Since reading the Classics of Chinese Studies Disciples' Rules, I have been deeply inspired and learned a lot, and I always abide by Disciples' Rules.
I remember in the past, when I saw my elders, I greeted those who were close to me, and even those who were far away didn't say hello. My parents criticized me for this, and I always disapproved. However, after reading "Lu Yu is long, anxious, silent and ready to step down" in Disciples' Rules, I understand the truth of being a man. "Lu Yu elders should come forward to say hello quickly and go back respectfully if they don't talk."
Now, even if my elders are far away from me, I will step forward quickly, say hello, and then run back to work.
There is another thing that makes me understand more and more from Disciples Rules, which has changed a lot.
Before I learned the rules of an apprentice, my elders always refused to eat, so I began to eat, and I was relieved. Always walk in front of your elders by car. But "Ride a horse, get off the bus, the elders come first, and the younger generation comes later" in Disciples Rules has changed me a hundred and eighty degrees. I know that when eating, riding or doing other things, the elders should come first, and the younger generation should be respected.
So, now, if the elders don't sit down for dinner, I will wait patiently. I didn't start eating until my elders sat down to eat. When I take the bus, I also let the elders get on the bus first, and the primary school students write "Thoughts on Reading Disciples".
My elders praised me for being polite. Listening to their praise is sweeter than honey. Unexpectedly, it is not difficult to be a good boy in the eyes of adults. After reading Disciples Rules, I know that we should respect our elders and honor our parents. This is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, and we should carry forward this tradition. Since the ancients knew this truth, as a modern civilized human being, we should inherit and carry forward this glorious tradition and be a China person who inherits civilization. Therefore, I thank the disciple rules for teaching me to be a good boy, the teachers for teaching me the true meaning of being a man, and the collective for letting my knowledge and happiness grow with me.
After reading Disciples Rules, I am very grateful for the teacher's teaching and the tolerance of society. I am grateful for everything in the world, but I am even more grateful to my parents for giving me life and infinite affection. I understand that I should be grateful to my parents because of the guidance of Disciples Rules.
With the growth of age, my temper is getting bigger and bigger, and my personality is getting more and more impatient. I always go in one ear and out the other for my parents' nagging education. Sometimes I even slam the door in response to my parents' reprimands, regardless of their feelings. I read Disciple's Rules in my room that day, and I felt very ashamed. I realized that I was wrong, and I made too many mistakes. When I slammed the door, I didn't care about my parents' feelings at that time, nor did I make my parents feel heartbroken.
Parents are the sun in our life, they bring us warmth and light, they give us life and they work hard for us. When you fail, there will always be a pair of hands who care about you, care for you and tell you: "You are always the best, believe in yourself and do it." Don't forget that you have our support behind you "; When you are left out in the cold, there will always be two people coming out in front of you at this moment, reaching out their hands to give you warmth; When you are frustrated, it is these hands that pull you out of trouble and let you break through setbacks and move towards success.
Be grateful to your parents. We should try our best to be filial to them in their lifetime. Don't realize that their parents are grateful to themselves like mountains when they leave forever, and their filial piety has not been fulfilled. Don't cry and howl at your parents' graves when they say goodbye, then you will understand your regret. This is what I learned from reading Disciples Rules: Be grateful to your parents, but you can't wait; Reward parents and can't wait; Filial piety to parents can't wait.
I am grateful for Disciple Rules, which makes me really understand filial piety and everything, just like a bright lamp, shining on my growth and guiding me. I will practice the true meaning of disciple rules with my own actions, repay my parents and be grateful to the society. Let's grow up quickly under the guidance of disciple rules!
In this rapidly developing economic society, more and more young people are not with their parents. For my own career, to support my family, to leave my hometown and stay away from my parents, my parents' affection is slowly fading away! Our parents' love for us is always there. When they hear that you are doing well outside, they are very happy and tell everyone. At the slightest sign of trouble, parents will be too worried to sleep! We are extremely worried about getting a wife! Therefore, the love of parents is selfless and great!
