First, with the old-age card, young people are allowed to give up their seats without thanking them, regardless of the feelings of others, regardless of rush hour or not.

Second, greedy for petty gain, stripping leafy vegetables cleanly when buying vegetables, harming others and benefiting themselves, and not paying attention to public morality.

These things look small, but in fact they are despicable. The power of example is infinite. Old people should set a good example for young people and be a respected old man.

Growing vegetables after retirement makes people look down upon it. I have been working for forty-three years. I have worked hard for the party, the work and the family, but there has always been a plot of growing vegetables, which is to eat fresh vegetables without pollution and pesticide residues. Since I grew my own vegetables, many people have looked down on it and laughed at it with strange eyes. Well, we are used to city life. Do we need to experience the vastness of nature once in a while and feel where we come from? Am I humble?

After retirement, I think we should pay attention to the following three things, otherwise, we may be looked down upon.

First, don't mention your previous work achievements after retirement. There is a saying that "the brave don't mention the courage of the year." Don't tell the current leaders of the unit what to do, pretend to be a wise man, and answer modestly and cautiously if the unit wants to ask you for advice or suggestions. Don't give advice, make a decision. Just remind me in place, people will look down on you if you want to attend.

Second, in society, we should keep a low profile, return to ordinary people, wear ordinary clothes, speak ordinary words, avoid bureaucratic jargon, integrate into ordinary people's lives, try to avoid contact with ordinary colleagues or officials, and don't give people a feeling of being above others. People will look down on us if they don't put down their airs.

Third, in the family, if the children get married and can live a good life, you don't need to do anything, then you can treat them according to the etiquette of normal old people to their children and grandchildren and do whatever you want. If children live a hard life and are not as good as you, then you should try your best to help them. If you are indifferent, patronizing yourself and being selfish, you will be looked down upon.

If you don't pay attention to the above three situations after retirement, you will be looked down upon.

I don't know the truth that "people walk in cold tea" after retirement, and I can't forget the state before retirement. On the contrary, it is the most despised, not only losing face, but also leaving jokes.

There used to be a leader of a considerable level who often went to work after retirement and liked to sit in his original office seat and point fingers from time to time. The leader who took over was embarrassed. Everyone thought it was funny, but he didn't feel anything. Later, an old colleague who got along well went to his house to persuade him carefully, but only restrained himself and was looked down upon from then on.

When you retire, your colleagues and the leaders who take over say to you, "Please come to your unit often to guide your work!" " "You know, this is your respect and courtesy. In fact, it is an objective law that "people walk with tea." Not in its place, not seeking its own politics "is a routine and necessary." Don't flatter yourself unless the unit specifically asks you to come back for help. Otherwise, it will not only be looked down upon, but even become a joke.

This is true.

First, after retirement, choose happiness, dependence and productivity. Some people choose fitness and exercise and take part in cultural activities. Choose to do what you can and continue to work, and use your wisdom and resources to continue to play a residual heat for society and the times. Second, there are still a few people who have done revolutionary work all their lives and made great contributions to socialist modernization. They have done things that violate the law and discipline, which is really despicable and very sad. They are very embarrassing and conspicuous among comrades, workers, relatives and friends, and even family and children look down on you. Everyone is equal before the law, and the elderly can't resist the law. If they break the law, heaven and earth will not allow it. Third, the majority of retired middle-aged and elderly friends hope that people will be old, have a sense of security, and retire to work. The essence of the revolution is not to retire, to leave their jobs, to remain law-abiding, to become advocates and propagandists of the two civilizations, and to become moral, idealistic and ambitious socialist citizens.

Like our beloved announcer, Mr. Zhao X Xiang, Beijing has billions of properties. After retirement, I wrote to earn money, sold paintings to earn money, and finally fell ill and died. That's disgusting.

If leading cadres do the most despised things after retirement, there are two things. First, pointing fingers at the work of the current leaders and even interfering. The second is to use your contacts and influence to make profits for yourself or your relatives and friends. The second point also applies to ordinary public officials and employees.

Retirement is retirement, don't push everything forward. Resignation is the most annoying thing to talk about There are such people in the world.

Especially those who love to brag in front of others after retirement, the more extravagant and colorful they are, the more despised they are.

For example, some people like to talk about how they used to eat with this person and drink with that person.

When chatting with people, you always say "you don't understand" and "you low-level people don't understand"

In the words of ordinary people-pretend to be a big-tailed wolf.

In fact, truly high-level people, whether retired or not, are very cultured and modest.

At this time, I suddenly remembered a little joke in my mind: it said that a domestic cat didn't want to stay at home after being strangled. I ran out in February and August when there was a quarrel.

Someone asked the owner of the cat what was going on? The host said, "Although it runs a lot and talks a lot, it can only act as a consultant ....."

What people do after retirement is looked down upon. I think doing nothing after retirement is the most despised thing.

Retired, that is to say, it's time to enjoy your old age, but at the same time, you should find something to do, even if it's planting flowers, fishing, dancing, playing chess, listening to songs you loved when you were young, having dinner with your wife and wanting to be romantic. You can watch movies with your wife and children, eat a pot of rice, sleep in a bed, and never part. If conditions permit, we can go together. In short, if you have something to do, you will not be empty and bored, you will live a full life, and you will not be looked down upon.

In addition, don't do unnatural things, don't rank according to seniority, don't brag, and be a low-key person. In Liu Bei's words, it is "don't do it with small evil, don't do it with small good" and "the blessed will be blessed". In short, it is to do more good and not listen to bad words. Small goodness accumulates small blessings, and small evils bring great disasters. When you see a child fall, give him a hand. If someone asks for directions, it will be returned to the original owner. These are trivial things in life, so you should raise your hand to do them.

Don't want to be looked down upon, but also pay attention.

Don't wear sloppy clothes at ordinary times, don't hurt people with bad words, and don't make trouble. Pay attention at home, pay more attention when going out, be kind to others, and the world will be at peace. If you want others to respect you, you must first learn to respect others. Society has changed and times have changed. We must keep pace with the times and keep up with the times, so that we will not be rejected everywhere.

There are two things that make people sneer at after retirement: first, some leading cadres still take themselves seriously in a bureaucratic manner after retirement, and always want others to address them as their posts (secretary of the bureau chief, dean, procurator-general, etc.). ). If you call him Lao Li, Lao Chen and Lao Wang, he will be unhappy, and if you call him so-and-so secretary, he will laugh, which is a psychological obstacle that will never be put down. Second, some leading cadres are depressed when they retire as grandchildren. When he was in office, he was arrogant and looked down on his ministers. When they return to their original units, they will be passive and Nuo Nuo will bow and smile. This contrasting psychological state is not difficult to reflect how active a person's inner world is.