The host asked her: 40, what age is it for you?

Sun Lixiao smiled and said:

Sun Li's answer speaks for many people. Children are our sustenance. They carry the hope of adults and continue our youth.

At the same time, their growth also measures the achievements and efforts of adults.

With the growth of age, nothing is more gratifying than having an excellent child.

Ordinary people are like this, and so is Sun Li's mother Deng.

Speaking of the family background in Sun Li, it is not complete.

Because Sun Li's parents divorced when she was 12 years old.

And Sun Li, is the direct fuse of their divorce.

As a child, Sun Li was quite talented in dancing, and she loved dancing herself.

Standing in the center of the stage, as if fearless, gave Sun Li, who was quiet and slow, unparalleled confidence.

Mother's hobbies and interests are naturally carefully cultivated.

She dotes on her well-behaved and beautiful daughter, and feels that it is worthwhile to pay much effort for her.

Besides, take her to art class and play the piano to fully develop her potential.

Even if Sun Li's family is not particularly rich, his mother works as a shop assistant in a shopping mall and his father repairs watches.

Most of their savings can be said to have been spent on their daughters.

It is said that a daughter should be well fed and clothed, but the burden of life is a bit overwhelming for her father.

He doesn't think it is necessary to spend so much money on children, or even affect the quality of personal life.

So Sun Li's father and mother quarreled constantly.

However, when a mother sees her daughter getting better and better, what is the hardship in life?

One day, Sun Li's dance team will compete abroad. As a member, Sun Li has a rare natural opportunity.

Mother was overjoyed when she learned that, but father frowned.

Going abroad costs a lot of money, and my monthly salary is only a little. Plus my family doesn't have much savings. How can I afford it?

The mother believes that borrowing money also requires her daughter to compete abroad.

So, the husband and wife had another big fight.

Father directly released malicious words. If they insist on going abroad, let's divorce when they come back.

Mother made up her mind that nothing is more important than her daughter, so she went abroad to compete with Sun Li.

After the mother and daughter returned to China, who knew that their father had really left, leaving only a thin living expenses.

Then they really divorced.

The breakdown of his parents' marriage left a great wound in Sun Li's heart.

So, she practiced harder and wanted to be worthy of her mother's efforts.

And my mother, for the sake of Sun Li, found another job as a cleaner at night.

However, because Sun Li's forehead is slightly larger and her figure ratio does not conform to the school regulations, she failed to apply for dance colleges twice.

Sun Li felt that he was born to dance, and he couldn't lose it.

And my mother is more anxious.

Later, when instructed, they decided to apply for the Shanghai Police Art Troupe and let Sun Li become a soldier.

That is Sun Li's experience as a soldier for several years, which makes her better, more hardworking, more tenacious and more self-disciplined.

After leaving the army, Sun Li wanted to break a path on the road of dancing, but she mistakenly became an actor.

And with their own efforts, they have made great achievements in the entertainment circle. Many of her works are unforgettable, and Empresses in the Palace's role as the queen brought her to the peak of her career.

Her daughter is so successful under the cultivation of her mother, which makes her very proud.

When people talk about her daughter, she always has endless topics, even a little thing when she was a child can be deeply remembered and vividly remembered.

However, although his career is booming, Sun Li has always held a grudge against his father, and even had a fear of marriage. He is an unmarried man.

So, while adjusting herself, my mother advised Sun Li:

It was her father who brought her into this world. If there is no father, there would be no her, and we should repay and thank him for this.

Moreover, Sun Li's father also paid a lot of sincerity to get her forgiveness.

My father's remarried wife, who is also a stepmother, secretly sent me a sum of money during her stay in Sun Li, which made Sun Li feel that she should not cling to her previous mistakes.

Life is not easy, everyone has their own hardships, and she only hopes that everyone around her can live a better life.

So she accepted her father and stepmother and her half-sister.

There are also treatments for stepmother, buying a house, and taking my sister into the entertainment circle.

And her biological mother became close friends with her stepmother.

Speaking of it, Sun Li's career achievements are inseparable from her mother's dribs and drabs and unremitting cultivation.

Sun Li's kindness is related to his mother's education, and Deng's love and tolerance have created Sun's complete personality.

More importantly, however, Sun Li's mother understands that no matter how good her career is, she can't compare with having a happy life.

And Sun Li, under the influence of her mother, is exactly the same.

Today, Sun Li is 40 years old and has a happy family of four.

Speaking of children, she is also full of sweetness.

At that time, regardless of the opposition of the people around her, she gave birth to her son at the peak of her career and gave birth to her daughter Xiaohua three years later.

In the actress circle, this is a bold move.

However, Sun Li thinks that when and what to do, having a lovely child is what she wants to do most at the moment.

She even prepared for the worst, even if she can't be an actress, it's acceptable.

Therefore, after filming "Empresses in the Palace" at that time, she had a baby with peace of mind.

Facts have proved that Sun Li's choice is correct.

And so on, the birth of Huahua enriched her heart.

It is said that children are a mirror of their parents. Sun Li looks at the growing children, and she is constantly learning and growing.

She never treats children as children, gives them full equality and respect, and always gives them reason, gentleness and firmness.

In order to set a good example for the children, she never looks at her mobile phone at the dinner table.

Children also read books or practice writing with a brush when surfing the Internet.

At the same time, children will also give their grandchildren a lot of nutrients.

