To tell you the truth, I hate the word "older". What is aging? As long as you want to get married and listen to your heart, that is the right age. Secular is what we mean, just a suggestion. What we mean to ourselves is ourselves. Here, please refer to this sentence in detail: I really like the way you can't get used to me, but you can't get rid of me. Give it to those who are afraid of chaos and care. )
Okay, I'm going to be inspirational. Ahem, look at the blackboard and underline the key points: we are going to marry the right person. If it's right, why not come later?
Sister Fang is an accountant in Mr. Wang's company. Now she should be said to be a former accountant, because she married across the ocean. During her six years working for the company, our family recognized and thanked her for her concern and care, and we were sincerely happy for her happiness today.
Nowadays, in the circle of friends, Fang Jie is often seen sunbathing, but how did Fang Jie hate getting married three years ago?
To tell the truth, Sister Fang seems to be a girl of medium level. Not beautiful, but not ugly. In her own words: "The beautiful married, the ugly married and left me. I don't know why I can't get married." Listening to her say this, I will feel distressed, I can talk, and the fate is less than. And stepped up efforts to introduce the target to Fang Jie. But that's what happened. Either you despise me, or I despise you, or the two sides don't call each other. In this way, Fang Jie will be 30 years old.
Thirty is the year when Fang Jie hates getting married. We all clearly felt her panic. In the past, she would laugh at herself, but this year, she obviously gave up on herself. As long as she is a decent person, she will get married. She said, "If you are tired, just be a person who can live."
Whenever I hear her say this, I will be filled with indignation, which is completely scared by the brainwashing of my aunt. They hold the blind guidance that seems to care, in fact, it is: anyway, everyone has lived like this, which is not bad, even being squeezed and deformed in marriage, and it is the most appropriate to turn another little girl into them. In their opinion, it is the most satisfying, and everyone is the same. That's good, right? They think that love is a P, that is, life, where there is so much pressure. Yes, they don't pay much attention to it, so it's hard. That's the real reason.
They tried to assimilate Fang Jie, and Fang Jie fell into the trap. That year, as long as three aunts and six grandmothers introduced them, they always went to see them, regardless of their ten years old, divorced with children, divorced without children, and even their father's age. Rao is so, he is also picking, picking his looks, picking his job, picking his family background and picking something else. In short, the lower his self-standards, the easier he is to be bullied.
I get hurt every time I'm frustrated. I always say, "why, the standards have been lowered again and again, and I have to be more picky." I want to say, "We must intensify our efforts. You should lower your self-expression, and men should think more about themselves. You must put yourself higher. " After all, it's still the same. To tell the truth, I'm tired, too. If I can go instead of her, I will definitely scold those men who feel good about themselves. I'm a little grumpy.
At this time, talk about the poor inheriting the wind. It's really a success and a failure. Parents want their daughters to be happy and compare them with young people brought home by their wives and friends. Who will marry Gao Fushuai today and who will marry a civil servant tomorrow are all these things. When I finish, I will look at Fang Jie and sigh. As soon as the Spring Festival is over, Fang Jie will be miserable. Don't say to face relatives and friends with ulterior motives, even parents will blush, and everyone will be happy during the Spring Festival. It will be a disastrous day when they arrive here. I often read Fang Jie's remarks: a sad Spring Festival, a sad year. Want to comfort, I don't know how to say it.
Ma Fang was really anxious when she saw that Fang Jie was thirty years old. Ma Fang said that 30 years old means a woman's water age. From then on, she was not a sister with 20 heads, but an old girl with 30 heads. Judging from this situation, it can be said that he is one year older than 29. Ma Fang gritted his teeth, took out his savings for many years, mortgaged an 80-square-meter house for Fang Jie, and sent word that he would marry a woman and then accompany the car. Well, after hearing the letter, three aunts and six grandmothers ran around with blood. Then I found one.
This man, my first impression, is obscene. I think whether a man is handsome or not and whether he is tall or not are secondary. You will come out with your personal temperament label, generous and steady, and the most admirable. And this, it is to look down at people, look at you, then look down and take another look when people are not paying attention.
You will think he is honest, won't you? Yes, old people think so. Sister Fang told me a detail, but she looked at Sadr. "Sadie" is our local word, which means to see people thoroughly. What is this thoroughness? Which means he looks at women. He knows what kind of cups people wear. Come on, tell me what magic it is. I am a woman. I don't even have this vision. I'm trained. Just take a look.
Listening to this detail, coupled with his obscene aim, impressed him and gave him a big discount.