However, now many of us ignore the love of our parents, thinking that parents are always worried and nagging, and they always disagree with their parents, and even think that parents don't love us. At this time, how can we honor our parents? Disciple told us the answer. In any case, we respect our parents and obey their wishes. We should be more tolerant and considerate to take care of our parents. Be patient with them. When parents are healthy, we will naturally be filial to our parents. Can we really be patient and filial when our parents are really sick and need our care?
Parents sometimes make mistakes, and our children should help them correct their bad habits. It is also a kind of filial piety for us to help them. But we must pay attention to methods.
Our parents are old, and we also have our own pressures. Anyway, cherish the present and cherish every moment with them.
This is what it feels like to be a human being. Listening to your parents is like saying, "If you don't listen to your parents, you will suffer." From this, we should also honor our parents, because parents are our teachers, who have taught us a lot of truth and cared for us all our lives. Let's care about them, respect them, study hard, and be admitted to the university in the future to repay our parents' kindness.
Reflections on Disciples' Rules 4 In China, there is such a book, which tells people to respect teachers, respect the old and love the young, be honest with others, and repay kindness ... That is the disciple's rule.
Filial piety, filial piety, benevolence and love are the core concepts of Disciples Rules. It teaches us to be filial to our parents at home, to be considerate of our parents when going out, to respect our brothers when going out, and to be respectful and cautious when speaking. Treat people honestly, speak in a civilized way, respect others, learn from their strengths, correct their own shortcomings, and achieve "correct what you have, and encourage what you don't have". If you still have spare capacity, read other books and reread other knowledge.
"Disciples Rules" says: "If you are sick, try medicine first; "Stay in bed day and night." It makes us treat our parents like this. We should inherit and carry forward. Then treat brothers and sisters, relatives and friends with respect and courtesy, and treat the elderly with more respect, and do "respect the elderly and respect the sages."
"Although things are small, don't be good at this; If you are good at it, you will lose. Although things are small, don't hide them; If you hide it, it will hurt your heart. " I've learned that one thing, no matter how small or insignificant, should be consulted by the elders before the younger generation does it, and should not be advocated without authorization. Otherwise, it is what we said today, do it yourself without asking others' opinions.
After studying Disciples' Rules, I understand many truths, the core of which is "Tao" and "virtue", that is, "virtue". We should all abide by morality.
We should not only recite the rules of discipleship, but also deeply understand them and put them into practice, so that tomorrow will be better.
The school gave us a little book, Disciples Rules. At first I took a look and didn't understand what it meant. On this day, under the guidance of my teacher, I took out Disciples Rules and read it carefully. It turns out that Disciple's Rules is a book on the education of traditional sages in China, which has passed on the fine traditions and excellent ideological and moral concepts of the Chinese nation to us. Let us know what it means to respect the old and love the young, what it means to be filial to parents, what it means to be thrifty, what it means to be tolerant and generous, what it means to be affectionate and friendly, and so on. ...
I didn't know how to honor my parents before, and I often made my parents angry. Once, my mother put the rice on the table and asked me to eat. Fascinated by the wonderful TV series, I didn't agree. My mother asked me to eat again and again, and I impatiently replied, "Go to eat. I'll be back later. What do you want me to do? " Mother said, "The rice is getting cold, come and eat!" " "I'd better wait until the TV series is over and then go to the dinner table. Another time, my mother was working in the kitchen and asked me to help her sweep the floor. I ignored her at all, just playing games on the computer. After a while, my mother shouted, "Did you sweep the floor? "I still haven't heard of it. Mother said angrily, "you child, didn't you hear me call you?" " "
On this day, I read Disciples Rules, and I regretted it. Especially when you see the parents behind you shouting, you should not slow down. Parents, don't be lazy. If parents call us, we should answer it in time, not slowly. Parents have something to explain, so they should leave immediately, without delay. "I feel ashamed to reflect on my behavior. The courage to admit mistakes is a virtue. At this moment, I have realized my own shortcomings.
Disciples' Rules is a mirror. I want to develop my advantages, correct my shortcomings and be a good student with excellent academic performance.