They will learn English together, and sometimes Sun Li will ask the children how to pronounce a word, not afraid of losing authority.

On the contrary, she thinks it is necessary to show children a three-dimensional self.

I will have weaknesses and emotions.

For example, when she is in a bad mood, she will calm down and stay alone for a while.

If it takes a while to invite her to play with him, he will tell the children that their mother is in a bad mood and needs to be alone for a while.

And children will also accept Sun Li's emotional changes frankly, so as not to disturb them, and then play with them when she is at her best again.

In this environment, and so on. Xiaohua is full of security, and of course she will be jealous of who can get more maternal love.

Under the cultivation of Sun Li, his painting talent has been greatly improved. And flowers are also well excavated.

Sometimes, the paintings drawn by two people make Sun Li full of surprises.

On one occasion, she set the picture of her daughter Xiaohua as the head of WeChat.

But when I saw it, I was still quite dissatisfied, because my mother made my sister's painting into an avatar instead of taking his painting.

So, and so on drew a picture silently, and took it to Sun Li's eyes.

Overbearing presidents generally say, "changed."

Sun Li felt puzzled, so he pointed to Sun Li's WeChat avatar.

Sun Li suddenly realized that in order to calm the jealousy of waiting, he changed the waiting to painting.

Who knows, later Huahua began to be dissatisfied and questioned why Sun Li had to change it.

No way, in order to be fair, Sun Li had to set her sister's painting as the background of her circle of friends, and changed the position of their paintings from time to time.

Another time, wait and Huahua quarreled over a trivial matter.

The reason is that my sister saw a musical and thought that an actress in it was more beautiful than her mother.

Wait, I don't think there can be anyone more beautiful than mom.

So they can't argue.

Wait a minute, this little warm man made a small card to express his love to his mother for fear that his mother would be sad.

These little things show the children's full dependence and love for Sun Li.

At the same time, between the lines of Sun Li, we can see that a mother is moved and grateful for her children's trust.

Therefore, this can explain what Sun Li said at the beginning of the article, that the growth and energy of children make her fearless of changes in age and years.

Of course, it's not only her children that make Sun Li fearless, but also her husband Deng Chao's mutual support and persistence.

Husband and wife are like a concentric circle, without any half.

And she and Deng Chao seem to have many differences, such as:

Jiangxi people in Deng Chao like spicy food, while Shanghainese people in Sun Li have a light diet. Deng Chao likes to stay up late, while Sun Li goes to bed early and gets up early, with a regular life; Deng Chao likes the hustle and bustle of Beijing, while Sun Li likes the slow pace of Shanghai. Deng Chao has social "cow force" disease, and Sun Li has social "fear" disease; Deng Chao is emotional and impulsive, while Sun Li is rational and calm.

However, they have one thing in common, that is, they are all interested in life and have absolute enthusiasm for life.

Actors are separated, especially star couples, who will be separated for a long time because of the scheduling problem.

However, this problem seems to be in Sun Li and Deng Chao, and it doesn't seem to be worth mentioning.

Because, when they are at home, they will devote themselves to family life, and maybe they can use it on them.

They will not only say nothing about their work, but also give full play to their role.

Sun Li is like a secretary. Deng Chao and the children will come to her for anything big or small.

Deng Chao, on the other hand, plays with children like a child.

He always makes the children laugh. It seems to Sun Li that Deng Chao has a magic power, which deeply attracts her and the children.

At home, Deng Chao is the idol of the whole family.

Yu Baimei once said that before Sun Li, it looked like an ice cream.

But after meeting Deng Chao, it turned into water, and after having a baby, it turned into boiled water.

Sun Li, who is slow and quiet, is more actively infected by Deng Chao, and her gentleness is more powerful.

So far, they have been married for 12 years, but they still maintain their enthusiasm for marriage and life, and they have a sense of ceremony and romance, which is envied by many people.

If you want to ask Sun Li what is the secret of happiness, she may tell you:

This sentence seems very pale, but it is actually very powerful.

Never lose yourself, whether you are a mother, a daughter or a wife, give yourself a break.

You are yourself first, then other roles.

Although Sun Li will spend a lot of time at home, she still keeps her professional tentacles.

The Legend of Mi Yue was shot four months after Xiaohua was born, when she was a young girl of a monk.

What she wants is to realize her own value.

At this time, for her, affection is like a pedestal, a mountain standing behind her.

Besides, Sun Li also likes keeping in good health.

It is said that everyone who likes keeping in good health is weak.

As an actor, sometimes work and rest are involuntary. Sun Li is no exception.

It's just that she chose Chinese medicine for maintenance, instead of having a lot of needles on her face like many female stars.

She doesn't think her face is as shiny as her body.

At the same time, she will regularly recharge her batteries, such as yoga, calligraphy, painting, fitness, boxing, publishing books and so on.

She studies both inside and outside, cultivates self-cultivation and is strict with herself.

So, when you met 40-year-old Sun Li, your face was a little loose. Don't worry, because she is aging gracefully and truly.

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Perhaps, every woman is afraid of getting old.

However, the course of life will give each age group unique value.

We are parents' pistachios, and we have the first taste of love.

We fight for our cause, and we have our own family;

We care for the young life, and we love the other half;

Our fruits blossom and bear fruit, and we still have not lost ourselves;

Although our faces are gaunt, we are still young!