However, Fang Jie thinks this man is quite old. At that time, he was thirty-two years old and Dafangjie was two years old. He is still an unmarried man, and he can work. He is a construction worker. People also look honest. Really tired of picking, just him, he is the most suitable person to marry at present
Now that everyone is of marriageable and decent age, let's start the wedding agenda.
The man started to buy a house, 80 square meters, and paid the down payment, hoping that Fang Jie would repay the loan together after marriage. I hope the house in Fang Jie will be decorated, at least half of it, but the house doesn't have Fang Jie's name. As for the bride price, it is one in a million. At that time, all our local concerns were one in a hundred thousand. Then, I hope Fang Jie's house will be his dowry, and then I will get a car with a price of 200,000 yuan. People say that cars are of low grade, and they are afraid of jokes from relatives and friends.
What does this mean? His family chose a daughter-in-law for nothing, and he also spent a lot of money to marry him. The man's business has nothing to do with the woman. A listen to is his richest husband, picked a cabbage wife. The implication is that it is good that the man didn't choose your age. I'm so angry that my temper is about to explode.
Sister Fang is angry, too, and can only be coordinated by two matchmakers. Finally, it was agreed that Fang Jie would jointly repay the loan, and the name would be added after giving birth to a child after marriage. Decoration costs nothing, bride price remains the same, and dowry remains the same. In this way, Sister Fang will have to give birth to a fat son at home as a reward after marriage, and you can repay the loan together, so you can add your name. Anyway, the man's family doesn't lose money, and there is a high dowry.
I want to stamp my feet. I can't marry such a family.
Sister Fang put up with it and married!
All right, decorate and prepare for the wedding. I can't be anxious for a while.
Funny, what is that man doing? Play with girls. How did you find out? I have to say that Sister Fang is a careful person. I didn't find hair on the pillow, but in the gap between the bed and the wall, I saw long hair, or curly hair, that didn't belong to me. Ok, show a girl with short hair long curly hair.
The man didn't admit it at first, saying that his aunt came to see the house fall. Your aunt came to see the house and sleep in the bed? Do men in their fifties have long chestnut curly hair? I have to say that this honest bear man can only wipe his ass one step, but you pick out your hair and throw it away. If you are lazy, you can't see it in the corner.
Finally confessed. Online dating, just this once. Love rat's old trick: swear, God knows, never do it again. Sister Fang feels soft-hearted. She is thirty years old and has reached marriageable age. Her relatives and friends are waiting for the wedding reception, which is embarrassing.
Okay, you forgive me, right? Do it again. This is QQ chat, still chatting, this time Fang Jie didn't forgive me and broke up resolutely. This in itself is an unequal humiliation. This is not a marriage at all, just like marrying a man. Still disloyal and dishonest. Forget it, that is, I will never marry and will never tolerate it. Give Sister Fang a compliment.
We can consider the same age, but people who are disloyal will never tolerate it. This is the bottom line.
In the next two years, Fang Jie seems to have made up her mind. If there is a suitable blind date, go and have a look. If not, you have a house anyway. What are you afraid of? Ma Fang still looked at Fang Jie uneasily. On the other hand, Fang Jie seems at home.
As for me, I have a straight temper. Strengthen the transformation of the other side. She is a little fat, so she needs to lose weight. Because I love snacks and cupcakes, if I watch her eat, I will stimulate her. Hanging a picture of a beautiful woman with a thin waist in the office and forcing her to look at it every day still has some effect. Now that I think about it, did she hate me at that time? But I don't care, anything as long as she gets better.
Slowly, Fang Jie lost some weight, and immediately looked at her face with a smaller circle, which was very delicate. My eyes seem a little big, too. My skin is also very delicate. I take a thermos, make soup at home, take it to the office for beauty and health, and we drink it together. Want to know what kind of soup we are drinking, you can write it in the next article, and remember to have a look. Also, the waist is thin and the legs are thin, which makes people feel refreshed at once.
I asked Sister Fang to keep her hair long. In the past, short hair was not unlovable, but too cute. One of the signs of beauty is long hair. Whether it looks good or not, hang up your long hair first. This is the secret. Many boys like girls to have long hair. There are data on the internet. Also, the most is the shyness of bowing your head. Without long hair sliding slowly along the face, where is it worthy of such shyness?
Slowly, Sister Fang became more feminine.
