you should learn to be tolerant:

Forgive each other's ignorance, arrogance and irrationality.

Fifth, we must stick to the bottom line.

Is to stick to your life red line and moral bottom line.

In the face of major issues, I would rather risk turning my face and always stick to my red line of life;

In maintaining social justice, public order and good customs, we must be honest and kind, and we must stick to our moral bottom line.