Talk about Sun Nan's empathy. Do you have the courage to divorce?
Beijing News: There were many media reports about your marriage in 2009. Why don't you come out and talk?
Pan Wei: After we got married, his parents, my parents, his brothers and sisters, my brothers and sisters, his friends and my friends all gave sincere wishes. All this is enough. Don't hurt anyone in your life. Based on this principle, we remain silent.
Beijing News: What about his attitude?
Pan Wei: He will be more sympathetic to me: "Because I am a public figure, marrying you has brought you so much harm and changed so many lives. I can only sympathize with you more. I can't tell you what my wife is like, but what I can do is to care more about you and let you get strength from me. "
Beijing News: I didn't expect the news to be overwhelming?
Pan Wei: We went to our hometown to attend the wedding. Our hometown is relatively remote. We thought we were keeping a low profile, but there is no windtight wall in the world. What is particularly funny is that the waiter said, "The groom is quite like Sun Nan." Until the end of the banquet, they didn't think it was really Sun Nan. Father told relatives and friends that "Weiwei is getting married", and they didn't know who to marry, so they came. Halfway through the meal, everyone was very excited to find that it was Sun Nan.
Beijing News: What attracts you most about Sun Nan?
Pan Wei: Simplicity and sunshine can bring people happiness. As a singer who lives on his own image, doesn't he know what divorce means to him? Doesn't he know that this will affect his career? Doesn't he know how much his public image will be hurt? He knew, but he married me anyway, which made me respect him very much. Not everyone has the courage to make this decision. Many people are unhappy in marriage, but they are still trying to maintain it. It is said that it is for children, but it is actually just a banner. It is more for reputation, social status, public image and property. Many people accuse Sun Nan of heartbreaking. Do you have the courage if you stand in other people's shoes?