Churchill
If the cyclical change of the universe is the king of life, that person's life is like the cycle of the four seasons, just like the alternation of day and night, there must be bright times and dark times.
There is no shortage of friends and partners on the bright road, only one is destined to walk alone on the dark road. Because the darker the road, the more isolated it is, just as banks will only lend money to the rich with mortgage qualifications, but not to the poor.
At this time, you must have strong wisdom and strength, establish a firm belief, adopt a calm attitude, improve yourself, strengthen yourself, and wait for the opportunity to usher in the dawn.
The world of adults is the rest of their lives. We are all prisoners of life, and we all have our darkest moments.
There is a saying: every Excellence and greatness comes from the darkest moment.
However, some people are defeated by the dark moment and fall down, while others regard the dark moment as the soil of success and wisdom, where they practice and temper themselves, and finally realize transformation and win the dawn.
The Monkey King won't achieve a pair of critical eyes if he doesn't go too far on the gossip stove of the old man.
The more in the darkest moment, the less impetuous and eager for quick success. You should bide your time, don't rush for success, and don't run away blindly. The so-called "nothing ventured, nothing gained" is where the risks lie and the benefits lie. But if you covet profits and ignore risks, you will eventually perish.
When water vapor rises to the sky, it becomes a cloud. When the cloud meets a cold air mass, it will condense into water droplets, and it will rain.
When it rains, a gentleman knows that it is a crisis and a turning point. If he can keep calm in the crisis and wait for time calmly, he will achieve something.
Gou Jian, the king of Yue, became a slave from the emperor to other countries. How did he survive?
Gou Jian, the king of Yue, and Fu Cha, the king of Wu, were defeated in the First World War of Huiji. They were enslaved by Wei Wu, the monarch, and went to other countries as slaves. What a shame it is. In order to humiliate the King of Yue, the King of Wu sent him to look after the tomb and feed the horses.
Although the King of Yue was not convinced, he tried to pretend to be obedient. When the prince of Wu went out, he walked ahead and led the horse; When the king of Wu was ill, he tried his best to take care of him at his bed. When the prince of Wu was unwell, Gou Jian did not hesitate to ask questions, which made him feel that he was loyal to himself and finally allowed him to return to China.
After returning to Yue, Gou Jian began to plan revenge. In order to remind himself not to forget his ambition, he slept on firewood. Wake up every day and taste the bitter fruit
In order not to arouse Wu's suspicion, Gou Jian turned the army into the people, hid under the mountain, secretly trained soldiers, and sent American waitresses to Wu to stifle Fu Cha's ambition. After ten years of governance, Yue secretly became stronger, and all the soldiers were full of energy and high morale.
In 473 BC, Gou Jian, the King of Yue, seized the opportunity and led an army to attack the State of Wu, winning a great victory. Fu Cha, the king of Wu, was forced to commit suicide, and Wu perished.
Gou Jian endured humiliation, preserved his sanity, tasted courage, saved energy, hid his edge, waited for an opportunity, and finally got revenge and became the overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period.
The sky is raining. If you fall, you will get up.
Relying on yourself is by no means isolating yourself. There is an old saying in China: If you study in thousands of books and take Wan Li Road, why don't you help me?
Why should the nobles help you? It's up to you. No, you'll never meet a noble person! Rely on yourself, not from team spirit or borrowing money, but always remember that you are an internal cause, decide your own strategy and use your own resources tactically. Only by being strong can we attract external factors.
In fact, in this world, where there is any providence, the so-called luck and success come from their own efforts and efforts.
Remember that every step you take now is pulling you away from others. If you want to do it, be a strong man in life.
Breakthrough depends on yourself, and external force is attracted by your own strength!
My wish will not wither, I will make the world tremble by my own strength and courage! -Napoleon
When young and frustrated, there is no direction. I hope a successful person can take me on the road. In my circle of friends, there is a big brother named Zhou, who has excellent economic conditions and drives a Mercedes-Benz with a cost of 2 million. I have told him many times that there are suitable projects to take me.
Later, he invited me to attend his wife's class many times. It is for health preservation and legal direct sales, called sharing economy. I thought I was smart, but I was brainwashed. I also invited my relatives and friends to invest in the order. After a long time, I realized that it was a pyramid scheme in disguise, and the result was all lost.
I lost money and wasted time and energy. I still have a lingering fear when I think about it now. Since then, I have understood a truth: success is not what you seek, let alone what you rely on. The dark road depends on yourself. Do it yourself, others can see it, and you have a chance.
Later, with our own efforts, we set up a real estate company, working as a self-media in our spare time, and there is much to be done in the future from the media. Today, I understand:
Backers will fall, water will flow, and the dark and helpless road can only come out on its own.
Ouyang Xue in Tiandao TV series, a weak woman, walked out of the darkest road on her own.
Ouyang Xue divorced her parents and became an orphan. She 12 years old had to drop out of school to work. Xiao Ouyang Xue knocked the owner of a restaurant eight times in order to get a self-supporting job, and his forehead was bleeding.
It is true that children from poor families take care of them early. A girl of 12 years old chooses vegetables, washes dishes and cleans during the day. Make yourself a cot with a chair at night.
Ouyang Xue developed a self-reliant character because of her tragic childhood experience. In the exploration of the bottom society, she understood that human dignity was not given by others.
Later, she started a magical wheel of fate. She started from a wonton stall with her meager savings and gradually developed into a medium-sized restaurant with good income.
Only later did she have her own mantra: "As long as I keep the restaurant, I won't starve to death."
Later, when I became the largest shareholder, I completely ushered in the light of life.
The three heroines in Heaven are a little too delicate and utilitarian.
Ouyang Xue just combines the shortcomings of both, both strong and independent, and weak and pity of women.
Road, you have to walk on your own.
Never pin your hopes on others.
It is impossible to usher in light without experiencing darkness.
You have never been poor, it is difficult to be a man, and you are naive without being hit. Any God's training is a powerful lesson for you. After going out, looking back, you will say, "Thank you."
Learn to be a snail. Even if you walk slowly, try your best to move forward step by step. The dark road depends on yourself.
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