Sleep:
Too little sleep time will affect your baby's normal physical development. 10-month-old babies usually sleep 2-3 times during the day, and the cumulative time is 2-6 hours; Generally, you can sleep 10- 12 hours at night and 14- 15 hours during the day.
When a child's physical strength is exhausted to a certain extent, he will naturally need sleep. At this time, just let the baby lie quietly in bed for a while, and then fall asleep. If he is not sleepy for a while, you can let him lie with his eyes open, but don't tease him or coax him. After a while, he fell asleep when he was sleepy.
Physiological excretion:
10 month baby, the normal stool should be a long strip of soft stool. If it gets angry, the stool will be harder.
Weight:
Gain about 60-90 grams a week. Average monthly increase in height1.5cm.
Characterization:
Babies can understand simple questions asked by adults, such as: "Where is Dad?" "where's mom?" Wait a minute.
Babies show signs of asking their mothers or primary caregivers for help.
Babies can push strollers or other objects forward.
When helping him dress, he will stretch out his arms and legs to cooperate.
The baby can climb freely on his hands and knees.
Babies tear off shoes and socks.
Abnormal signal:
You can't sit alone
You can't reach for things.
Don't know strangers and acquaintances
Swearing doesn't respond.
10 month vaccination
There is no vaccination this month.
10 month potential development
Great movement:
Continue to expand the scope of crawling-children are more restless and more active. At this time, they should do as many activities as possible on the basis of last month, encourage children to do more independent activities, climb up and down, climb in and out, and exercise their balance ability well, so that their three-dimensional sense can be deepened and their self-protection ability can be strengthened.
Help and step-parents to hold their children as little as possible, help and encourage children to help and stand for a while on the basis of paying attention to safety, and the time of standing alone can be appropriately increased. You can also let your child stand on the sofa or a row of chairs, and then use cars or balls to induce your child to step to reach the toys.
Pull up and squat-parents stand opposite the child, hold the child's hands, pull up the child to make him stand, and then put down the child to make him squat and move back and forth. Say "stand up" and "squat down" while doing it.
Squat down to pick up toys-when the child is standing on the handrail, tease him with toys at his feet and let the child squat down to pick up things actively, so that the child can be trained to stand and squat with one hand on the handrail. From the squatting game, not only the child's sports ability is exercised, but also his balance ability is exercised. At the same time, the child gets happiness and success in the interaction with his parents.
Cognition:
Memory enhancement-deferred imitation's ability is relatively stable this month. Sometimes the memory of an action may last for a few days, for example, after 2~3 days, the child still remembers to press this button to make the toy sound. This is the performance of strengthening memory ability. Continue to play with children and pay attention to these changes.
Obstacle training game-holding the child, sitting at the table covered with tablecloth. Put a toy on the table that children are very interested in, so that children can't reach it. When a child tries to reach the toy, he may occasionally pull the tablecloth under the toy, and the cloth will pull the toy in the direction of the child. After several times, the child will consciously bring Bula here and finally reach the toy. This is the process of solving problems and the bud of ideas. Similar obstacle games can be played under the guidance of parents. After overcoming the difficulties, they want not only a successful experience, but also the improvement of their intuitive thinking ability.
Attention training-The brain has a wonderful function. It can choose the information it notices from the complicated information outside, so as to understand, remember and learn. So when he notices someone or something, you should tell him who or what it is and what to do as soon as possible. Children can adjust their attention with your help. You can guide them to pay attention to a person, an event or an activity and teach them how to express themselves to different people by paying attention to each other. How to understand different people's languages and express signals? It can also guide him to know indoor objects and furniture, outdoor natural phenomena, flowers, trees and animals. Reading books and knowing the names and words on the paintings will help him to know more about people and things around him, communicate with others more effectively and learn relevant knowledge and experience. But the baby's attention time is very short. Better divert the target before he gets bored. Through his selective active attention, under the guidance of adults, cognitive learning and memory are carried out.
Learn musical instruments-teach children to play percussion instruments, such as small wooden fish or drums. At first, they may not be allowed, but gradually they can knock out the sound. You can also learn to play the trumpet. The child passes through his own hand or mouth until the force is big, the voice is big, the force is small, and the voice is small. When fiddling with an instrument, you can also fiddle with and explore the internal structure by hand.
