As many people have quietly revealed to me, so-and-so in the office is an invisible rich man. With so much money at home, why come to work and earn thousands of dollars a month? Oh, maybe he's just bored and wants to find something to kill time. Unexpectedly, Orfila cried in this variety show. Female stars are indeed female stars. Cry in front of the camera regardless of the image, tell your inner entanglement and anxiety, and you will immediately gain a great wave of sympathy, care and encouragement. Other viewers, such as Fu's father, have repeatedly confirmed that "stars also eat mala Tang?" Similarly, incredible: you are so rich and famous, what's there to cry about?
Think about it, too. She stands on the best variety stage. Weibo has more than 30 million fans. She has such a big house in Beijing that she can decorate it at will. How many people envy her for living alone and living a free top single life! However, Orfila's anxiety and confusion are real. Order a takeaway, vegetarian, and only dare to eat two bites. Swallowed many kinds of health care products to continue her life. At the age of 36, she lived to become a health care expert. Calling a friend over for dinner, she kept crying and completely lost confidence in her business ability; Consider getting married and having children first, but worry about delaying for a year or two. Do you still have your own place to come back? What's more, it's hard to find the right person. Going to a party with his girlfriend made the child cry, and she began to doubt herself again. Am I the worst person to coax children? Unmarried at the age of 36, career bottleneck, in fact, these are superficial problems.
Orfila gave me the biggest feeling that she didn't put herself in an accurate coordinate system. She didn't straighten out her relationship with herself, so she was timid, depressed, unconfident and inflexible. What does it mean to put yourself in an accurate coordinate system? That is, you know who you are, and then do something suitable for your temperament to gain a strong sense of self-identity. Orfila is not suitable for the fast-track stage, and I'm afraid she knows it well. However, people are very strange animals. The stage is too dazzling. She won the opportunity from the 6.5438+0.5 million competitors in that year, so even if she knew it was not suitable for her, it was hard to give up. It's not without trying to compromise. She was founded in Taiwan Province to learn Lin Chi-ling's style, and she did the same. The effect is not good. For herself, it must be embarrassing and embarrassing.
In fact, Orfila can relax. Calm down, put aside secular standards and expectations of others, have a good dialogue with your heart and ask yourself what you really want. What can you give and what can you bear? Where are the boundaries and bottom lines? Only when a person handles the relationship with himself and lives in accurate coordinates can he link to the greatest energy and the deepest joy. Only when you straighten yourself out can your career and feelings go smoothly. 36 years old, still young! Don't worry, take your time. I wish you a new world.