In fact, every parent is thinking and practicing such a proposition, that is, what kind of person should we train our children to be?
? There is no fixed answer to this question, but most people's ideas still have some characteristics, that is, physical and mental health, independent personality, three views, optimistic attitude, skills and so on. These ideas are all our expectations for children according to our own life experience, but they always feel incomplete. Recently, a middle school principal got angry. When answering a reporter's question at the National People's Congress, I made an answer, which was very good and impressive.
? When answering a reporter's question "What is the true meaning of education", Tang, a member of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference and president of Jiangsu Xishan High School, said, "We are cultivating lifelong athletes, responsible persons, problem solvers and elegant lives, which is our goal of cultivating children."
These four "learners" spoke very well, highly summarized and very specific, and outlined the ideal development direction of our children in our minds in an instant.
The first is a lifelong athlete. We often say that everyone should take a sport as a lifelong hobby. Lifelong sports is a sports concept that came into being with the idea of lifelong learning in 1960s. It means that people should carry out various forms of physical exercise all their lives, including the whole process of physical exercise of all ages and in all ways. A person's life can be roughly divided into growth period, maturity period and decline period. The requirement of growth and development period is to promote growth and development. The requirement of maturity is to maintain vigorous energy and abundant physical strength, which requires exercise and rest, and to balance the relationship between career and health. The requirement of recession is to delay aging, prolong working life and prolong life. Therefore, people should engage in physical exercise for life, make exercise a habit and lifestyle, and benefit it for life.
? Followed by the person in charge and the problem solver. It can be said that these two "lovers" are the essential differences between adults and minors. It is a compulsory course in his/her life to let our children know responsibility and learn to solve problems, and it is also a necessary quality for a qualified social person.
? Finally, an elegant life. Learning to live is a problem that we have to face all our lives. Even though we may have different situations in different stages of life, an elegant life reflects a positive attitude towards life and a spirit of bravely pursuing a better life.
? As the first parents of the post-80s generation, the cultivation of children is actually crossing the river by feeling the stones. I am deeply inspired by the views of dean Tang, an education expert, and I would like to express my gratitude here.
? There is still a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, so let's seek the same thing on the road of raising children.