Di Zi Gui 6 Di Zi Gui is a classic that has been circulating for a long time. Highly respected by scholars at home and abroad, it has a wide and profound connotation and is worth learning from.
Disciples' rules, in the form of "sacred amethyst", give us guidance in dealing with people and things. Children are like a blank sheet of paper to a person's life. How to decide in the future is very important. There, Disciples Rules also gave us a good direction. It is beneficial for us to go to the society in the future and establish a correct outlook on life and society. It is of course necessary for us primary school students to know its information and words. However, under the guidance of teachers and parents, the reading level, memory, behavior and moral character have naturally improved greatly.
After reading Disciples Rules, I feel that I have benefited a lot. Disciples taught me what is love, filial piety, trust, tolerance and friendship. Recalling the time when my mother cared about me and taught me; Students help me and encourage my scene; The teacher tutored me and taught me the scene. I was very excited. Yes! How kind they are to me! In the future, no, I will be a grateful person now. For example, help my mother do more housework every day, get good grades in exams and repay teachers. If my classmates are in trouble, I will help them enthusiastically ... In short, I will be kind to others, live in harmony with others and feel much better. At the same time, we should always remind ourselves to be kind to every classmate, respect every teacher, be filial to parents, and be considerate of others when things happen. Let's exchange sincerity for a harmonious learning environment. In this environment, I believe that our achievements will flourish.
After reading Disciple Rules, I learned Disciple Rules this holiday. Disciple's Rules is one of the excellent traditional cultural readings in China, and it is an ideal reading that integrates the teachings of sages such as Confucius and even educates and cultivates people with both ability and political integrity. It teaches us to be filial to our loved ones and be honest and polite to teachers, classmates and friends. Through study, I have been taught how to treat people around me, how to honor my parents and how to treat my classmates.
In terms of "filial piety", although we didn't do anything wrong to our parents, we didn't give them much in return. On the contrary, they are obedient to us and try their best to meet what we want, but we take it for granted. Sometimes they care more, but they nag too much. What a mistake! As children, we should follow the "Disciple's Law": "Parents should not shout slowly; Parents, don't be lazy. Parents teach, you must listen; Parents have the responsibility to obey. "At least in this way, we can live up to our parents who are struggling to support themselves.
In terms of "honesty", I also felt that honesty was not important when I was a child. "Disciples Rules" said: "Whatever you say, faith comes first; Deception and arrogance are ridiculous. " In other words, you must do what you promise others, and you can't talk nonsense or lie. Honesty is an indispensable part of life.
"Honesty" is the third course for students, which means that we should be cautious in our behavior and not let it go. When I was a child, I liked to be picky about food, or not to eat it. Actually, this is not good. "Don't be picky about food" is to teach us to be balanced in nutrition. Don't be picky about food, otherwise it will be bad for the body and the stomach.
"Disciples" are students, and "rules" are norms. Reading Disciples Rules corrected my thoughts, standardized my behavior and morality, and taught me courtesy and respect.
After reading Disciple Rules, I am no longer the wayward person I used to be. Now I have become polite and know how to be filial to my parents.
After reading Disciples' Rules, the teacher recommended us to read a book called Disciples' Rules. This book really made me realize the meaning of "There is a golden house in the book, and there is a Yan Ruyu in the book", which taught me a lot about being a man, cultivated my wisdom and shocked my soul.
"The grace of dripping water will surely bring spring." My parents gave birth to me, raised me and raised us with great pains. When will the flood of kindness be rewarded? Therefore, the order of Disciples' Rules is "Filial Piety". "Filial piety is the first of all virtues". In ancient times, Wang Xiang shaved ice and fish for her sick stepmother on snowy days. Huang Xiang feasts in summer and warms his quilt in winter, just for his father's comfort.
"Parents call and should not go slow; Parents, don't be lazy. Parents teach, you must listen; Parents have the responsibility to be obedient. " Parents should answer the phone immediately, not slowly. If parents have requirements, they should act immediately, without delay or laziness. We should understand parents' teaching with respect; If you blame your parents, you must accept the criticism. Parents love us the most in the world. These are the most basic requirements for filial piety. What did you do? Parents will only pay blindly and never expect us to return anything, but we often don't know what our blessings are, and we will only ask for it blindly, asking for this and that, and making trouble without reason.
