I don't know how to express my love

Every time Aries people ask me, "How can I express my love?" ? "I'll ask first," How long have you been trying to chase him? If the answer is more than two weeks, I will say, "I'm afraid he already knows!" " If he really doesn't know, there are only three possibilities: First, he is really a Woodenhead. The second is that he doesn't like you at all, so he "pretends" not to know. The third is that he is waiting for you to pursue further!

I have an Aries male classmate who looks average and lacks interest in class at ordinary times. In order to pursue the beauty of the social sector at that time, he specially adopted the methodology of an unpopular family. As long as she is not absent from class, he will ask questions fiercely and raise his hand to express his opinion at any time. Sure enough, the professor not only looked at him with special respect, but also won the favor of beautiful women. When they pair up, those students who can't understand that he is cold in class (when she is away) and hot (when she is present) suddenly realize.

In modern concepts, moderate self-expression is worth encouraging. But Aries, you should be careful not to show too much, which will give people a bad impression of "smelly fart" and "love present". Once the other person has such a misunderstanding about you, it will inevitably take some effort to explain it in the future pursuit.

So, when he has noticed you, your first stage goal has been achieved, and then please take some straightforward expressions. This is your nature!

At the time of first love

If you have experienced your first love, in retrospect, is it a bit reckless? Is it a little rough? Is it a little less considerate?

If you are still looking forward to your first love, or you are starting your first love in life, please remember: the first love is different from the beloved shellfish. You can cherish him with the feeling of loving toys, but don't blindly want to possess him quickly and let him lose his living space.

In particular, many enthusiastic Aries first lovers will take the initiative to arrange a beautiful love schedule for their lovers. Go to the movies on Monday night, have a buffet at noon on Tuesday, and go for a walk by the sea on Wednesday ... The result is overwhelming. After all, in modern life, apart from falling in love, everyone still has a lot of healthy and constructive things to do without interfering with love loyalty, right?

First love is the most beautiful. As an Aries, you may wish to refer to the lovers in romantic movies or popular romance movies and learn two more delicate skills. Your positive personality and a little cleverness will definitely make your first love more perfect.

When you fall in love

It is actually very happy to have the opportunity to fall in love with an Aries like you. Because you never hesitate to express your enthusiasm. You will spoil him, love him, take care of him, you will give generously, and you want him to live better than anyone else.

If there is something missing in your love, it is definitely not dry wood or fire, but the tongs by the fire may be too ordinary. Maybe you will protest: what does it matter if a beautiful poker won't make the fire stronger?

In my opinion, this is very important. It is a kind of "feeling". When you are in love, it is likely that your enthusiasm will slowly cool down because you don't pay attention to each other's "feelings".

You may think that buying an expensive gift in an expensive boutique will definitely make him "feel" your extraordinary affection. However, when the other person is used to your high-grade gift, if someone is willing to bring back a cherry blossom from Japan for him, he will say with emotion, "I saw the cherry blossom smoking in those days and it withered in a few days." How I wish you were by my side, sharing this thrilling beauty ... "He may have a stronger" feeling ".

Don't forget, love is a beautiful "feeling". You don't have to force yourself to be sentimental, because that's not your nature. But you must always carefully understand each other's feelings. Although it is difficult for you, since you love him deeply, isn't it worthwhile to make more efforts to make him happier?

Take love in a horizontal knife, okay

Aries, if you want to win love, you will inevitably have some struggles. Because you have always emphasized the loyalty of love, it is against your own principles to cause others' infidelity by yourself. More paradoxically, you should accept a person with a record of betrayal as your lover.

Therefore, there is only one way to balance yourself. That is, you must let yourself, the other party and the whole world know that their combination is a mistake! And you just helped the world solve one problem and create another pair. He made a wise choice.

This situation also has a theoretical basis. Didn't the founding fathers say? "To have extraordinary construction, we must first have extraordinary destruction. Indeed, in the process of love, excellent people will inevitably attract more suitors. When you face different objects, how can you yield to inferior choices without some competition?

Work hard! However, be sure to keep your manners. No matter how wrong and stupid his original choice was, he didn't want to be scolded to his face.

If you criticize your opponent without reservation, it not only shows that you are not generous enough, but also makes him feel that you don't respect him at all. Moreover, if the situation of weak rival in love is caused, it may be enough to win his sympathy!

I believe: in this love war, your greatest charm is self-confidence! Make good use of your advantages.

When he doubts your loyalty

Aries is often ridiculed for not being good at lying, especially when covering up some small scandals in front of lovers, which is always full of loopholes. I think this is really excusable. Because cheating in Aries doesn't happen very often, it's no wonder that such a lie is too unfamiliar to justify itself.

With this trait, if you meet a suspicious lover, you can really add a little excitement to a dynamic relationship.

When the other person listens to some gossip and seems to come over to verify it intentionally or unintentionally, you may think in your heart, "Now you know my charm is endless!" " "Maybe you will deliberately noncommittally, let each other am utterly confused.

But if the other person pesters you, the news is nonsense, which may make you lose patience and let the other person know that enough is enough.

