There was a blind man who was deeply troubled and depressed by this defect when he was a child. He decided that God was punishing him and his life was coming to an end. Later, a teacher enlightened him and said, "Everyone in the world is an apple bitten by God and a defective person. Some people have big flaws because God loves his scent. " Encouraged, he regarded blindness as God's special love and began to cheer up and challenge his destiny. A few years later, he became a famous blind massage teacher, relieved many people's suffering, and his deeds were written into local primary school textbooks.

It is a strange idea to regard life defects as "apples bitten by God", although there is a spirit of self-consolation. However, nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. Who in this world doesn't need self-comfort and self-motivation? Moreover, this reason is so considerate, humorous and lovely.

There are three famous eccentrics in the history of world culture. The writer Milton is blind, the great musician Beethoven is deaf, and the talented violinist Paganini is dumb after middle age. If we use the theory of "God bites an apple" to reason, it is all because of God's special love and hard biting.

Take Paganini as an example. When he was 4 years old, he got measles and almost died. At the age of 7, he suffered from pneumonia and almost died; At the age of 46, all the teeth fell out; At the age of 47, his vision dropped sharply and he was almost blind. At the age of 50, he became dumb again. God is too harsh, but he also made a talented violinist. Paganini began to learn piano at the age of 3, that is, when he showed his talent; At the age of 8, he has become famous; /kloc-The first concert held at the age of 0/2 was a great success. Since then, his piano music has spread almost all over the world, with countless admirers. In the struggle against the disease, he conquered the whole world with his unique fingering and magical melody. Blaze, a famous music critic, called him "a magician with a piano bow" and Goethe commented that he "showed a fire-like soul on the strings".

Some people say that God is like a shrewd businessman. If he gives you a genius, it will be several times more painful than a genius. That's true.

When you are unhappy, you don't have to blame others, let alone give up on yourself. The best way is to masturbate like that teacher: we are all apples bitten by God, but God likes me very much, so I bite even more.

References:

Www. JX. Xinhua net. com/ Wen Yi/2003-06/1/content _ 594318.htm.

2. Affection: a bowl of chaos

She quarreled with her mother that day. In a rage, she turned and ran out. She walked for a long time and saw a noodle stall in front of her. It was delicious and hot, and she felt hungry. However, she searched her pockets, and there was not even a coin.

The owner of the noodle stand is a very kind old woman. Seeing her standing there, she asked, "Son, do you want noodles?" "But I have no money." She was a little embarrassed to answer.

"Never mind, I'll treat you to dinner." The old woman greeted her warmly. "Come, sit down, I'll give you a bowl of chaos."

Soon, the old woman brought a bowl of chaos and a plate of side dishes. She was so grateful that just after a few bites, tears fell down and fell into the bowl one by one.

"What's the matter with you?" The old lady asked with concern. "I'm fine, I'm just grateful." She quickly wiped her tears and said to the old woman, "We don't know each other. You are so kind to me. But how did my real mother treat me? I quarreled with her, and she kicked me out and told me not to go back! "

The old woman listened and said calmly, "Son, what makes you think so?" ? Think about it, I just cooked you a bowl of chaos, and you are so grateful to me. Then why don't you thank your mother for cooking for you for more than ten years? Why did you quarrel with her? "

The girl froze.

The girl ate chaos in a hurry. Start walking home. When it was almost home, it saw its exhausted mother at a glance, looking around at the crossroads ... Her mother's face lit up when she saw her: "You naughty boy, come here quickly." The meal is ready. If you don't come back to eat, the food will get cold!

At this moment, her tears began to fall.

Sometimes, we will "appreciate" the small favors given by others. Why do we "turn a blind eye" to the kindness of our loved ones for a lifetime?

References:

www.gxgui.com/read.php/ 147.htm

3. Education and learning (related to middle school students): "Routine can not be ignored"

When Bill Gates became famous, he returned to his alma mater and said, If I had to choose again, I would choose to go to college like you.

Gates is a scholar who gave up halfway, and his experience of "dropping out of school" has always been talked about. In many articles, Gates became the richest man in the world because he dropped out of school to work in the computer industry. Many people think that if a person wants to get ahead, he must be unconventional. Like Gates, he gave up his studies and took up his favorite job despite his parents' opposition.

From this, people think that it is mediocre for a person to follow the rules, but it is a blockbuster to play cards without following the rules. In addition to Gates, people also listed Edison, who was stupid when he was a child, Qian Zhongshu, who always failed in the math exam, and Han Han, a Shanghai student who made money with the masterpiece Triple Door and turned on a red light in his homework.

All this gives us an illusion. If you want to be a talent, don't take it step by step. Learning according to the current educational model will become an examination machine.

CCTV once planned a program and invited five famous domestic scientists, namely Yuan Longping, the father of hybrid rice, Wang Xuan, the inventor of laser phototypesetting computer, Jin Yilian, a computer expert, Wu Wenjun, a mathematician, and Huang Kun, a physicist.

In the program, a child at the scene asked five scientists, "What was your academic performance as a child?" Five scientists answered them one by one. They said that their grades were very good, and they were among the best since primary school. Only Yuan Longping said that his arts and sciences are somewhat biased, but this is only relative to his own strengths. Among his classmates, his "English, Chinese and English" is quite good.

This answer once again returns to the basic law of education. The attitude of seeking truth from facts of the five scientists is touching, and their attitude is very important for education and children's growth.

In this world, there are children who fail homework exams, children who study partial subjects, and even children who despise education, but this is only a special case and will only happen to a few people. After all, the world is dominated by "routines".

"Special case" will still exist, but it can't be a case. Ignoring convention is quite dangerous.

References:

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