Parents work hard to earn money to support their families, but also to provide us with education and take care of our food, clothing, housing and transportation. They are exhausted physically and mentally, but we don't let them worry everywhere. Those euphemistic suggestions will be extremely offensive to our ears. Say one word, but not ten.
Parents regard us as rare treasures, holding them in their hands and holding them in their mouths for fear of melting. Our parents didn't take good care of us when we were sick. We recovered, but our parents were ill. When have we ever done anything without saying hello when our parents are ill?
"Who pities inheriting the wind?" My parents love me and love me. From now on, be a person with a conscience in life. When parents are tired, pat them on the back, rub their shoulders, pass a cup of warm water and send a greeting, ok?
When it comes to cherishing life, we will never forget to emphasize that our parents have given us precious life. However, in our daily life, we always forget to give us life and selflessly raise our parents. They gave us love and care, because of their careful care, we can thrive in an excellent environment.
I don't know how to turn over Disciples Rules in my study these days. When I saw filial piety, I was full of curiosity and doubt. Does "filial piety" mean filial piety to parents after returning home? I looked up the information curiously, and that's exactly what I meant. In Confucius' time, we began to pay attention to filial piety. How can we not do something filial for parents who are more and more loved by their parents?
Life is precious. Who gave us this precious life? All this was given to us by our parents. They not only gave us life, but also nurtured us. Then should we thank our parents? Yes, a voice answered in the affirmative. Then how should we be grateful to our parents? Do it according to the requirements of Disciples' Rules.
"Warm in winter and cool in summer; In the morning, it is provincial, and when it is faint, it will be fixed; Sue when you go out, but face it; Living in a formal place, the industry has not changed. " It means to keep parents warm in winter and cool in summer. Greet parents in the morning and evening. Tell your parents where you are going before you go out to reassure them. There is a certain order in daily life, and the causes are not changed casually. Students, have you done it?
Thanksgiving parents from now on, eat meat for parents, help parents rub their backs and wash their feet. Thanks to those who gave us life. Thank you for bringing us up-parents, shout "parents, I love you"!
Disciples' thoughts after reading 10 "Disciples' Rules, Sage Training; The first filial brother, the second honesty ... "I'm reading the book Disciples Rules aloud to understand the essence.
Disciples Rules is a book about moral etiquette, filial piety and progress. In this book, each paragraph is accompanied by a related story, and each story contains a truth, and these truths are the essence of this book.
What I remember most clearly is "Don't choose your diet, be moderate and don't overdo it."
When eating, don't be picky about food, or you will be malnourished; Enough is enough, don't overeat, eating too much will damage your health. I happen to have a pair of examples around me: I have two friends. One is spoiled and picky about food since childhood. Suppose there is a dish with onions for her to eat, and she can pick them out one by one with chopsticks before eating; The other one is delicious. As long as there is something delicious, she eats it all, so she is chubby. And I happen to be neither picky eaters nor overeating.
After reading this book, I learned a lot about being a man and being filial to my parents: "Love all people, but be kind and spare, and then learn" tells us to be caring, close to moral people and learn more; "Go out and sue, face it; There is a fixed residence and the industry has not changed. " Educate us to inform our parents before going out, and don't let them worry; "If you borrow something, you should return it in time, and if you borrow something, you should not be stingy." It means that you should return what you borrow from others in time, and others should lend it out if they have it, and you should not be stingy. ...
Another outstanding feature of Disciples Rules is its simplicity. This book summarizes the content into three words, which rhymes smoothly and is really exquisite!
I love reading, I love reading Disciples Rules, and I love every truth of it. After reading it, I will naturally use practical actions to worship filial piety and be a filial daughter.
China's tradition of Chinese studies is extensive and profound, and Disciples Rules is an eye-opener for those who haven't read the classics of Chinese studies. Emperor Taizong said that Wei Zhi is a mirror that can understand gains and losses. I think the rules of disciples are the same. It can tell us how to behave and do things. I don't understand any point of view today. When I said this, this picture came to my mind.