Language:
Step up learning to listen and speak-after some babies can say the word12, they want to imitate adults and say a lot. They often pretend to speak, imitate adult accents and say a series of inexplicable things. These language games are often harmonious and full of emotion. Sometimes he nags while playing with toys. This language game usually lasts for a long time. Listen carefully to what the baby says and try to guess what he means. Giving a correct response will stimulate his enthusiasm for pronunciation. If you can say12 is meaningful, you should hug and kiss your baby, praise him and let him feel the joy of success.
Do things as required-this month's baby can understand more words and respond to simple requirements. Parents can give their children some opportunities to complete some things according to the instructions, such as taking a hat when going out to play, and he will bring a hat, coat and shoes. Goodbye will "wave" and welcome will "clap".
Communication precautions-talk to your baby face to face and say normal sentences, which should be short, slow and clear.
Tell your baby what you can see. What you say is in front of you, or what you are doing, which makes it easy for him to establish a connection between language and things.
Name the things and names that your baby is interested in. These things and names are easy for him to remember. When he wants to point to something he wants, tell him its name and let him see that your mouth represents theory, such as drinking milk and saying "milk".
Continue to say nursery rhymes, often read picture books to children and cultivate interest in books.
Life communication and emotional cultivation;
Active cooperation in dressing-cultivate children's ability to cooperate when dressing, undressing or bathing every day. Play games at first, such as putting on sleeves and saying, "The baby put his little hand out of the hole." When wearing pants, say, "Let your little feet come out of the hole." . Learn to put on your coat and reach out actively, and put your feet out when you wear pants, socks and shoes. You can also cooperate when taking a shower, and you are very happy to take a shower.
Will be able to observe words and deeds-at this age, children will look at their mother's face and know that smiling is equal to "approval" and frowning is equal to blame. Parents should try their best to educate their children in this nonverbal way. For example, when children are in trouble, parents should smile kindly. When children do something they shouldn't do, parents should not only have the language to stop it, but also have an angry expression. Adults at home should adopt a consistent attitude, which is very important to cultivate children's good habits.
Play with dolls and learn to care about others-give your child a doll and a handkerchief and tell your child, "The doll is sleepy and wants to sleep." Let the child cover the doll with a handkerchief instead of a quilt and pat the doll. You can also imitate other life behaviors.
Learn to command and train the sense of rhythm-choose music with a clear sense of rhythm, let the child sit on your lap with his back to you, hold the child's arm from behind and say "command", and then beat according to the rhythm of the music. The beat can change greatly with the rhythm of the music. Over and over again.
Different temperament, fear of life-children of this age have fear of life, anxiety and fear, but children of different natures behave differently. Children's innate temperament affects the behavior of being easy to approach or retreat to strangers and unfamiliar environments.
Children of the latter nature are very afraid of strangers. It is difficult to adapt to a strange environment. If parents are impatient, it will make the baby more anxious.
Therefore, mothers should pay more attention to the baby, establish a good attachment relationship, and make him feel safe. Understand the child's temperament type and the level of each dimension, learn to communicate with others, and contact with children in a way suitable for children. Let him learn and get used to interacting and playing with more people. The acquired environment will change his innate characteristics and make him grow into a gregarious and sociable child.
10 month feeding guidance
Dietary arrangement of "weaned" babies;
Starting from this month, parents began to prepare for the weaning of their baby 1 year-old. Children can eat cakes, steamed bread, bread, vegetable porridge, steamed fish, pork floss, bean curd and so on. Fruit can be eaten directly by children. Breastfeeding time is only arranged at two time nodes in the morning and evening. If the baby can sleep all night, there is no need to breastfeed. Parents should not get into the habit of putting their baby to sleep by breastfeeding, so as not to affect the sleep and rest of mother and child, and at the same time protect the baby's deciduous teeth and prevent dental caries.
10 month baby's dietary arrangement:
* At 7: 30 in the morning, at noon 12: 00, and at night 17: 00, you can feed your baby (thick porridge, vegetable puree, steamed whole eggs, etc.). ).
* You can add fruit to your baby in the morning 10, at 2 pm and two hours after dinner.
* Feed the baby at 6: 00 am and 9: 00 pm.
Infant dietary nutrition
Mothers should not use the feelings of adults to measure whether the baby is full. After adding complementary food, the mother can measure whether she is getting enough nutrition according to the baby's weight gain. If the baby's weight gain is normal, it means that nutrition is enough. Don't force your baby to eat because he doesn't eat much, which will increase the burden on his digestive system and easily develop his anorexia.