Now, increase the internal tone. Let her read it, just as Mr. Wang reads Buddhist scriptures, let her read it together. Slowly, I think Fang Jie is also misty. Such a woman has really changed a lot. Eyebrows look the same as before, but they add some charm. Therefore, when girls see this, they will knock on the blackboard. It must be outside the United States and Canada! Outside and inside the United States! You must be different.
Also, inspirational routines tell you that people should be kind, right? Yes, it's standard. You can despise it, but this is the background color. When others approach you, they will feel it invisibly. Mysterious? Not mysterious.
Sister Fang's lover is coming soon. Because of kindness, but not just kindness.
Sister Fang will volunteer at the weekend. I took her there. Later, she joined other volunteer groups herself. There, I met He Hui. He Hui is a girl. We are congenial and play together. Volunteer together and help at He's barbecue shop. I suggest that girls, especially unmarried girls, expand their circle of friends and have their own hobbies, and learn music, dance, flower arrangement and tea ceremony. To be a volunteer, volunteers are most recommended. Giving is the reward, giving is the love, and giving is the reward of love. Is it mysterious that you love everyone and everyone loves you? Not mysterious.
Most people who can volunteer are kind people. Besides, they are sisters who have a good time. Then, she even has a cousin who is unmarried. Then, she was quite old, and even brought the old man back to visit relatives.
Then, create opportunities to meet.
During that time, Sister Fang fell in love. The shy little woman looks like everyday, with a soft voice, charming figure and sparkling eyes. Every day is a floating state. I said, "hey, little woman, don't make a mistake, but you have to deduct your salary." She said, evil capitalist, I want to resign, haha.
But judging from this situation, if not, people will resign. I have to see who is sacred, but my sister is not. Come on, make an appointment to see it.
The location is He Hui's barbecue shop. At first glance, what a refined young man, the first impression, plus points (people are better than me, this married woman is a bitch). Then, a moderately fat figure with ordinary but elegant facial features makes people feel comfortable. Just him, or a warm man, barbecue us and divide the plates; Pour water and drinks for Sister Fang. Don't be too careful and considerate. I am a beautiful woman (I am narcissistic, so what should I do), just say hello politely, and my eyes are all on Sister Fang (remember the wretched man who peeked at me in front, a few levels away! )
Then, see your parents for a week. The man's parents happened to be together, and the parents of both sides sat together to negotiate. Get married in two months. Is this a flash marriage? What's flashing? Yes, that's it!
The bride price is one in a million. The man has a villa abroad and lives with his parents. This is a name, but it can't be. However, this man bought Fang Jie another apartment. If they want to be alone, they can live alone. Marry, people don't want it, and they don't like this thing. Ma Fang insisted on looking at the house and the car. Well, she was given another 600 thousand bride price and didn't want her to bring it back. Finally, um, can I take the car out of the country? Fang's father opened it in China. What about the house? This is Fang Jie's premarital property. This person is not interested. In this way, Ma Fang was very happy, and she got a bride price of 700,000 yuan.
I cried like a dog at Sister Fang's wedding. I am excited, like marrying my own sister and having a sister whose life is so tortuous. Watching them exchange rings on the stage, watching the man say that he loves you all his life, and watching Fang Jie cry, I couldn't help myself under the stage. My husband patted me on the back and said, "Stop crying and be happy." Fangfang is married, and we are relieved. "Everyone is looking at me. I don't care. Today, I cried with joy. If you refuse, you will cry. I can't bear it. Sister Fang is going to marry abroad, and it's really hard to see each other several times a day.
Today, three years ago, I had to joke with Fang Jie: "Sister, you hated to marry, so I won't let you marry. Did you hate me then? " Are you bothering me? Does it bother me to make you lose weight and stimulate you? Are you bothering me to let you read Buddhist scriptures?
Sister Fang said, "No, I love you. You are my noble person. " Well, I blushed. Really bless you, everyone has a fate in these six years, and thank you for your contribution to the company.
Did Sister Fang save the moon in her last life? It's really possible. Every time I watch her basking in the beautiful scenery, the baby and the happiness on her face, I will be sincerely happy, as if I were watching a beautiful work of my own. I'm really happy, so happy. Therefore, girls, every article I write, you look carefully, those positive energy is the road to life, there is fate. Let's fix it together. I want to give you all my methods, wishes and blessings to make things better. As long as you are willing to accept it.
I know, you will be next. Have to meet a lover. As the saying goes, you should work hard, but don't worry. People who should come will always come. Even if it is slow, but the right person, what's wrong with being slow. Love you. Beautiful girl.