In the first grade of primary school, I was still naive, naive and stubborn. I still remember that Sunday, when I was doing my math homework, I met a problem about cuboids. I thought about it for a long time, and finally recalled the fragments of the teacher's lecture and wrote down the answer. Mother saw that I was thinking about a difficult problem, so she stood beside me and watched. After reading it for a while, she said that this question is wrong. Look-I drew a picture in my exercise book and pointed it at me to explain it, but how can I listen? I thought to myself: That's what the teacher said! What's wrong! I said impatiently, that's what the teacher taught me! My mother is stubborn and angry. Never mind what the teacher says, just listen to me! Looking at my mother's stern eyes, I was wronged and left tears. After talking for a long time, I was still in a daze, dripping with water and not listening at all. In the end, my mother had to move some bricks at the door and explain them to me in detail. My mother's patience also infected me. I listened attentively to my mother's explanation, but I didn't understand it once. I listened to it for the second time. Finally, I suddenly understand, know the principle, know the reason for the mistake. I went to school the next day and got full marks in my homework. The teacher also praised me specially. Actually, you shouldn't praise me. When I got home, I apologized to my mother and said I was praised. My mother didn't criticize me. She said to me: you must pay attention to the lecture in class. If you make a mistake this time, you will feel wrong.
Combining this with this sentence in Disciples' Rules, I understand that you can't go your own way in doing things and studying, stick to your own opinions and go against the truth. When someone tells you something, you must concentrate and listen carefully. Disciples' Rules, like Wei Zhi, is a mirror that can explain gains and losses!
Disciple Rules, originally named Xun, was written by scholars in Kangxi period of Qing Dynasty. It specifically lists the etiquette and norms that children should have when they are at home, going out, treating others and studying. This book is the best reading for enlightening, cultivating honesty, educating children to do their best, preventing evil and keeping upright, and maintaining a healthy and loyal family style.
"Whatever you say, trust comes first, and fraud and falsehood are ridiculous." This sentence is what I feel most. It fully shows that honesty and lying are not desirable. This reminds me of a long time ago: in my childhood memory, I was fascinated by computer games. As soon as I touched the mouse, I was completely immersed in the world of computer games and forgot the time and everything around me. The appointment with my mother to end the game was postponed. My mother flew into a rage, so I had to turn off the computer. Now, I have learned Disciples Rules, and I feel ashamed to think about the teachings of my ancestors and reflect on my own behavior. Being a man should pay attention to credit, which is the foundation of a person's life. If a person doesn't even talk about credit, how can he base himself on society and achieve his career? Disciples' Rules made me realize what I had done before. I want to be honest and trustworthy, with more wonderful details, less broken words and deeds, more beautiful scenery and less broken promises in my future study and life. Make unremitting efforts and struggle towards the goal you pursue, so that your life will shine.
In short, learning Disciples Rules has benefited me a lot, and I want to apply what I have learned to my study and life.
After reading Disciple Rules 13, we recently learned Disciple Rules and benefited a lot. He can not only improve personal cultivation, but also improve people's thinking. It is very necessary for everyone's growth. Love yourself, parents, friends, people around you and the world. Only in this way can the society be harmonious and the world become a harmonious world. By studying Disciples Rules, I have five experiences.
First, be grateful. For a person, the kindness that should be repaid most is the kindness of parents. Therefore, in the first chapter of Disciple's Rules, gratitude is reflected in the word "filial piety". "Parents should not slow down their parents' lives and be lazy. Parents should respect their parents' responsibilities and be filial." Thinking about these is the basic requirement for us to be filial parents, but I haven't done enough. I hope I can do well in my future study and life.
Second, be honest and trustworthy. "If you say what you believe, you can cheat and ridicule first." . It means: Speak sincerely first, promise others' things, keep your promises, and don't promise what you can't do casually. As for deception or rhetoric, it can't be used. We should adhere to the belief that "a word spoken by a gentleman cannot be recalled" and be honest.
Third, we should be modest and prudent and care for each other. Because we live under the same sky and on the same land. We should cultivate the excellent qualities of modesty, prudence, mutual care and love.