Mom can choose some fresh vegetables that are easy to hold and have little fiber, and cut them into pieces or strips that are easy for the baby to hold after cooking, so that the baby can grasp the food by himself and cultivate the baby's ability to eat with his hands. Don't cut too much vegetables and fruits, and exercise your baby's chewing ability at the same time. Let the baby learn to reach for food on the plate and imitate the way adults eat.
Method of mashed sweet potato
Ingredients: sweet potato, lemon, milk, butter.
Production method:
1. Peel the sweet potato, wash it, cut it into small pieces, put it in a pot, add water and a little salt and cook for 30 minutes.
2. Drain the water, put it into a blender (or crush it with a spoon), add hot milk, butter and a few drops of lemon juice, stir it into a mud, and pour it into a plate for feeding.
The practice of milk porridge
Raw materials: milk, rice
Production method:
1. Wash the rice and soak it in clear water 1-2 hours.
2. Put the pot on the fire, add water to boil, add rice and simmer for 30 minutes, and add milk to cook for a while.
Tips for love: Ten-month-old babies should change to three meals a day and two milk meals from the aspect of diet rules. On the premise of ensuring that the daily milk quantity is not less than 600ml, more attention should be paid to the collocation and proper amount of food.
10 month attention
Parent-child attachment:
Parent-child attachment period is "0-2.5 years old". High-quality attachment is the basis of developing healthy personality and has an important impact on future academic performance. The most important thing is that the mother can be sensitive to the signals sent by the baby and respond to the baby in a timely and appropriate manner.
Parents should increase the chances of close contact with the baby within 6 18 months after birth. Even a short caress, hug and kiss can make your baby feel your love. If the nanny or grandparents take care of the baby for a long time because of busy work, they will naturally miss the opportunity.
Parents should pay more attention, care and guidance during the critical period of baby's emotional attachment. Babies sometimes get restless and cry, so parents should control their emotions in time and show enough tolerance and patience. Some parents are sometimes warm and sometimes cold to their babies, depending on their mood. This will make the baby at a loss and will lack trust in his parents over time. Therefore, when the baby is crying, patting and babbling, parents should show enough patience, fully understand the baby's needs and try their best to meet them.
Give help and comfort to the baby when he needs it, encourage him to play alone, encourage and show his friendship with strangers, and let the baby be psychologically prepared for his mother's departure and never cheat. This makes the baby full of trust, security and confidence in his mother.
If the mother is often insensitive to the baby's feelings, the mother's expression is dull, so that the baby's smile is often coldly received or rude to the child, and sometimes she will "leave without saying goodbye" or deceive the child, and her attitude is capricious. If she often treats her children like this, their personality will become unhappy, pessimistic and unwilling to communicate with others, forming bad personality characteristics.
In addition, when looking for a caregiver, parents should pay attention to finding someone who can carefully understand the baby's requirements and is enthusiastic and caring. In the period of attachment formation, it is necessary to avoid changing caregivers frequently, otherwise it will make children fidgety and not conducive to the establishment of high-quality attachment feelings.
The lack of early parent-child attachment leads children to encounter more difficulties and painful experiences during their growth. Mainly as follows:
Bad interpersonal relationships, such as losing your temper or being locked in your heart and not making friends;
High-risk behaviors, such as smoking and drinking prematurely in retaliation for parents, and even puppy love;
Psychological behavior is abnormal, because they are easy to be anxious and nervous, and their ability to resist pressure is weak. Ordinary setbacks may trigger strong reactions of such children. Without effective relief and guidance, psychological abnormal symptoms (such as anxiety or depression) are likely to appear.
10 month dad school
Emotional intelligence training needs dad's help.
A good brain means that besides studying well, you should also have the ability to cope with various situations and overcome difficulties. Dad's role is to let children give full play to their talents in a stable environment. Dad should know how to draw the necessary boundaries, and also leave room for the children to slowly expand the boundaries themselves. Children often make dad happy and often surprise him! At the same time, dad should keep up with the development of children. From the standpoint of children, the process of traveling is the most important. Because experiencing life through travel can give children a sense of accomplishment in their interaction with their parents. Whether we can reach our destination is completely secondary.
New fathers need reasonable planning and moderate consumption.
It is estimated that children will spend about 15000 yuan on diapers, clothes, food, walkers and other items in the first year. So making a list will reduce your excess expenses. Find an experienced parent to go shopping with you. She will tell you what is really useful, and you can be less fooled. Don't worry too much about children's clothes, because children grow up in an instant. So are toys. Most babies prefer to play with the same thing, even a box is enough for her to play for a while. You might as well use the rest of the money to let her take piano lessons or go to college.