Worst of all, the unexpected episode in your life was exposed. He not only questioned it in person, but also had conclusive evidence. At this time, the typical reaction of Aries is to become angry from embarrassment. Therefore, I have to advise you to practice your anger and anger more, otherwise your performance will be obvious-it's true.

Faced with these suspicious questions, Aries's best and most sincere countermeasure is "refusing to admit it". Remember, don't explain too much as long as you don't admit it. If you think you can get away with it by making up a lie, you are definitely asking for it, all wet.

When love meets a bottleneck

What kind of feeling is it after passion? Sometimes when love reaches a stage, it will inevitably fall into a bottleneck. Everything has lost its freshness, and you can't tell whether it's love or habit. Others think you are excellent, and only you know that it is difficult to go further, but you are unwilling to take a step back.

For Aries, the founding spirit of "winning the world in one fell swoop" is a unique capital. In the country of love, it is awesome to expand the territory. However, just as "ruling the world at once" is difficult to maintain long-term stability, in the long-term love construction, you will inevitably lack endless tenderness and care. For example, if you plant a valuable orchid, but ignore the importance of daily irrigation, it is no wonder that there will be the trouble of "no buds after the flowers are spent".

Like your love bottleneck at the moment, it is basically a "result". You are busy with other challenging things and ignore the real "reason" of irrigation.

Aries is active, independent and brave in challenging difficulties. When you feel that love comes to an end and both hearts belong to each other, your attention may shift to other aspects. You may be busy preparing for TOEFL at the moment, or trying to be a manager in your next promotion, so you ignore each other and forget that they are lovers rather than family. Family relationships are born, and lovers' relationships are maintained by hard work.

Take breaking the bottleneck as a challenge! When you try to pursue it again, you will find that there are many advantages of the other party that you have not found.

When the old lover turns back,

If you often read romance novels, you will find that the structure of each story is the same: meeting → falling in love → breaking up → reunion. It seems that love all over the world has to go through this process to be moving.

However, in real life, when the story goes to the third step, you and I usually come to an end. No wonder we have to rely on romance novels to meet our expectations.

Now, something unexpected has happened. Not only did you meet again, but he also showed you the heart of the second round. Want to start over? But the hurt of breaking up at that time was too great, and that kind of pain was really hard to remove from my heart. Want to refuse? But there is a little regret in my heart.

According to my observation, most Aries are reluctant in their hearts for the second time or so, so both sides should make greater efforts to re-establish a harmonious relationship. However, more Aries have adopted an attitude of flatly rejecting the return of their old lovers. At this time, Aries is not really so rude, but wants to take this opportunity to pull back a city.

There is not much difference between who loses and who wins in love, but winning or losing is of great significance in Aries' life. I think, instead of persuading Aries to try to break this view, I hope you cherish your favorite and don't wait for him to break up and come back!

Doubt about love

This time, you really met your opponent. He aroused your enthusiastic fighting spirit and determination to win, and he made your life appear purposeful and energetic.

For you, being active, easy to get and obedient doesn't seem to be your pleasure. I only do a few difficult problems occasionally to show my cleverness.

Of course, the question "Do you love me or not" has such positive significance only before you decide to love. If you have been a lover for a while, you can ask, "Does he love me or not?" Then I must express my great concern.

This pessimistic attitude is not because he really doesn't love you, but this ambiguous attitude will really seriously affect the relationship between you two.

Basically, you want the other person to pay attention to you and support your suggestions and plans. Whether in public or in private, it is usually because he violated this principle that you will have the question "Do you love me or not?".

So I think it is more practical to ask "Is he suitable for me" than "Does he love me?". When it is difficult for the other party to put you first and can't cooperate with your arrangement as much as possible, then conflicts between you are likely to occur frequently. If so, even if he loves you very much, what's the point?

Aries is not suitable for you to love. Since we want to find the answer, it is more natural to do it quickly.

Facing the choice of love and bread

Aries is a sign that appreciates each other's abilities. Although Aries is rarely romantic enough to be desperate just because of the feeling of love. However, it is unrealistic to want to marry a rich husband or take "less struggle for ten years" as the highest guiding principle.

If you are an Aries girl, you should feel the hero worship complex in your heart. It's hard for a poor boy who relies on family wealth to win your heart. What you really expect is a talented, idealistic and capable man.

In your Libra. Talent is more weighty than wealth, and future potential is more attractive than present strength. No wonder Pearl Krabs, the king of heaven, and herself resolutely married Liu Jiachang, who is called a genius.

Many Aries women seem to have good luck. I have a friend's colleague. When she got married, her husband was only the representative of an international enterprise in Hong Kong. Unexpectedly, in just ten years, her foreign husband has become the international president of the organization, and she has also become the most envied lady. She has lived in Switzerland for many years. Whenever new fashions come on the market, she flies to the VIP room of famous designers in Paris, where models show her the latest fashions alone. ...

Aries women have a strong working ability, and they are born with a unique vision when choosing a partner. What is more rare is that they can always support their husbands' career. This is probably the biggest reason why they are regarded as helping their husbands.

So, don't ask for bread for love. Wouldn't it be romantic if we decided to eat steak every day from tomorrow and eat roadside stalls today?