Fourth, treat people with courtesy. Respect and modesty are inseparable. Without inner modesty, it is difficult to respect others.
Fifth, we must find our own goals in life. Disciples Rules teaches people to be kind and cultivate virtue. The purpose is to make ourselves live a meaningful life. We learned the truth of being a man through Disciples Rules. Life is a process, and the process depends largely on what kind of life goal you choose.
Besides these, many places in Disciples Rules are also worth learning and understanding. As long as we know and experience it, we will certainly appreciate the "treasure" contained in it.
Reflections on Disciple's Rules 14 Disciple's Rules is a book of wisdom that teaches people to be human and do things. It is the crystallization of the wisdom of the ancient people in China, and it is also a must-read educational book. It has been enduring for hundreds of years, showing its charm. I believe this classic book will be loved by countless people, which can not only guide us how to restrain and regulate our behavior, but also bring us the truth of being a man.
The important thing about being called a classic is that no matter how many times you read it, you will get a new understanding and feeling every time. This is the charm of Disciples Rules. The catchy three-character rhyme inherits Confucianism and perfectly interprets the essence of Confucianism such as benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom, faith, forgiveness, loyalty, filial piety and kindness. These are the principles of being a man and doing things. It teaches people how to treat their parents, elders and brothers, how to correct their own behavior, how to be a virtuous person and how to be a caring and kind person. For example, it can be said that this is the embodiment of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. I sincerely admire the author's detailed and comprehensive explanation. Every code of conduct can be described as a theme, among which I have a very strong sense of identity on how to be filial to my parents in the Book of Filial Piety. This reminds me of some current situations in society, completely deviating from the tradition of our ancestors. In the face of parents' criticism, children should listen to their teachings obediently rather than refute them rashly. Modern people live in different environments and have too many ideas, so they can't listen to anything, including their parents. They can talk back to their faces, and even their parents dare not say anything wrong to their faces. When parents do something wrong, they should also pay attention to the patient persuasion of ways and means, and always put filial piety and respect first. No matter what era, parents' hearts for their children will never change. Their greatest expectation is not to make their children rich and get ahead, but to be safe. Only when you are a parent can you understand such a heart, and when you raise a child, you will know the kindness of your parents.
I read Disciple's Rules in order to discover one's own behavior in time, correct one's neglected bad behavior in time, standardize oneself with the requirements in the book, and urge oneself to do better.
After reading Disciple Rules 15 in the evening, with a cool breeze, I opened Disciple Rules and saw that "if you wear clothes, if you eat, you are not as good as people, don't be unhappy." Such a sentence. After reading the following notes carefully, I understand the meaning of this sentence: as for dressing up or eating worse than others, you don't have to worry about it, let alone worrying about inferiority. Suddenly, I thought of an old saying, "A gentleman cares about Tao but not poverty." .
Lying in bed, my thoughts flew with the cool breeze, and I saw Ruan Xian when I was young. Although his family is not rich, his food and clothes are ordinary. However, he is poised in front of rich people and has no sense of inferiority at all. On June 6th, everyone took their clothes to dry in the sun. Ruan Xian is no exception. According to the custom at that time, he also hung up his clothes. When he saw Ruan Xian hanging his old clothes on the road, he came to see them. But Ruan Xian doesn't care. He believes that wealth is not a capital to boast about, and poverty is not a shame. The key to a person's dignity in life lies in his virtue and knowledge.
My thoughts are no longer flying, and now I have returned to life. I saw a little girl at the gate of a kindergarten telling her companions that her father who sent her to school was their driver! Behind the ridiculous and sad is deep thinking: what about our society? What about our children? Pay attention to material luxury and comparison, and bring innocent children here! Imagine, if everyone continues to develop at this moment, what kind of people will our children and grandchildren become in 10 years, 20 years or even 100 years? What will the competition be like? Countless question marks reverberate in my mind and can't be dispersed for a long time. ...
Thanks to this disciple's rules, he reminded us, awakened us, told us the truth of being a man, and told us how to live a meaningful and valuable life. ...