Men can better find a balance between caring for children and their own lives.
Has your wife ever complained that you are "inattentive" in taking care of children? In fact, two or three years of inseparable nursing career is not only bad for mother, but also bad for baby. Being too nervous about your child's smile will only spread this anxiety of "being afraid of making mistakes" to your child and make your child emotionally unstable. There's nothing wrong with dad surfing the internet or reading newspapers while watching the baby. Babies also need space to "enjoy themselves". This is what mom should learn from dad.
Toddler, safety is more important.
/kloc-at 0/0 month, the baby can stand up with the help of others or stumble with the support. Because during this period, the baby's vision and range of activities are getting bigger and bigger, and they are very curious. With the support of their father, they want to touch them everywhere, and God knows when there will be trouble. Therefore, dad must take more precautions in safety.
Love tip: The baby is learning to walk. As the leg muscles become stronger and stronger, the proficiency of crawling and sitting becomes higher and higher, and the consciousness of walking by oneself becomes stronger and stronger, the father takes the baby to become the first seed player. Moreover, when the baby falls, the father's "careless" handling method (don't care too much, let the child find a way to get up by himself) is easier to hone the baby's sense of independence.
10 month baby health tips
How to cultivate children's good sleep habits?
Children's sleep habits should be carefully cultivated from an early age, because this is the key to the healthy growth of children. To make children sleep well, we should first pay attention to developing good sleep habits, going to bed on time, getting up on time, and ensuring adequate sleep time. As the baby grows up, his sleep requirements will naturally change. The biggest change is that he basically does not need to sleep during the day, so the overall sleep time he needs will be greatly reduced.
Baby standing exercise
10-month-old baby can stand alone for a moment, can crawl quickly, and walk hand in hand with adults; Children of this age are also in the transition period of walking upright. Once a child can sit alone, he no longer sits honestly and wants to stand up. In the aspect of large muscle movement, it has also entered two critical periods: standing alone; Walking alone; This period is a leap in the development of baby's body balance ability, and it is also an important period for the coordinated development of baby's body and limbs.
Baby standing practice skills:
For overweight babies. Mom and dad should properly control the baby's appetite, not only for the baby's present, but also for the baby's future.
A baby who lacks exercise Mom should give the baby some space to develop freely, and then you will find that the baby is standing well.
Repair furniture. In order to encourage the baby, put the baby's favorite toy on a slightly higher furniture to induce the baby to stand up straight and get it. On the other hand, you can often help your baby stand on your lap, which is of great benefit to building your baby's self-confidence.
Tips for baby standing method:
When you put your finger into the child's palm to practice sitting posture, you have already started an action. With the help of the mother's big hand, as long as the child can stand up, the stage of learning to stand is completed.
The next step is to let the children pull things by themselves and stand up by themselves. At this time, you can hold a plastic ring in your hand, so that children can grasp one side of the ring and adults can grasp the other side.
Tips for love: Let the children grab the ring and stand up without being pulled by adults. This kind of standing depends entirely on the child himself. He must mobilize all the strength of the muscles of upper limbs, lower limbs, waist, back, chest and abdomen.
Is the walker you chose for your child safe?
Now, has your baby made great progress in standing and learning to walk? Did you buy a walker at home? In fact, a walker is a common tool for babies to practice standing and walking. Babies can move in the direction they want, which can save a lot of energy for adults. So how to choose a walker? There are three main points:
1. If the seat height can be adjusted;
2. The larger the underbody area, the better;
3. The wheels can stop sliding and be fixed.
However, not all babies are suitable for walkers. For example, after the length of the walker is adjusted, only the baby's toes touch the ground, or the baby's legs are curled up in the walker, which is not suitable for using the walker.
A balanced diet, the baby likes to eat more.
When the baby reaches 10 month, you should focus on the baby's respiratory health. Because the baby's respiratory tract is immature, the virus is easy to invade, causing acute upper respiratory tract infection, which should be carefully prevented and treated in time.
You can help your baby do some necessary preventive measures, such as active exercise, paying attention to hygiene, washing hands frequently, vaccinating when necessary, eating a balanced diet, strengthening nutrition and enhancing your baby's immunity.
But what if there is a respiratory infection? According to the doctor, rest and nutrition are very important for the recovery of the disease. The so-called "three-point governance, seven-point support."
Let children drink more water and have more rest. Even if the child's illness is not serious, you should not meet the child's requirements and take him to buy toys and visit the park, which will aggravate the child's illness. Be sure to drink plenty of water, replenish the body fluids consumed by fever, promote the discharge of toxins and dilute the sick fluid.
