It means: it is better to speak for yourself, ask others to do things and work hard for yourself than to ask others to do things for yourself.
? What this article emphasizes is a kind of self-reliance and self-improvement in everything, which has positive significance. It is better to ask for yourself than others, which is a positive attitude towards life and can give full play to people's subjective initiative. If you ask for help, you will be subject to others. Even if you are not subject to others, you should always think about returning the favor.
? Of course, everything in Dont Ask For Help is unrealistic. People are people in social relations, and it is normal to ask for help when encountering difficulties! The premise of asking for help is to be on the table, not the mud that can't help the wall! Therefore, it is better to ask for help than to ask for help! When you meet a noble person, let the noble person have reason and possibility to help you!