Last year, there was a very popular Korean drama "Postpartum Sanatorium", which looked very professional and comfortable, and helped my mother get rid of the messy and contradictory center of the month, which also caused a lot of discussion.

Everyone is curious, can these monthly centers, which are not low in asking price and cost tens of thousands of yuan, really solve the most "fragile" mothers at the moment of giving birth to their babies?

We are very concerned about this matter. Recently, we interviewed some mothers who really experienced the Moon Center. Let's talk about it today

Why do you want to live in Confucius Center?

The first impression of Confucius Center is that it is very expensive.

What can I do at home? Why should I spend a lot of money to live in the Yuezi Center?

Xiaodong, the expectant mother who just paid the money at the Yuezi Center, said this:

@ Xiaodong 3 1+ Mother-to-be-Confucius Center is a reassurance for me.

In June of pregnancy, I changed from a family confinement group to a confinement center enthusiast, because it can solve a series of pregnancy anxiety of my husband and me (yes, men are also anxious).

First of all, who will serve the moon? In-laws who are close to home, my father-in-law cooks well and my mother-in-law is diligent, so it is natural to take care of the baby together. But unexpectedly, the baby is still in the belly, and parenting has become the focus of debate at my dinner table. Once my husband and mother-in-law even quarreled, which made me very angry.

The second is the concern for children's health. Knowing that they were pregnant, a wave of relatives said they would come to help. It's hard for good people to refuse, but I'm a little scared to see the news that newborns are infected with pneumonia because of visiting.

And no matter my parents or in-laws, taking care of the baby is the experience of 30 years ago. When a child is born, everyone must go through a hectic running-in period. The thought of going through physical weakness in the second month and worrying about the child's urination and family internal friction makes me feel that the whole person is not good.

Therefore, after the interview failed, my husband and I booked a 50,000 yuan private hospital affiliated month club.

The picture is provided by the interviewee

It must be pointed out that we are not a wealthy family. My husband and I are both wage earners. We don't spend much at ordinary times, and we only buy cheap clothes. However, after learning that this month's center is the nurse's responsibility system and the children have isolated visits, I have a feeling that my hanging heart has finally been put down.

I just want to sit in peace for a month. At this time, I feel that it is good to spend money to solve the problem.

Xiaodong's idea is very representative.

Physical maladjustment, the challenge of breast-feeding and child-rearing, and the conflict of intergenerational ideas during confinement are all like a "Du Jie" for many people, so everyone hopes that the external buffer will make the most special problems at this stage fall to the ground after giving birth.

Can the Confucius Center really meet everyone's expectations?

Ali, who just finished living in the Confucius Center, said this:

@ Ali's daughter is 2 months old-it's easy, professional people have done professional things, so we don't have to worry so much.

I am the first child. At that time, forceps were used for dystocia. The child has a big scar on his face. The mother-in-law who once patted her chest and said that the baby was fine was too scared to hug.

Fortunately, I insisted on choosing the Confucius Center from the beginning. I don't think I have to worry about this problem when I live in it.

I milk slowly. At first, the baby was fed with a bottle, which led to nipple confusion and the daughter refused to breastfeed. If the head nurse of Confucius Center hadn't insisted on guiding the children to change, I might have given up on myself.

One-on-one service also taught me many ways to take care of my children.

There are more than 60 thousand in my month center. For me, its function is not only to take care of me, but also to give me a "transition period" as a mother. To tell the truth, I didn't sleep all night after I left the confinement center.

@ Li Yang's son is 2 years old-Confucius Center didn't gain weight at six meals a day, but gained weight at home 10 kg.

I am a mother with a second child. Because the first child feels uncomfortable in the confinement, the second child lives in the confinement center. I chose this 3.2 W, and the price is above our price.

Although I have experienced raising children, the arrival of a new life is still quite nervous. Fortunately, the Confucius Center can handle this matter.

But the most impressive thing is to say eat. According to the recipe, I eat six meals a day, and I haven't gained weight at all, and I have milk to feed. This is the value of the professional nutritionist in Confucius Center.

The picture is provided by the interviewee

In the interview, most mothers who feel better about Confucius Center said these key words: comfort, hard work and worry.

Is the Moon Center perfect?

Xiaoqi's mother in Shenzhen thinks so:

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I was confined a few years ago. At that time, I chose the confinement center for Huang Lei's wife and grandchildren. The basic package was 68,000 yuan. This center has various functions such as early education, swimming, pelvic floor muscle recovery, and maternal yoga, but it only needs to add money, and the most expensive one is 360,000.

The service of Confucius Center is really in place. There is a call bell in the room. Please call at any time. The housekeeper and aunt are responsible for laundry, two nurses take turns to take care of it 24 hours a day, and there are doctors, nutritionists and chefs. I have nothing to worry about.

At night, the baby and the mother sleep separately. I'm also going to see where they put the baby. At two or three o'clock in the middle of the night, the nurse is still breastfeeding, and there is 24-hour monitoring. There is an aunt who washes milk. Every baby's milk powder and bottle have labels, which are very detailed.

The picture is provided by the interviewee

However, being too happy has its drawbacks.

After coming out of the month center, my husband was busy with work, and I took care of the baby alone. I am really on the verge of collapse under the huge gap.

One day, I couldn't help crying. My parents flew in to take care of me for a few weeks before I regained my calm.

The Moon Center is only a transitional stage for novice mothers. Being a mother is hard work. In the end, you have to face it yourself.

Amber, an elderly mother, is also full of expectations for hundreds of thousands of month centers, but she feels that she thinks the month center is too perfect:

@Amber 38 old mother-in the first half of the second month, my husband was so angry that he wanted to hit someone.

I am the legendary "old-timer", so I did not hesitate to set up a108,000 month center, and I intend to throw all the problems to professionals.

Who knows that the child's jaundice value is not good, the nurse did not inform it in time, and the hospital had already issued a "critical notice" when it was found to be very serious. Husband is angry and wants to hit someone.

Although the child recovered after six days in the hospital, he was quite happy in the second half of the month. The center's diet, hygiene and maternal recovery are impeccable. It is really much more convenient for friends to visit than at home. ...

But I still advise you to be cautious: when choosing a month center, you should not only look at hardware, but also look at word of mouth, whether there is a strict child care system, and the qualifications of nurses and doctors.

I have told so many personal experiences of mothers today. Indeed, after experiencing the hardships of pregnancy and the fatigue of childbirth in October, I can avoid the chaos in the early stage of parenting and recuperate my body and mind in a comfortable environment through the scientific guidance of professionals. The benefits of the Moon Center are really obvious.

But what's more interesting is that almost every mother mentioned in the narrative that the Moon Center gave them a "transition period".

This transition period is not only physical, but also psychological.

What is reflected behind is that mothers have changed from pregnant women to real mothers. In fact, they especially want help and breathing space.

The moon center is just one of the choices.

Its role is short-lived, and the fundamental reason is whether mothers can get enough support, understanding and help. If you can get these things at home, what does it matter whether you go to the Moon Center or not? Please don't ask for a new moon?

Some pictures are from postpartum sanatorium.