It is best to eat liquid food and semi-liquid food. If the child swallows with a bottle and coughs easily, it can be fed with a spoon. If they have a bad appetite or vomit, they can appropriately increase the number of times of breastfeeding, and each time the amount is less. Don't reduce vegetable juice and vegetable water, because they contain vitamins and minerals, which is good for the recovery of diseases.
When buying baby tableware, it is important to pay attention to safety.
From the time you feed your baby complementary food, you have already considered buying special tableware for your baby. However, is the tableware you chose for him really safe? Have a good check! Use PP and silicone as far as possible as the material of baby tableware, not PC; In modeling, it is best to be convenient and practical, and the shape is round. Functionally, it is best to use a sucker, which is not easy to be knocked over by the baby; There are temperature-sensitive bowls and spoons, which are easy to master the temperature and will not burn the baby.
Stop babies from doing things they shouldn't do.
Because the baby's hands and feet can move freely, they will do all kinds of "naughty" things. In the baby's eyes, "wanting to do everything" means verifying your ability. Among them, there are "naughty" that troubles adults' lives, and there are also behaviors that make adults happy and make adults smile. But for a baby, everything is the same, it's all an "attempt". He doesn't know whether an adult likes it or not.
Take your baby for oral examination regularly.
In any case, early detection, early diagnosis and early treatment are the best. For children who have experienced growth and development changes such as edentulous period, deciduous teeth eruption period, deciduous dentition period, mixed dentition period and young permanent dentition period, it is very necessary to have regular oral examination. Generally speaking, when the baby's first deciduous tooth comes out, it's time to take him to the dentist.
What about retroauricular lymphadenopathy?
Retroauricular lymphadenopathy is one of the common diseases in children. There are many reasons for lymphadenopathy, but the main reasons are staphylococcus aureus and hemolytic streptococcus. In life, let the baby develop good living habits, eat more fruits and stay away from lampblack. When bathing your baby at ordinary times, you can feel your baby's ears or neck for lymph node protrusion, so as to find it early and seek medical treatment as soon as possible, so as not to delay the illness.
How does the baby safely repel mosquitoes and relieve itching?
Mosquitoes generally appear in April every year and reach the peak in the middle and late August. Every spring and summer, mosquitoes will come out to abuse, and most of them will attack infants and pregnant women.
What should I do if my baby is bitten by a mosquito?
Antipruritic: generally, the treatment of insect bite dermatitis is mainly to relieve itching, and external drugs such as insect bite water, compound calamine lotion and commercially available antipruritic and cooling oil can be used.
Anti-inflammatory: For children with severe symptoms or secondary infection, oral antibiotics can be used to reduce inflammation, and at the same time, the bitten part should be cleaned and disinfected in time, and erythromycin ointment should be applied appropriately.
Scratch prevention: parents should supervise their babies to wash their hands, cut their nails short, and beware of children scratching and biting to prevent secondary infection.
Love tip: Mosquitoes are the main vectors of Japanese encephalitis and various tropical diseases (such as malaria, filariasis, yellow fever and dengue fever). If you find that your baby has symptoms such as high fever, vomiting and even convulsions in summer and autumn, you should see a doctor in time; When using mosquito repellent products, especially mosquito repellent and ointment. These are all in direct contact with the skin, so pay attention to whether there are allergies, especially babies with allergic history.
10 month security guarantee
Safety is the most important thing in a baby's life at this stage. Within the scope of his activities, the acute angle of furniture should be wrapped in cloth, and the low windows, stairs and steps should be enclosed at any time; Don't put hot or fragile items, drugs, pins, cigarettes, thermometers and other unsafe and easy-to-swallow things where the baby can reach them; Wires should be tied and fixed, power sockets should be fixed with tape, and sockets should be covered.
How to deal with the foreign body swallowed by the baby?
The baby's respiratory tract is very narrow, and the baby's metabolic rate is high and the oxygen demand is high. If the trachea is blocked, the face will turn black. If the foreign body cannot be taken out in time, it will be deprived of oxygen soon, and the baby may stop breathing or even die in a short time. If there is no obvious abnormality for the time being, the baby who swallows a foreign body will have an upper respiratory tract atresia, and there will generally be wheezing when breathing. If you find that your baby has a long-term cough or similar unexplained asthma, you can take your baby to the hospital for examination to determine whether it is caused by swallowing foreign bodies.